Originally posted by: jyoti06
Paro's Love Realisation was Beautiful today the way she connected the dots right from her childhood moment when she gave away her doll to Rudra and then realised why she dreamt of Rudra throughout her life .. its not because he is her destructor but because he is her real protector and soulmate ๐๐๐ .. She finally realised that Shivji already decided her fate with Rudra long back , reason why she always had dreams of this man and when she finally met him , something always kept connecting them whether its his blood on her or the way their paths always crossed each other โญ๏ธ
First things First Fab post Jyo...Mindblowing!!! ๐ ๐ ๐
Paro baisa ne toh Yuvraj Singh ki yaad dila di...Sixer pe sixer maar rahi thi By God!!! ๐ Finally I got to see the growth in Paro's character that I always wanted to see. I agree earlier her mind was clouded with all that was happening around her but still we never got to see her use her brain, to even think for a fraction of a second why Rudra would go to such extremes for her and otherwise? That part never actually came but now that it is here, she is on a roll. The Doll was the one dot that went missing earlier to help her connect, help her make out the meaning between her and Rudra's relationship but today she understands that this is not some days ya weeks purana rishta but a story that started 15 Years back. Again we get to see a loop closure here because Paro once in her conversation with Bholenath told him "Bas yehi ek kami reh gayi, kash unka naam aapke naam mein se koi ek hota" and today she understands that her name was never meant to be joined with, taken with Varun...That Shivji had actually sent him the one that would complete her RUDRA' and in the Samaroh that is exactly what Parvati says. ๐ณ
Also the way Paro runs out of the house after realising that Rudra is her destiny and in the process she ends up getting her own footprints entering the house over that sindoor which falls from Maithili's hand indicates that her grihapravesh too happens today as in her heart she feels married to Rudra already ๐ณ is another fabulous scene โญ๏ธ...
I agree that scene was nicely done, vey poetically shot. The symbolism, that crispiness that was missing from the show for quite some time has sure made I's way back with this new phase and I hope it remains. Such things enhance the subject. In the initial weeks we used to get quite a few and now it's back and I'm loving it.
Then the way Paro makes her marriage proposal to Rudra in such a bold way without really shying away from public or society goes onto show real women power of today โญ๏ธ... Since we already saw the whole thing on SBB-SBS I was like Grrr...but what I loved about the scene was the beginning of it. The way she enters the hall and calls out to him "Major Saab"...I was clean bowled. How can somebody be so innocent? Yes she was dying to tell him that she is his Bachban ki saathi, the one whose memory he calls special and takes solace in but kisi ki parwah kiye bina, reaching the venue and calling out Major Saab was like perfect.๐๐ผ If you see even Rudra was stunned or rather sucked into the moment, I am sure bande ne itni pyaari Major Saab kabhi suni nahi hogi...There was an earnestness in the way she called out to him that I loved and the Proposal...Mindblowing! You can see that Rudra was in that moment with her but then as usual denial takes over him and he tries to escape from the moment, that trance she had him in. Shayad hi Rudra might have come across a woman who had the courage to speak up her mind before all and that too with honesty and purity that is hard to find. Plus not to forget this woman was beautiful too ๐ A combination he never came across so far๐ And remember Sumer's convo with Rudra "Gaon ki chori hai na isliye Sharma rahi hai" is what he said when Rudra asks did Paro agree for the marriage and look what she does at the Samaroh...LOL
And the best part is of course when Paro tells the story of their doll connection to Rudra and explains him the real significance behind why she gave away her doll to Rudra was simply beautiful ๐๐๐... We already analysed the doll symbolism in our own different ways but when the real symbolism comes right from horse's mouth it makes the real difference .. right ๐๐ณ .. So she gave away her doll because she believed that she is not really alone in this world who has suffered an emotional trauma , there is someone else too who might hv suffered a bigger emotional trauma in his life and thats when she decides to give away her doll to him so that he can find that peace and solace in that doll while she can feel better thinking she gave happiness to someone else ... So beautiful , selfless and a pure thought na ๐ณ๐ณ...No wonder Rudra was stunned with her explanation and the fact that Paro was always close to him right from childhood ๐ณ๐ณ... Loved Sanaya's expressions and Ashish's silent acting that moment ๐๐๐... This is what I wrote after seeing their first meet and was surprised when Paro spelled almost similar thing in the episode ๐ฒ
"First Meeting of Rudra and Paro had innocence written all over it. Paro seems to have more emotional stability than Rudra; because even though both Paro and Rudra had faced losses Paro recovered quite well in comparison to Rudra which is evident from the bus sequence. Even at such a young age she willingly throws her doll to him hoping that it would make him feel better. It was a spontaneous act one that shows that Paro thinks with her heart. The beauty of the sequence remains incomplete without mentioning the scene that followed. For Rudra what the girl did was a gesture he didn't expect but when Rudra decided to look out of the window when the buses departed, he sees her looking at him and waving bye with a smile. Rudra was remembering his father's words and crying when out of nowhere this young beautiful girl went on and did such a selfless act; one that put a dent in his father's "Seekh" about trusting beautiful women, because in that single moment Paro taught Rudra that beauty isn't skin deep and that real beauty lies in one's ability to bring a smile upon a crying face, in giving hope and spreading joy in others lives. With this sequence we finally see that Rudra is strong on the outside but is emotionally weak; whereas Paro is fragile outside but emotionally strong."
Even the episode before yesterday we can see what that moment means for Rudra. Even after 15 Years the words he used were "Meethi", "Pavitra", "Nisvarth" the exact opposite of what was taught to him about beautiful girls/women. He associates his friend with goodness which Paro actually is. The circumstances in which Rudra and Paro met and the way Paro was actually used by Teja (Which Rudra does not know about) is what makes him think of her as any other beautiful woman. Sanaya and Ashish were brilliant in the scene, actually they rocked the episode. Sanaya presented Paro in an very empowering avatar and Ashish made Rudra look so vulnerable and this time when not drunk. Rudra wanted to believe Paro but his tormented past makes him do and think otherwise. ๐ ๐ ๐
Even after the marriage proposal , when Rudra decides to walk away , destiny still makes sure they remain one as the sindoor falls right on Paro's forehead ๐ณ.. Paro understand the symbolism once again just like we viewers hv become experts in symbolisms ๐๐ but Rudra continues to b in denial because first he has his own set of prejudices and second its quite natural for him to react in negative as poor guy just got the bravery award and faced the biggest embarassment of his life too with a girl suddenly proposing him for marriage in front of his seniors ๐...So I understand his rejection too here ... he got some major shocks today .. first the doll connection and then sudden shower of love from Paro baisa for her jallad ๐,...It will take time for him to recover from these shocks before he goes onto marry her ๐ณTotally!!!! And I don't think it's more of a showering of Love that irked him, but that of respect and the whole soul mate connection she mentioned.๐ณ I am sure Rudra does not believe in all these stuffs but whatever Paro said was making complete sense which is why he tried hard to fight it๐. We don't know how many women Rudra has come across in his life but let's take the main 3 ones his Mom, Laila and Paro. With his mom who he loved more than anything in the world he got betrayal. The associating between him and Laila is more physical and now with Paro he is experiencing something he is not used to. Her Jhallad became Rakshak, she wanted to get away from him and now she is asking him to marry her...Yeh sab bande ke liye naya hai...and He has never faced something like this...for all that happened between him and Paro, he never expects her to think this high of him and that's what is suffocating him. She is saying all those good things that he never expected he would hear. As a Major he has always been respected but that is confined to that fraternity out of that world somebody respecting him is new to him and that's what's he is not able to gauge. I loved it !!!!๐ณโบ๏ธ
Marriage of PaRud will happen for sure because I knew his seniors will pressurise him to marry Paro now after the public tamasha as its not easy for a girl to survive in this cruel world after publicly declaring her love for someone plus Rudra himself has put the axe on his own feet by making his marriage with Paro public all over to catch Tejawat ... So now he got to take up the responsibility ๐๐What I want to know is how they are going to take this up. Humare Television pet oh Shaadi ke bina kuch hota nahi hai. In the recent times except for one show I guess which went for one whole year without Shaadi but with time to time the Shaadi drama, the rest every show follow the same pattern. Show shuru karo 2-3 months mein marriage...Wonder how Tequila Shots will pull this one and make it different.๐ณ Rudra will b really cursing his flop idea of asking Paro to marry Sumer now which gave rise to this new tigress who is all bold and fearless to marry her Jallad now ๐๐๐... He might b thinking what my company has done to this Paro ...Since when did she become this bold to confess her love for him and that too in public ๐ฒ๐... Well it takes real guts for a girl like Paro to speak her heart out to her man all loud and clear ... But Paro did it .. so take a bow Paro ... She did it in a cool and composed manner and never broke down or did any emotional blackmail either .. It was straight and to the point about why she wants to marry him ๐๐ผ ... Rudra had nothing to defend today ๐Oh I am sure he is...and Paro herself admitted na that staying with him, she has learned a lot of things. Poor guy! I loved the scene where she tells him that when a girl like her confesses such things in public she is considered Besharm...that actually caught his attention. When she said those words you could see that he felt that pinch but when she explained why she did not care he looks her with a new found respect of sorts which ofcourse he covers up fast and smoothly. What made Paro's confession stand apart was that her innocence glistened in that confession. She boldly proposes marriage to Rudra and tells him why they are meant to be before all but each and every line she said was laced with innocence. I could give the makers full points for pulling it out this way.
BUT BUT BUT ...I m not convinced that Paro is in love with Rudra yet ๐ค ... I see Paro's desire to marry Rudra as more of her worship feeling for RUdra when suddenly she realises Rudra is the choosen one by her Shivji ... She has not yet felt that passion or desire for Rudra but just a feeling of hero worship for Rudra where she wants to idolise him like her God and not human ๐ค... When Rudra tells Paro this is sheer madness , Paro replies back strongly saying this her Shraddha and respect for him ... So basically she is at a phase where she wants to idolise Rudra and mayb even do his puja .
Bingo she may feel she is in love with him because she says "Aur apna dil bhi" when he says hosh kho baiti hai tu, but ofcourse she is not. I completely agree that Paro's desire to marry is more out of respect, for all that he did and because now with the latest discoveries she realizes that they are meant to be and she does not want to let go off that because she did not embrace it when she could. She has already admitted that she feels the most safe when with him (to Singh Sir) and then there is the whole make up for messing up thing that is going on in her head along with Rudra wanting to shoo her off but yet the reason for her proposal arises from respect and maybe to an extent guilt too that this guy was trying to protect you, that time and again he asked you to trust him and she did not.
But the love phase can happen the day she will start feeling that passion and desire to go into her man's arms and allow him to make love to her โบ๏ธ and Paro is yet to enter that phase of love ... That phase will come only after they r officially married and he spends more time with Rudra in the same room ๐ณ ...
Main bol rahi hoon Jyo after the knee curling Mehendi segment and smoking hawt Haldi segment if they mess up the PaRud moments b4 marriage and after with the usual dose of eye-locks and trip, fall and catch I swear I personally will kill ST. After upping the heat of the scenes between these two and after SanIsh delivered such flawless performances anything below that level would be YAWN!!!
Coming to Rudra , its the opposite actually .. He does not worship Paro at all but he does feel that strong sense of passion for Paro which is actually love ๐ but unfortunately we know he will remain in strong denial for sometime now till he sheds off his prejudices ... So in Paro's case , she is yet to feel the sensation of love for Rudra as its just hero worship right now while in Rudra's case , he got to realise that he is in love as right now he is in strong denial ๐
Yeap and this better be one helluva of journey. Explore the dynamics of the relationship...Infact exploit it. With such an amazing on-screen pair one can do wonders on screen as far as Love-Romance-Passion is concerned and I really hope RR will be that one show which will make me fall in love with the concept of Love all over again after well you know
Rudra and Paro together will hv to decide this journey of Love and Worship now ... Paro got to start loving her man and not just worship him while Rudra got to start realising the value of Paro's worship so that he can accept Paro's selfless dedication for him and thereby accept his love for her too ๐ณ๐ณ
Can't wait for this