Why are these moms taking it personally

Its the format of the show that PBOW will eliminate one guy and his mom. These mom's esp, Gulabo was quite rude and taking it personally. In the precap they showed her syaing "Aisa lagta hai humare bacche humein ghar se nikal rahe hain'
Well, Lady! so you eliminate girls you dont like and call it 'Vidai' and the same if the bride does its called as 'ouster'?

First of all, these girls have a trouble taking instructions. When asked from Pri that it will be her decision alone, why does she even talk about it to others? Is she being considerate or politically correct? so that none blames her?

maybe Hitesh's mom is scared that priyanka might elimiate her and her son Hitesh, which I think she should do. They need to be eliminated.

Hey SAS, coming to the forum after long, and found ur topic in here. Well I am not sure, if I agree with u. I don't think there is anything wrong in talking about it, only thing she has to keep in mind is that she takes the final decision all by herself. And there was an episode teaser, where she confesses that she would make a note of everyone's views of everyone else. So I guess it's more like a rating system, where u j ust rate everything and then eliminate the least popular thing. And I don't see why she should not do it. it's just a simple tally marks system.
It's just how we look at things, like her sister had once mentioned in the chai meeting, looking at two sides of the coin. She might think it's a head, but it can be tails for the other person. In her POV. one of the guys might not be compatible with the girls, but for some girls that guy might be the best. Like if we take Pooja and Hitesh, or even Rumpa and Gaurav. Both Pooja and Rumpa are serious abt these guys(atleast Rumpa, if not Pooja), but again both of them would not mind these guys going out as they might look at other options too. So it's like analyzing if there is an alternative to everyone's first preference and would eliminating someone really affect someone or not.
It's always good make knowledge decision than hasty decisions, as they say No knowledge is better than Half-knowledge. But since she already knows a lil bit, she has half-knowledge. So why not convert it to full knowledge for better decision-making.
This is my opinion, and I won't mind if she even eliminates Raj. As such Raj doesn't have a real good chance with many girls. Most of them already know that he is really not keen on knowing anyone else.

SAS, as far as the moms go, I agree with u. Momma Hitty is trying to be somewht over friendly n stuff. So I don't actually support her. The moms should better mind their work and let the girl make her decision.

I find nothing wrong with priyanka asking everyone for their opinion.😊 She can still make the decision on her own, but to make the right decision she should hear what all the girls have to say as this affects them as much as it affects her.

But, it was already announced that Pri alone would take the decision without consulting anyone. The voice over especially mentioned that..Lets wait n see what actually happens😃

It was only said that Pri has the whole responsibility of eliminating the guy, and that it would be her own decision, but it was never mentioned that she can't consult anyone. I really don't like the voice-overs in this show. They so much try to force their views on to the viewers, like the way they were talking abt Pri and Yash, but today Pri clearly said he is a good frnd to even his mom. Its just that the ppl doing the voice-over are themselves not aware of whats happening in the minds of the contestants.

its against rules to even ask opinions ...they said so in the telecast...so first she broke rules...2nd. .. she 's creating a fear among MIL so they masaka karo her. 3rd... she's telling all she's yet to decide and needs their opinion to create a fair image..so all say waah kitni nayakari ladki hai...4th...akhir mein wahi karegi jo woh decide kar chooki hai already...all this being fair is just to create good impression on all...and to gain importance especially in the eyes of those MIL whom she won t eleminate.

Originally posted by: axeion

It was only said that Pri has the whole responsibility of eliminating the guy, and that it would be her own decision, but it was never mentioned that she can't consult anyone. I really don't like the voice-overs in this show. They so much try to force their views on to the viewers, like the way they were talking abt Pri and Yash, but today Pri clearly said he is a good frnd to even his mom. Its just that the ppl doing the voice-over are themselves not aware of whats happening in the minds of the contestants.