Demised marriage , hopeless Abeer !!

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Nandini

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Posted: 10 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: madhufx9...

Oh god Tanu atleast u agreed , here I am not judging him , but I just want to convey his pain and state of mind all those years , people might be generous , but life teaches to control , he was in a state , that he had nothing in life , except for career . Generally people falls depressed and they dnt care abut money , I have seen plenty around me .

Hahaha so u r finally phankaaa of the show 😆

I'll always agree with intelligent people, Madhu. 😉

And yes, maybe I am becoming a prettty damn fan.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: madhufx9...

U r forgetting about Kubers daily dose of taunts to Abeer baby, now he will taunt him day and nyt, he is very aware , and he very well knew it hurts him , but then he did it for her . Though it was not right way. And in top mehers accident .

Yeah, his dad ..his Meher.. and you know what I doubt: he is going to last his Rockstar status too..
He is not going to the office for the god sake!

He would be left with nothing but pain :(

But hopefully all these things might help him to grow as a person, and I want Meher to stand by his side ...

Edited by .SSSS. - 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago

#23

Madhu 🤗

Good night baby! today's episode is mind-boggling. I need to sleep now I guess 🥱

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malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: madhufx9...

U r forgetting about Kubers daily dose of taunts to Abeer baby, now he will taunt him day and nyt, he is very aware , and he very well knew it hurts him , but then he did it for her . Though it was not right way. And in top mehers accident .

But I don't think Abeer cares about his dad's taunts. Like one of the reason you said-- he had no reason to save because of his dad's money but if his dad's taunts really affected him he would save because he wouldn't live off his dad at all. But even in college he used to spend his dad's money all the time being generous. Like he would give everyone brownies as gifts after throwing them in the water. So I don't think Abeer cares so much about what his dad says about money. I think he gets upset when his dad taunts him about Meher because what happened with Meher really hurts Abeer.

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suma madhuri

@madhufx9...

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Posted: 10 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: .SSS.

Yeah, his dad ..his Meher.. and you know what I doubt: he is going to last his Rockstar status too..
He is not going to the office for the god sake!

He would be left with nothing but pain :(

But hopefully all these things might help him to grow as a person, and I want Meher to stand by his side ...

Don't ask me I am hell scared of that hopefully nothing like this happen , even if happens , he should start a band , showing middle finger to sattu , heLl. With his channel , if they betray my Abeer 😆

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Posted: 10 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: malikakas

But I don't think Abeer cares about his dad's taunts. Like one of the reason you said-- he had no reason to save because of his dad's money but if his dad's taunts really affected him he would save because he wouldn't live off his dad at all. So I don't think Abeer cares so much. I think he gets upset when his dad taunts him about Meher because what happened with Meher really hurts Abeer.

Abeer is not showing off but he deep down cares his Dad's taunts. Do you remember when that Pinky track, while Nissar was calling to Kuber for help, Kabber cuts the phone then Nissar says to Abeer its a connection problem.. Abeer says Connection was wrong not the phone line but between me and my dad. with a sad look. I really do think Abeer cares for his father other wise he wouldn't have ran to police station on that day for his father when he comes to know he was there ..as we already saw :(

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malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: madhufx9...

I know he didn't help with his own money and that is going to cost him so high , Kuber will taunt him for life time . Divorce is. It the solution for every thing , if they had problems Abeer might have learnt , it was something new to him , he was born with golden spoon , and I think that was not the main reaso. Behind their divorce , and I am not concerned of his bank balance either Malika , I am just talking about his state of mind , he was lost he didn't find reason to save money , his father is rich and he has none to take care , he had nothing , so he gave money , I jus Want to say , why he needs money , epwhen he doesn't have hope for life . This is now a lost soul thinks .so he gave money .

And yes what he did today is going to cost him again ,using his shares to help mehers family. But once he realises , he still loves her and he still have people to take care , he will definitely save money .

I absolutely agree to the idea that Meher gives Abeer's life focus. Without her he is a bit aimless. But I also think he doesn't generally take things that seriously. Look at the way he is staying at home without going to office. For some reason he doesn't take his profession that seriously. And that's where Meher's taunts will come back to haunt him about valuing time and money. I think this issue is going to come up again with Nissar becoming Sattu's new golden boy.

Abeer has never had anything to prove in life... not only was he born with a golden spoon, he was also intrinsically talented. Everything has come easy to him. He has never had to struggle. He is a great guy but somewhere I think this lack of struggle has kept him a little immature. He just goes with the flow without planning or thinking about the future. I think that was a big problem between them. Meher's feeling from Abeer is that he didn't take his responsibilities seriously. Its not that he isn't a good man-- its just he doesn't understand why its so important. He has a very optimistic approach to life that he can just take care of anything if it happens. He doesn't really get that sometimes life can also be outside of our control-- that you can't just count on what you have today.

That way Abeer and Meher really complement each other. She needs Abeer to learn to live life in the moment and let out her inner child. Whereas Abeer's exuberance needs to be balanced out with Meher's caution and longterm planning.

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malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: .SSS.

Abeer is not showing off but he deep down cares his Dad's taunts. Do you remember when that Pinky track, while Nissar was calling to Kuber for help, Kabber cuts the phone then Nissar says to Abeer its a connection problem.. Abeer says Connection was wrong not the phone line but between me and my dad. with a sad look. I really do think Abeer cares for his father other wise he wouldn't have ran to police station on that day for his father when he comes to know he was there ..as we already saw :(

Oh I don't mean it that way... what I was trying to say was that I don't think Abeer cares about spending his dad's money. Nor does he care about using his dad's influence. Like Abeer knew his dad would fix everything with the goons.. and that didn't hurt his self respect. If his dad's taunts really bothered him he wouldn't want his father to do anything for him. He would be insistent on proving that he doesn't need his father for anything.

Abeer loves his dad and he does regret the lack of connection between them. I think a lot of his rebellious and irreverant nature is a direct reflection of the lack of support he perceives from his dad.

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suma madhuri

@madhufx9...

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Posted: 10 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: malikakas

But I don't think Abeer cares about his dad's taunts. Like one of the reason you said-- he had no reason to save because of his dad's money but if his dad's taunts really affected him he would save because he wouldn't live off his dad at all. But even in college he used to spend his dad's money all the time being generous. Like he would give everyone brownies as gifts after throwing them in the water. So I don't think Abeer cares so much about what his dad says about money. I think he gets upset when his dad taunts him about Meher because what happened with Meher really hurts

I said he didn't save money , bcz he didn't have reason. , and the reason is family not his rich dad.

Malika what I want to say is fate does bring change in every person , Abeer might have learnt living getting a grip of his generosity , only if his marriage was successful . U r not understanding other side, u r just seeing facts , yes I agree with facts , but I am trying to tell cause of that fact . He not caring money in college is total different , every rich kid does that , but after marriage , if that marriage had survived , he might have learnt saving automatically , u know right this not total reason for divorce , mehers too has her flaws , so marriage didn't survive , and he didn't get a chance to learn . I have seen many turning totally responsible after facing every hurdle in marriage , same might have happened with him.

But as I said, after divorce , he had nothing, breakdown is not simple, we loose hope for everything , nothing appeals , even money , Abeer born generous might have tended to be more generous . Bcz he didn't find need of money in his life , he had none to spend for , save for .

And suddenly she barged ack into his life . He felt for her charm again , he wanted help her family, he dint had , and he sold shares 🤢 ( I am still keeping hope ki, they are shares brought with abeers money ) God pls make true . I dnt want people to mad at Abeer 😆

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Posted: 10 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: malikakas

Oh I don't mean it that way... what I was trying to say was that I don't think Abeer cares about spending his dad's money. Nor does he care about using his dad's influence. Like Abeer knew his dad would fix everything with the goons.. and that didn't hurt his self respect. If his dad's taunts really bothered him he wouldn't want his father to do anything for him. He would be insistent on proving that he doesn't need his father for anything.

Abeer loves his dad and he does regret the lack of connection between them. I think a lot of his rebellious and irreverant nature is a direct reflection of the lack of support he perceives from his dad.

I got you :)

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