Originally posted by: Perfangel5655
Wow!! Saying I don't see my bahu in Gurp equals to having no parents ( who were probably killed in some type of violence) then getting brainwashed by violent people all your life. Then become an adult who has never really experinced a life outside of that surrounding.Oh my poor fragile Gurprit. 😠Yash's mother must been treating her like a housemaid since the first day. She probably didn't have anything to eat like the terrorists. No place to sleep, no one to go to.. She was traumatized ðŸ˜Sorry butts I don't see your point. I tried!!My ex's mother, sister and brother said I wasn't the right girl for their son. They were in love with the girl who dated my ex before me. I heard so many things from his mother, and sister. And his dad who never said anything to me but to his mom and him. I didn't act like Gur.
You know the problem is that people like to live in cocoon....... they don't see and haven't seen many normal girls going through such experiences, but still maintain their integrity and dignity and come out even more stronger than before.......Seriously, you are what you are......experiences do play a role at certain extend, but in the end it is up to us whether to take such phases as a learning experience or be sour and hate the whole world for ones' misery !!!!
P.S: I'm sorry to hear about your experience with your ex's. It sounds terrible. But you seem to be a strong girl to handle such crisis or may be you came out more stronger after such an incidence😉. Life does teach you a lot. Either you succumb for your misery or you move on with the flow of life and enjoy it fully with the ups and downs😃.