Originally posted by: Perfangel5655
agreed!
Butts you were 20 and I understand you were rude and blunt like Gur. ( not insulting you but you said it so I am repeating) I see why you empathize with Gur. your husband LOVED you. Yash does not love Gur. yaar I don't get it. If he keeps mentioning so many times it was not love why is everyone trying to make it love. It's silly to fight with your mom for someone who you don't love. is it not a insult to your mom if she said I don't want a blunt bahu and that is exactly the type of girl you married despite the fact that you weren't even in love with her. It was not a live with her or die situation.
As for my story I also don't sit around for double standards. I like to say what I have in mind. But I believe everything has it's proper place, and it should be done with a cool head and manners. I did lose my cool when I was going through the rough phase in my relationship. I cried almost every other day in my room. That's why i liked Gur and admired her strength. I always felt the parents had a right to who they liked. My ex bf was a total family man and i realized his family wasn't meant for me. I eventually moved on. Not once do I think they were wrong to ask for a homely girl who would take care of the family all the time, be so respectful to a point where they would not disagree with their elders.. I just felt that wasn't me. 😆
Even if you justfy her reaction toward yash's mom she is still horrible for all the things she has said about the other girls. If you want to blame the age do so. I am 20 and I don't act like that. Even when I was 16 I did not act like that. She never changed. A classy person does not behave like her. Yash and his mother are classy, and they deserve a girl who match at that level.
Another thing Butts I do apologize from the bottom of my heart If i ever offended you. Sometimes words can seem wrong though it wasn't meant that way. None of it was against you personally. Do forgive me yaar. Sorry And congrats Mommy to be 😳🤗
[/Q first of all thanku for everything.
but my dear i replying u and want u a good husband not like yash .pls u will understand my point when u will be married so i want to wait for that i want to tell u dont idealised yash just pray to GOD u get good and loving husband ..i dont want to say u even i dont like ur comments about gurpreet but still i dont want u a husban like yash and morther in law like her ..trust me and wait after getting marriage u wil have an idea .wish u good for ur future dear .life is so hard and u need a supportive husband who love u and stand for u whenever u needed and u dont feel ever alone.take care and bye