Why are these moms taking it personally - Page 4

Originally posted by: yyyy

Hitesh mom has used the word "Nikalo" for girls then why is she having a problem with Priyanka...i think bidaai is rarely used for guys and that might be the reason for Priyanka not using it..<br>

yeah thats true...but then the whole "elder-younger" issue comes up right...and these are old women who are looking for a bride...and at this stage every little thing is going to bug them

Originally posted by: navreet143

I think people like her thats why she became "Bride of the week" twice in row!! Lets see.....it might change tomorrow!!

i dont think u all know how this voting works...its all bogus... people can make as many ids and can vote as much as they want..its manipulated by rajbir..coz hes done his preparations well... i heard of some guy in my locally you took part in some indian idol kinds show..and he made 4000 ids and booked 2 cyber cafes for this purpose...and finnally won...

people would do anything for 25 lakhs and esspecially a girl whose background is not even worth commenting on..

and people are voting for rajbir and not his mom.. people are voting for rajbir, he s with priyanka so she's getting all the same votes...

Originally posted by: priya09876

she is not as dumb as she looks... she is going to eliminate hitesh coz she knowss pooja is her only competetor on the show.. and if hitty goes.. pooja will have no one and will be going ehre and there... so she will choose hitesh...
and i liked th way hitesh's corrected her.. its not ab out taking personally... she should watch what words shes using when talking with others on national TV.. as far as i know hiteshs mom has never said anything wrong about any girl on the show.. expect that vrinda is not suitable for her son... that all i can think of...ya she s done other dramas...

as such priyanka has got all the publicity coz of raj... otherwise who would look at her.. i dont think she at all talented.. i think she should learn how to remain down to earth and stop playing politics in the house.. just make her decisions and thats it... no one likes her except for rajbir..

i know poeple that my views are different from other..so im sorry if it offended anyone

Originally posted by: navreet143

Hitesh's Mom needs to go home......she cant stand the fact that Priya will be sending someone home......Typical Mother in Law attitude!! Cant see young girls taking decision!! I will so happy if she will go home tomorrow!!!

Ok been inactive in the forum for long, but again what I want to say is that even if Pooja gets selected Bride of the Week, she doesn't get the power to eliminate any of the guys till almost a month from now. So tmrow's elimination is just in Priyanka's hands. So all Pooja and Priyanka fans please don't argue over someone having an equal hand in making the decision.

Next thing, I don't think there is anything wrong in using the word "Nikaalna hai" by Priyanka. Sometimes we all also use many words that we are not supposed, and then correct it. As a couple of u said, u have to watch what u r talking as u are on National TV, then that in my view would be faking arnd to create a good image. U are there to be urself and not act or behave the way the audience want to see u. and any person in normal life makes such mistakes of using the wrong words at wrong times, and other ppl arnd them do correct them, so nothing wrong in when she uses the word and then corrects herself on being pointed out. She's just being normal. even in our day-to-day life we use words like nikaal dena and we don't use words like nishkashan or bidaai. It's again the same argument that we had when Vishal was replaced by Romit. The channel claims that Vishal was replaced bcoz he was not able to use the words kunwar, kanya etc as often as the channel wanted. But isn't that true? do u all use those words in ur daily life? Atleast I dont use, not sure if u guys use it. Then why should priyanka use them, can't she just be what she is and use her normal language. Kamaal hai yaar, jab suchitra was using words like dimaag ka dahi, or when Hitty fights with the guys, none of us objects to them, at that time we don't say that they are no national tv, so they should watch their words. Then why do we always object to whatever Priyanka does.

Give the poor girl a break guys, if she is the PBOW for two weeks, then it's not her fault. It's our fault, bcoz we are voting for her. If we don't want her, then why vote her. We are voting, thats the reason she is PBOW. Instead of blaming her that she is manipulative or acting arnd, why not we look into ourselves and analyze why we r even falling into her. If u think that she is trying to fool everyone, then we should try to appreciate her intelligence that she is actually been able to do it. We are at fault and we r just trying to now put all the blame on her. Why do we even give a chance to someone to fool us? Grow up guys, stop blaming the poor girl and use ur brains. If u really feel she's faking, then stop voting for her. Atleast leave the poor soul alone, her being the PBOW is not her fault. Then why should she suffer for someone else's fault.

As far discussing with others is concerned, plz go back to saturday's episode and check it again. No where did Romit mention that she is not supposed to discuss it with anyone else. The only thing he said was u have to make the decision and eliminate the groom. and they did not show us anywhr in the whole week that a message was sent to her, that she is not even supposed to discuss it with anyone. So why do u care of what the voice-over says. Would u like if someone comes and gives a voice-over of ur conversation with someone, when this person giving the voice-over hardly knows what u r talking or whats going on in ur miinds?

Think over it, and then you would know. It's all to get TRPs and just to add masala to the show.

Originally posted by: sweet_jindagi

I just like to point out one thing that what if priyanka wouldn't have discussed the elimination thing or asked the other girls opinion then we all will never come to know that she is not supposed to discuss the elimination and then we all would have started blaming priyanka that she is so cunning and all that she not even asked other girl's opinion on this and bla bla.

so in the end i'll only say poor priyanka...

Why does every thread become a Priyanka thread?I went with what the voice over said and wht my understanding about the guy's elimination is concerned. Let me tell you, none is completely virtuous and none is completely a beast. Priyanka is a human and bound to make mistakes. I started this thread saying why these motheras are offended with the show's format. And usko chodke you are commenting only on the point on which you know to argue on pri is solely supposed to make her decision and I am pretty sure leaving Raj and Yash, the other three would be her bottom three. She was just taking others opinion for formality and not coz she wanted to conider their POV.

Mou--BTW, mujhe doosre kaafi kaam hai. Thinking about Pri 24/7 is not my job😛

Hey SAS, thats what exactly is happening in the whole forum. I just logged in as my weekend has started, and everyone is just fighting over her. As far as the MILs taking it personally is concerned, thats again human nature. Take up any household, and our elders would like to make the decision, any point of time, if the kids end up making a decision, the elders do get hurt, though they might not always show it. It just depends upon the kind of ppl they are, whether they openly express their discomfort over the kid making the decision, or silently accept it. Since we are kind of getting to see alot of these MILs, we do understand that they are not the types who would silently accept it. So I don't think there is any use of even fighting over it. And that Momma Hitty is one Pain in the A**.

Originally posted by: axeion

Hey SAS, thats what exactly is happening in the whole forum. I just logged in as my weekend has started, and everyone is just fighting over her. As far as the MILs taking it personally is concerned, thats again human nature. Take up any household, and our elders would like to make the decision, any point of time, if the kids end up making a decision, the elders do get hurt, though they might not always show it. It just depends upon the kind of ppl they are, whether they openly express their discomfort over the kid making the decision, or silently accept it. Since we are kind of getting to see alot of these MILs, we do understand that they are not the types who would silently accept it. So I don't think there is any use of even fighting over it. And that Momma Hitty is one Pain in the A**.

The show is about "Perfect brides". The focus is not on Guys and not on their Mothers. The guys and moms are there coz of the girls. Secondly, when the MILs eliminate the girls, its alright and when the same the girl does its considered rude?😕 And if only MILS control all decisions in the household, then ho gaya kalyan😲 At some point the kids have to fend for themselves. I find Hitty's mom way too immature than any other girl. She is just wearing a garb.

I don't want Momma Hitty to go, but again she is horrible. She needs all the attention and what not. She is even worse than the girls like u said.

Originally posted by: sunandshine

Why does every thread become a Priyanka thread?I went with what the voice over said and wht my understanding about the guy's elimination is concerned. Let me tell you, none is completely virtuous and none is completely a beast. Priyanka is a human and bound to make mistakes. I started this thread saying why these motheras are offended with the show's format. And usko chodke you are commenting only on the point on which you know to argue on pri is solely supposed to make her decision and I am pretty sure leaving Raj and Yash, the other three would be her bottom three. She was just taking others opinion for formality and not coz she wanted to conider their POV.

Mou--BTW, mujhe doosre kaafi kaam hai. Thinking about Pri 24/7 is not my job😛

"First of all, these girls have a trouble taking instructions. When asked from Pri that it will be her decision alone, why does she even talk about it to others? Is she being considerate or politically correct? so that none blames her?"