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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: madhufx9...
@ Malika

I have to admit-- I would like Abeer to reflect on why everyone is comparing him to Shyam just so that he gets some insight into how his actions are interpreted. For eg... the way Abeer told media people about his relationship with Meher and blamed her for the divorce-- taken from a different perspective its not that different from what Shyam did today which was basically humiliate his ex wife in front of the world. And of course in this world the man is never blamed for the relationship falling apart... the problem must have been with the woman. 😡 While I don't agree with Bua for putting Abeer and Shyam in the same bracket-

Baby chill🤣 seems u r still fuming 😆

I agree with u in this point , even I felt same when Abeer said that .

Hehe.. meh Meher ki tara hoon-- jaldi baatein bhool thi nahi hoon. 😆

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: madhufx9...
I have mentioned this point many times in past 4 days 😆
But Abeer confessing it made me feel Awww ❤️

Abeer knows what he wants , and that's y he went to Meher, night before divorce . And he is stillstuck to it. He made it as one reason to hate her all 8 years . And he kept accusing Meher alone for divorce. He wanted to straight issues staying together , but God knows what he has done , that made Meher to not consider his pleading .

He wanted her to take first step , bcz he is still stuck to that nite , when he pleaded her .

Kuber understands his son better than Madhavi 😆 he even said , this anger , this fights all these are just drama .

Married or divorced he wants to be Mehers Abeer . And boy confessed it today .

He is not a man of words , he is man of actions . Even today , he couldn't see Meher get hurt . His horrified expressions seeing mehers blood and the way he caught her leg examining it . New viewers of show can't make out that they are divorced unless they mention.

Future track mehers accident , I have no words , why cant shows be simple 🥱 I know Abeer will confess more 😆 but I want atleast one show to sort out things between leads in normalcy . Between I can't see Abeer crying 😆

Those 2 fathers 🤬

Hai meri jaan, you know I love Abeer... Abeer is a man of action... but the problem is his actions are confusing.😆 Pehle jatata hai ke saab ko tang karna chaata hai... lekin ab uske intentions change hogaye... lekin Meher aur Bua ko kaise pata uske intentions ke baare mein? How can they tell when he is being genuine?

He pleaded with her... but then he went and signed the divorce papers first. Abeer wants Meher to make the first move but Meher wants Abeer to understand her perspective. They both have ego problems.

And again today... I got the feeling that Meher's perspective is skewed because of Shyam. After seeing her mom... she doesn't want to be perceived as weak-- so she is overcompensating.

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Samanalyse

@Samanalyse

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: madhufx9...
I have mentioned this point many times in past 4 days 😆
But Abeer confessing it made me feel Awww ❤️

Abeer knows what he wants , and that's y he went to Meher, night before divorce . And he is stillstuck to it. He made it as one reason to hate her all 8 years . And he kept accusing Meher alone for divorce. He wanted to straight issues staying together , but God knows what he has done , that made Meher to not consider his pleading .

He wanted her to take first step , bcz he is still stuck to that nite , when he pleaded her .

Kuber understands his son better than Madhavi 😆 he even said , this anger , this fights all these are just drama .

Married or divorced he wants to be Mehers Abeer . And boy confessed it today .

He is not a man of words , he is man of actions . Even today , he couldn't see Meher get hurt . His horrified expressions seeing mehers blood and the way he caught her leg examining it . New viewers of show can't make out that they are divorced unless they mention.

Future track mehers accident , I have no words , why cant shows be simple 🥱 I know Abeer will confess more 😆 but I want atleast one show to sort out things between leads in normalcy . Between I can't see Abeer crying 😆

Those 2 fathers 🤬

I see what you mean when you say Abeer knows what he wants, but the problems is that he wants it on his own terms, and is not willing to take Meher's issues into account. Like I've said before, when he thinks from his ego, he wants Meher to say something like "Abeer I was a fool for leaving you, what a big mistake I made, I can't live without you" and then Abeer can raise his arms like SRK and hug away. Like you said, he wants her to make the first move, but I find that a bit unfair, especially when he is not showing her his side of the story.

Being a man of actions is well and good but it can be very confusing for the people around you because without words, the intention can be mistaken, no? I think that is what is happening with Abeer here.

I totally agree that Kuber knows his ladle better than Madhvi! 😆 If only he could know Meher half as well!

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Samanalyse

@Samanalyse

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: coldy07
Lovely post. 😳
Even I was glad to see this Abeer today. The one who was actually proud of Meher and her achievements. Though , all these days he was pestering her and try to prove otherwise, she needs him, etc, etc. but deep down he respects her. 👍🏼

He really cares for Meher and her family. I don't know why they separated. *Sigh*

I guess after the accident, we will definitely see both of them become a little more friendly with each other. Meher might lessen her stoic behaviour. Things will build up, some attraction.

Then I don't know. I wonder if the divorce reason, the alimony and Meher's secret are individual cases by themselves, or are all interlinked. I suppose if one revelation will bring Mehbeer closer, the other might pull them apart. So between all these revelations, things will progress in wave form.

I also liked how they kept some funny dialogues for Abeer as well today. That way it's balanced well. 👏

@bold: It's all getting more and less clear at the same time! 😆 I think you are right about the wave progression of the story. I feel that, because of the conducive environment that Suman is creating, Abeer and Meher are starting to get along better, as they naturally would. It's almost like they are falling back into old patterns... but until the reasons for divorce are addressed, no real progress can be made.

Totally agree about the balance of the story as well! 😊

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Samanalyse

@Samanalyse

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: malikakas

Edited by Samanalyse - 10 years ago

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@bepannaahpyaar.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Can I just hug you for this post. 🤗

These were my EXACT feelings today, I loved Abeer so much today. A sense of genuine pride for the man who can make us laugh but also has a spine.

Thank you,

Kriti

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malikakas

@malikakas

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

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neetha

@neetha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

very well said

First n foremost two best scenes wic made me fall for this man Abeer more today!

* The way he says, mummyji ka beta..ufff this called "Being a MAn" . How much he loves suman and the way he gave it absolutely the right way to tat looser! How dare he even compare himself with Abeer... How he said that no amtter wat happened with him n meher he never got married.That also makes it clear that he could never frgt her, that's y he never moved on and he is still there with a hope

* Meher hai inke saath! Now that clearly shows that how much he is proud of Meher. This clears one more thought that for the past tiffs m sure Meher and his job level would never be a reason! This male isnt a male chauvinist! He hold high respect for woman and their growth in career n i so love that in a man!

The best part i like in teh character here is no matter wat things might have gone wrong in the past, certain relationships never change. They are bound to each other cox of love, respect they hold for each other, wic is beyond teh one's in papers!

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IntrovertedDame

@IntrovertedDame

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Lovely post, Samanalyse !

Abeer certainly stood tall yesterday. His concern for his Mummyji is so endearing. He couldn't bear to see her embarrassed like that, esp. in front of everybody. Moreover, he also looked a little aghast to have Meher's name taken in that context- that both mother and daughter are separated from their husbands. It brought his hackles out and he practically rushed to the gossip hounds to defend his mother-in-law and ex-wife.

And I LOVED the scene where he prevents Shyam from manhandling Suman- usually, you get these scenes with the heroine and another man- but this absolutely made my day.

I agree with the essence of what Abeer was trying to say- that unlike Shyam, he has always respected and loved his ex-wife and didn't move on in spite of getting a divorce legally. No one can debate that at all- the awe with which he sees Meher and the immense respect he has for her strength. Even though he chides her for being a cold-hearted businesswoman, I think that he's proud of her achievements- for instance, he again and again talks of how diligent she was in her studies back in college- it seems like he was impressed by her dedication throughout, and still is.

However, I do think he has been remiss in the same aspect as Shyam- he did bring their story out on national TV and even gave that interview wherein he gave his side of the story- which appeared to be painted with a rosy tint- that he was hopelessly in love with her and gave her whatever she asked for-love, marriage or divorce. This is actually true, but I think Meher came off looking like the bad guy from his interview. And he HAS taken some unwarranted liberties in the office to irritate her. using everyone's lack of knowledge about their relationship- the dart scene, for instance.

Yet I will still give him the benefit of doubt because he was the one who was immensely pained by the guys gossiping about Meher after she made the revelation public. All the acrimony he displayed was probably the result of coming face-to-face with her after such a long time. His old wounds were reopened and he lashed out in a fit of witless anger, perhaps. That's why after staying at Meher's house and personally interacting with her, and seeing her anguish, he's become more mellow and eager to appease her.

At this juncture I have two q's for you :)

1. What do you think of the accident track?

2. I personally didn't like the Meher/Zeher joke- it was supposed to be in good humor but it seemed like one step forward and ten back. What did you think of it?

Brilliant post, as usual!

Edited by -Amri- - 10 years ago

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Samanalyse

@Samanalyse

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Posted: 10 years ago

#20

@Ravinanaik, IttisiKriti and PRINCESS_ALISHA: Thanks for the responses and appreciation!

@malikakas: You're discovery about how much Abeer trying to act like Meher's husband could hurt her has been a revelation! It has really opened up so many more facets of the story and Meher's characterization, so thanks for that awesome observation! I agree that it would be really hard for Meher to even think about getting back together, given everything she has experienced and now wants to erase from her life. In fact, with regards to the Meher-Abeer endgame, it is Meher who is far more worrying. Abeer's deal is somewhat simpler: has feelings for her that he tries to deny because he feels like she would only trample on his heart if he were to trust her. They say that acknowledging there is a problem is the first step to solving it and in that sense Meher is one step ahead of Abeer. She fully understands and acknowledges her feelings and wants to get over them... maybe even with the intention to start afresh and find someone else way in the back of her mind? I mean, I don't see it right now since she is so closed off but that would be the ultimate way to reject Suman's path. That's why I wasn't too surprised when there were rumors of her having a fiance... it could fit either way.

As for Suman, I know she didn't do as good a job as she wanted to but I do have to give her credit for going the extra mile with Meher given their circumstances. We have seen her so many times, push Meher to release her emotions when Meher thought it was better to keep them bottled up, and provides her a safe and non-judgmental space in which to do that; I really appreciate that about her parenting. I am sure it was this influence which allowed Meher to let Abeer in eventually in the past as well. Suman's nurture of her emotional side has a signifcant place in Meher's way of dealing with the world, but the burden of watching her mother and Bua struggle to survive, thanks to her dad's abandonment so overwhelmed anything that Suman could do to correct it.

@neetha: Thanks for the great response! I agree that Abeer is not an MCP in principle, but when it comes to Meher, he sometimes appears like one because he is so upset by the fact that she doesn't need him. It's personal for him, but he does himself a disservice by expressing it the way he does to her, like he can't see the difference between ambition and greed. It was great to see how he really feels about these issues and about Meher!

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