dadisa takes on Collectorsaab

dadisa showed why she is so much respected inspite of all her faults.
The way she tried to make the corrupt Collector understand and then getting angry and then the bangle scene. It is an old fashioned way yet endearing.
DS talking about environmental issues is a slap to the smug Collector.

Anandi should stop being a one man army and take others help. Glad that Shiv sensed and got information. Otherwise anandi would try to hide and let matters come to a boil. Anandi seems to use Payal only when she needs her and otherwise she forgets to keep in touch with her. If she had kept in touch with Payal regularly, she could have found out about ankita as well.

Yes ! It is heart warming to see a reformed Dadisa as an environmentalist ! Means she is gathering knowledge from papers and that ' com...computor' kuch bhee ho chori !"---

But here i have an objection !

Originally posted by: SEETHA.K

But here i have an objection !

Why everybody considered --wearing bangles as a shameful act ...---Does it not mean, the women who wear the bangles are lesser mortals and guilty of something ????

Personally i don't like to wear any sort of jewellery ... but love the poem written by Smt .Sarojini Naidu .The Bangle Sellers .. She considered the bangles as ...

Lustrous tokens of radiant lives,

For happy daughters and happy wives !!

I know this giving bangles will become a controversy. But traditions good and bad dont die easily and dadisa represents tradition and she is too old to change completely.

I collect colorful bangles and just enjoy looking at them.😊

I very much liked the way Dsa handled the collector yesterday.
She tried logic and sense with him and when it didn't work with him she decided that he is not worth the trouble and proceeded to show his place. 👏

But the gesture itself left mixed feelings because it was insulting to women and who wore bangles.
But It came from Dsa who is barely literate and was conditioned to believe women are inferior . If it had come from someone like Bhairon or J it would have been unpardonable.

@ leavesandwaves : I know this giving bangles will become a controversy. But traditions good and bad dont die easily and dadisa represents tradition and she is too old to change completely.

It is like who wears pants in the house.

Men opening car doors for women. Why women cant open those car doors for men?

Women are generally associated with certain delicate things while men are not.

There are still those barbie dolls selling like hotcakes while no one thinks of gifting those dolls for a boy on his birthday party. Girls dont receive those toy guns generally as gifts. Only tomboys among girls get those gifts from thoughtful people.

If a man walks like a woman(gracefully), he will be butt of jokes. If a woman walks like a man, she is appreciated.

So many contradictions!

Men are as much insulted as women.

She rocked in that confrontation with the DC, but...that bangles bit could have been avoided. It becomes too stereotypical..

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

It is like who wears pants in the house.

Men opening car doors for women. Why women cant open those car doors for men?

Women are generally associated with certain delicate things while men are not.

There are still those barbie dolls selling like hotcakes while no one thinks of gifting those dolls for a boy on his birthday party. Girls dont receive those toy guns generally as gifts. Only tomboys among girls get those gifts from thoughtful people.

If a man walks like a woman(gracefully), he will be butt of jokes. If a woman walks like a man, she is appreciated.

So many contradictions!

Men are as much insulted as women.

Both are at crossroads !!