Have you thought this out...Paro?? - Page 9

Originally posted by: Suni

Firstly, what I saw was tripping and falling - not running into his arms. Secondly why not wait till tomorrow to talk/vent about this, knowing the CVs there will probably be an explanation for her running.

Originally posted by: Suni

Best explanation ever! That is exactly what I think the CVs were going for in her characterization. I just love, love her honesty. I too think that she is right now single mindedly focussing on making things right with Rudra and bapu sa. Not sure why everyone is worried about her getting attached so soon. She's not - the CVs have not shown any half way romantic scene between them after the non wedding. I'm sure the attraction is there but simmering on the back burner.

Originally posted by: eveline

Ok...that I am ready to do and even understand. As these discussions are about daily episodes, this is more about her reactions today, which felt out of sync from one frame to another. And I am talking about her and Rudra's comparisons with Shiva Parvati and also her running wildly towards him, both these occasions were felt inconsistent with her character and the flow of the show.

Originally posted by: ipkrr

Are we are saying here that she is so innocent and single minded that she does even not for a moment consider that running into Rudra's arms could be construed by him as her throwing herself at him as a woman. That she is projecting something without intending to and without a clue of how it will be perceived. That makes her seem limited and nave - does it not?

Originally posted by: eveline

Paro Bai Sa...so you have and are going all out to win his trust back. You want to be back, where you belong. And are determined to be back in his life, his family, his home...but have you really thought this out to the end?? Why..why do you want to be a part of his existence?? Why are you hovering around him?? Why are you just not ready to let go of him??

You want his forgivance, his acceptance!! Why?? So tomorrow if he forgives you, and accepts you, you plan to stay with him forever in this role?? Are you really thinking this through?? What exactly is he to you, your body guard..your rakshak forever?? Forever..hamesha?? What do you make him...when you compare him to Shiv and yourself to Parvati?? How can you mentally compare your situation and relationship between that of a husband and wife?? How can your equation and example be that of Rudra and Uma...the eternal Shiv Shakti ...the two parts of this universe?? What status have you given the man, and what do you think will happen if he accepts you?? You plan to stay with him forever...in what role?? Do you seriously think he is your fated one, your husband, your love??And what makes you think, he too has undergone a drastic and sudden change of heart like you, that he will happily accept you permanently in his life?

It takes but a night to change so drastically and desperately?? And what was all that running up to him at the temple??

Seriously at a loss to understand, where is Paro taking this?? Has she accepted this man as her meant partner in a day?? Has Paro even paused to consider the relevance of her thoughts and the consequences of her actions?? Can she even think beyond...Rudra??

I know my writing today is not even satisfactory but am seriously at a loss to understand Paro's emotions and feelings regarding Rudra. Her single minded determination to be part of Rudra's life and family...has me in a turmoil. It seems to be a case of too much too fast!!

Originally posted by: eveline

Yes, I have been very much and deeply in love

BaiSa...and continue to do so even after years. And this is not about love. Cause I don't think she is in love yet, or even knows what love means at this stage. This for her is all about asking for his forgiveness and acceptance. At least it was till yesterday's episode...and today...its about the silly things we do in love??If it is about love, according to you, then when did she fall in love...before or after the cup of tea or lunch??

There has to be some continuity, some flow ina story. It demands gradual logical progression. You cant have a girl struggling for acceptance and forgiveness and trying to prove her innocence in the morning from a man she respects as her guardian and in an hour you cant show her thinking of herself and the very same man as hubby and wife. And running crazily to him. I don't mind her doing so Bai Sa...but where is the smooth flow. Where have the dots been connected ?? Love is not instant, or now is it??