Originally posted by: --Amulya--
Yes, the choice followed by the majority is construed as the right choice for everyone... I've seen that Naren's grandfather was just like him then he's a great man who din't force his children to follow his path... instead with great wisdom he might've thought that each person has their own choices and they can naturally differ, Naren's parents simply led their whole life of their choice without much constraints, married the person they chose for themselves and now they again want everything to go their way in even their son's life...
I personally believe marriage isn't an option to avoid loneliness especially for a person like Naren as he can be very much lonely even in a marriage as his perspectives are different from a common person. He's already happy and in peace with himself which most of us search from outside sources like in a marriage. Several great people in the history whose souls and minds were occupied with something of greater value never considered marriage and they led their lives happily and successfully too. A simple solution to everything is "A person can be the most happy only when he follows his heart without any constraints"...
True Amulya,the ultimate thing is that a person gets to be happy.And if someone manages to do it,then nothing else matters
But then we have to understand Amulya,like someone mentioned in a reply to another post about Naren still being too young to decide such things.That he must have experience,that he needs to start behaving like other kids his own age & see for himself whether he likes it more.If he doesn't well he can always get back to being how he was.But if he does in fact like it more,being a " normal " kid that is,then imagine the error he was gonna make in choosing a life on the basis of an incomplete understanding of things & having to live with it's consequences for the rest of his life.
Naren is still confused,still looking for answers & he needs some guidance along the way to get to know things better & in the process get to know himself better.
Like for instance when he left for this padyatra after Bholu's death cause he couldn't bear to see a mother & her child separated,yet in choosing to abandon his mother,he was doing the same or at the farm in how Pooja makes him see how mere rituals mean nothing if you can't keep your family together or in how on the occasion of his granddad's death anniversary,he is made to understand,to celebrate the accomplishments,the life & teachings of the person you love & not rue everyday of your life you can't be with him/her
And that is what his parents have been talking about.Supriya while talking to Pooja about Naren in the initial episodes talks about how he never smiled,liked to play like other kids did.As much as a parent is accepting of how his/her kid turns out,yet this is something very hard for a parent to come to terms with.After all who wouldn't want their kid to smile & be happy.
And so Naren's parents feel he is too young & might not have a clear grasp of things,of life,of everything in general & so they bring in Pooja to help him gain some insight.And like I said before if he still doesn't feel it right,then it's all good.At least his parents tried.That way neither of the parties would have any regrets.
Ishaani
Cricket
