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Sometimes LOVE is not enough for maintaining a relationship but you need lots of UNDERSTANDING first then only can you TRUST a person.
These problems themselves will slowly lead Ashlok to a more understanding and trusting and stable relationship in future.Only it may take time and we have to wait paciently.
Shlok's main problem is betrayal of trust, so it's not easy for him to trust anyone easily,even himself,and his own family and even astha also even though he loves them and astha needs to understand his problem now more so ever as she promised him true love as he is.Slowly shlok will trust her definitely but will take time as she still has to prove the love she professes.
Please note that shlok saved astha from her blunders many a times in his own manner and anjali is slowly doing the same but silently.They may not openly support her as that is not wise but they give her many hints to guide her and anjali 's and shlok's, open support of astha is what lead to NA trying to harm her and therefore anjali id helpless but still helping astha in her own way.They have they own problems to deal with without astha adding to it, without knowing anything and creating more problems.
Shlok speaking sarcastically doesn't mean anything when his actions and emotions show his care and concern in many different situations to adtha.But even in his hurting words he's trying to rectify astha's mistakes as much as he can . That's shlok's way of speaking naturally, can't do anything about it except understanding.
Yes shlok himself should have given astha support too and he himself could have stopped the situation from blowing up by trusting astha but he can't go againt baba for reasons un known to us and astha should have trusted him with the evidence she had,but for all the love she tells she has she also doesn't trust him at all.So both are at an impasse they themselves will have to cross.
Shlok himself has broken astha's trust so many times and so when he realises that he has done the same thing to her that he thinks swati did to him and understand the hurt astha has gone through by his betrayal, is when he will start to redeem himself and prove his love to her. I just hope it's not too late.
Astha has now come to know that shlok will save her even by putting his life in danger and she told him that she knows that he loves her even if he doesn't tell her , so now she needs to give shlok time to accept his feelings before expressing them as she doesn't need any other proof of his love for her.
The divorce that is hanging over them like a sword is also making them to take decisions about their relationship and in away is making them aware of each others importance in their life.
NA is his father he loves very much so we can't expect him to jump his loyalties so fast as he himself might not know many things and where he doesn't have any proper proof too.He not wrong in safeguarding his father's image because we all do it to our parents too and we trust our parents more than anybody else in the whole world because we think they have only our true interests in they heart and it's very painful when that trust is broken by someoone we love as he feels anjali did.even though it's clear he loves anjali but now doesn't trust her.She will have to prove herself first.
.But shlok definitely manytimes saved astha from his father's wrath slyly and by taking the blame himself by his actions if not words..which adtha also doesn't know because shlok doesn't want his father's image to be tarnished in front of her.
Sometimes we are faced with such kind of situations where we have to select between our spouse and parents and it's better to deal with the issue delicately as we love both of them very much.It depends on the situation itself about how to deal with it. Sometimes we may take sides but that doesn't mean we don't love the others, even if we trust them or not, but they get hurt as they think we don't love them because we didn't side them.and many a times we do hurt our loved ones more, even if we don't want to and thats why a lot of understanding is needed along with love and trust to deal with the situation properly.
Looks like both even though love each other they need to understand and trust each other but shlok has become emotionally blind and adtha has become love blind.Maybe they need a small separation so that they will come to know what they really want from their relationship and each other.(I am one of those who wants them to be together very much,so no separation or divorce for me. I want them to be together and solve their problems as they do have love for each other very much).(unlike, varad and sojal,and jyoti and abhay, and NA and anjali).
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