Do Good, get Bad....

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Posted: 11 years ago
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The sole purpose of this post is to answer certain allegations logically. As I hate to create a ruckus on a forum friend's posts, I am creating a separate one. Also it promises to be long..so please bear with me. Again, as it is in answer to some points, it might feel like I am jumping from point to point...with no correlation...or context...This post it totally in defense of Rudra, those who don't support, please don't give me or my writings your time and patience, you will not find them worth.
- First and foremost, the only purpose of fake warrant was to scare Tejawat, and make him act hasty, so he makes mistakes, which he did. Rudra did not single handedly kill the entire baraat, neither did he start the firing. The terrorists (yes, it was not a baraat btw, they were hard core arm smugglers and terrorists), fired the first shot, and armed forces do not stand there like sitting ducks, ready to be shot at. When any agency starts hostile firing on men in uniform, they defend and they retaliate. They are our defenders, so firing back is a logical response. Hopefully, we all accept that. And a reminder, Rudra was not the first one to retaliate too. Hopefully, we all accept that. Yes, people died on both the sides, as happens in an encounter. Rudra killed some, who were all ganging up on him cruelly (we all saw the show..right??) So once and for all, he did not brutally kill an entire baraat, he and his unit were shot at first and they defended themselves leading to casualties.
- Secondly, when handling Paro, Rudra was not out to make friends. He was dealing with a suspect, in a case of arms smuggling across border, which hopefully we all know is a huge crime. A suspect who was also a prime witness, with whose help he was trying to break a ring of mass murderers dealing in lethal weapons for the past 18 years. Just want to point out, that such criminals, suspected of such crimes, are meted out various harsh and inhuman treatments in real life. Torture, rape, molestation, sodomy...just being a few unpalatable examples.The armed forces, any wing, any nation, have their own way to dealing with such human scum. Yes, human right activists have been struggling with issues for years, but if we want a realist show, we have to digest reality, however bitter it may taste. And Rudra's treatment of Paro was nothing, nothing at all, compared to real life.
-Paro by her own will returned back to Rudra's place, with a challenge in mind...dekhenge!! So essentially when she threw the gauntlet she was ready for whatever came her way, right?? And yes he was breaking a crucial witness here, and by hook or crook is expected from him.It was part of his duty, which not only means protecting witnesses, also breaking hostile witnesses. And he used whatever means he had handy. Would ppl have preferred if other, more physically cruel means, were used?? And Paro could have walked out any time or asked for help!! And no, no one can believe that Rudra would kill an entire village??? Really?? An entire village?? KCM even offered to help, but she said she trusted Rudra more than her. Go figure!! And I don't remember Rudra touching her at inappropriate or private places, or molesting her...He if anything was very very clear about his intentions, leaving neither in doubt.
-The wedding rituals...well if a marriage is planned, rituals follow. First, making her his fiance...not his idea. Getting married ...not his idea either. He just tried to take advantage of the situation. He did not want or make the charade public, if anything he was totally against it for safety reasons. He even asked Paro not to go for the jhaankhi...the girl had her own reasons to defy. And again he did not led her to believe that it was out of love, the deal was very clear from his side.
-How do we think hostile witnesses give their statements...happily and voluntarily?? Not under duress, or pressure...?? No tactics are required, no bargaining, no immunities offered?? No further comments needed here.
- I can say the same for Paro..right?? She too went ahead with the marriage plans, when she could have done something...anything, like taking KCM's help, or contacting someone for help, instead of resorting to prayers only.
-When Dilsher was attacked, Rudra asked multiple times (not once, thrice if my memory serves me right) from an eye witness, who was totally neutral, and confirmed. He also had other witnesses to support and corroborate the story. The question here...Rudra could have taken legal action against Paro. Could have filed a complaint against her, accused her of trying to kill her father, have her arrested. He did nothing, just accused her, and didn't take action except ask her to leave him and his family alone.
-Rudra is unbalanced?? TIme and again I have seen forum members accuse him of being unbalanced cause of his past. How?? How in the world does an imbalanced human rise to the rank of a Major and also win awards for bravery?? Isn't he the guy who ended an 18 year old arm smuggling racket?? Isn't he the one who stood like a rock in front of Tejawat and refused to bow under pressure?? Isn't he the same guy, who rescued a beautiful girl from being gang raped the first time he saw her?? And the one who sent not one but two beautiful girls back home honorably in spite of Aman's opinion. Or may be he is unstable, so he should have allowed the same beautiful girl to be shot by her so called hubby...good riddance?? Are we talking about he same guy, who took a slap for a beautiful girl, and tended to her painful foot?? Just a reminder there are plenty of rude and short tempered men out there...for that matter even women. Temper and rudeness does not make a man insane, if such were the case quite a few of us would be admitted in an asylum 😃
And we all have different definitions for crazy...well I can call some other characters delusional, un realist, self centered, living in a dream world, obsessive, ...but I won't.
-Rudra washed his hands off Paro after the Bapu Sa incident. He asked that another officer take over Paro's safety obligations. Paro refused point blank and decided to stick with him.
Rudra in essence has always saved, rescued Paro, not on one but on several occasions, not only from certain death but from also rape and human trafficking. Don't see how he deserves punishment ?? Just desserts at that??
I doubt if anyone here thinks that Rudra gives men a bad name, yes, I do think that most women are not like Paro here...and that is a different story. About Paro...she is getting what she insisted on, and asked for publicly, and don't they say be careful about what you ask and pray for!!
Once again...I hate to take sides. But if a character is openly and blatantly painted negative, I will rise to defend. Again, tomorrow if someone makes an openly unjust and negative post about Paro, my just responses will be forthcoming. Live and let live in peace !!
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NishaAP thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Looks like I am the only one who is sharing same sentiments as you. We are minority here 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have been thinking about some of the points you have mentioned...like the fact that she returned to ranavat haveli on her own free will is easily forgotten by many here... time and again I see posts here saying she was kept against her will... she was forced the marriage when in fact she had the chance to refute it... he did not like the jhanki and in fact was against it, it was she who went against his word... she willingly played along as his fiance- like making breakfast or serving him tea and I did not see her very much objecting to any of these...
Bottom line- Rudra did not deserve it! Does Paro deserve this hate marriage- No, but she definitely should anticipate something like this if she insists he marry her just because of her belief in "niyati"!!!!!! you cannot force anyone to love you! we know rudra has feelings, I doubt if she does!!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No, me too.

Like and agree with your post. I dont comment much but needed to do it..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Great post. I don't think we can blame Rudra for where he is now. As much as how we don't want to blame Paro for where she is now.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Wonderful post Eveline
You echo my sentiments exactly
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very good approach. Agree with you completely. In real world this would have been much much worse for a person like paro. I never comment. Silent reader. But had to comment on your post. 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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May be the officer is allowed to extract information out of a witness by hook or crook but that too within the regulations right..it does not mean you lie to your senior officer and take her to ur home.Does that really happen? Rudra always tried manipulating paro into signing the papers, he never tried making her see the truth so she would sign the papers willingly..had he directed his efforts in that direction then paro wouldnt have went through the torture she did at his hands.
And did he not insist for a full taam jhaam wedding..a full taam jhaam wedding means people seeing paro, not only during the jhaaki but during other rituals too?also lol @ the I can call other characters this and that but I wont..why so indirect, be direct and say what you want to say yaar.Its anyway clear who you are talking about..its like another way of saying no comments but anyway commenting after that.
And rudra did try to invade her personal space..for instance his leaning towards her in the kitchen, or before that when he came from behind he was in close proximity towards her.He did do some morally ambiguous things and that is fine because a lot was at stake and that is how is character is..what is not fine is terming all his acts as plain white acts.
Honestly your post is not that just or logical
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well written and thought out post. You gave me a lot to think about with regards to Rudra characterization. I complete agree that Paro is a character none of us can relate to while Rudra seems more real. The way he drank and behaved after losing all he cared about was actually a very honest portrayal. The forced marriage at the end was a bit hard to digest but seems that's the norm in serials😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good post. You have considered all incidents. All your points are valid. I surely don't think Rudra is unbalanced. perhaps I have missed the posts that claimed this.

While it is true that armed forces use all tactics to get hostile witnesses to come around, it is also true that when human rights groups come to know of it or it becomes public, then the person responsible for it is punished. The organization is aware of it and the officer also knows that should things come out he will be the fall guy. Besides Rudra himself said that he does not care what the outcome is, but he wants justice for his martyrs.
The same is happening here. At the end of the day, even Rudra will agree that the organization (BSD) needs to protect itself. Which is why he obeys orders and lets go.
So I still go with he had it coming...
on a lighter note... This should be a lesson to all not to mix work and personal life :-)

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