Originally posted by: CravingKhana
Saying is one thing ...but actions speak louder as they say ...
why go back to her for 8 years...?
(n small disclaimer have not watched )
the fear was that story telling was going to take the easy route and make her the sexual toy that grew a heart...and therefore her mistake...
He goes back to her for 8 years because she gives him what he wants ... to be crude about it. As long as he gets what he wants, why bother to find someone else? Too much trouble ... he's made his POV clear, and she still entertains him in her bed, feeds him ... he's getting the best of both worlds, what he wants from her, without giving anything in return. Win win situation for him ... why bother to change it? And he never thought he would want anything more anyway ...
But from a woman's POV, if a man makes it so clear every single time that he's there only for the s**, and doesn't want anything else, definitely not a commitment, then the woman does need to think about what she's getting into and why she's staying on in the relationship. If she doesn't, if she goes on hoping, despite all the rebuffs... that too, for eight long years ... she's a fool and asking for heartbreak. If she hasn't managed to change his mind in eight years, does she really think she will ever be able to change it? Better to cut her losses and leave while her dignity is still intact. If she did, he might have run after her and brought her back ... now there is no chance.