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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bitasta



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When she proposed the deal, Arjun was Purvi's fiancee and Purvi's would be husband... He was Ovi's husband then??? Until one qualifies the Ken dolls one has stamped as own's as one's husband, I don't understand how Arjun was Ovi's fiancee or HUSBAND even when that nefarious deal was proposed... So at the time Ovi proposed to sell her mother's happiness in exchange of Arjun, he was Ovi's husband ALREADY??? An information I never had before!!!!!!

Ovi was drinking because Arjun was two timing her??? When???? Purvi was not even in the town at that time? so two timing???? With whom???

And of course any pregnant woman who is angry with her husband can do nothing except draw down neat shots; one after another in a deliberate attempt to harm one's fetus..


ya... i din't understand two things'" 1)arjun ovi's husband? And 2) arjun's double timing... Please explain !?!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In the PR that I had watched Purvi neither knew about Ovi's presence in Arjun's life nor was Arjun Ovi's fiancee then.. He got engaged to Ovi AFTER he and Puri fell in love with each other..
Hence neither Purvi deliberately fell in love with her sister's fiancee and BETTER still nor was Arjun Ovi's fiance then...

I also remember Purvi slapping Arjun, maintaining distance with him and even being downright rude to him once she came to know about Ovi post Arjun's engagement with her

So how did she fall in love with her sister's fiance?? And how is it bad when she neither know about it nor was Arjun engaged to Ovi?????

And how is it bad for mahaan devi to want to marry the man she loved when that alliance was fixed by her elders and the most by her aai whom she idolized and worshiped????

But NO lets have all the expectations from Purvi that she should have ceased loving Arjun once she knew about Ovi... I wonder why the same is not expected of Ovi: Since Arjun had fallen in love with Purvi, made it clear, earned the slaps for the same, left all the riches behind, led a menial life and even took bullets for Purvi, then why shouldn't Ovi have stopped loving him????

Edited by bitasta - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: bitasta


@ Bold : Correction..

When she proposed the deal, Arjun was Purvi's fiancee and Purvi's would be husband... He was Ovi's husband then??? Until one qualifies the Ken dolls one has stamped as own's as one's husband, I don't understand how Arjun was Ovi's fiancee or HUSBAND even when that nefarious deal was proposed... So at the time Ovi proposed to sell her mother's happiness in exchange of Arjun, he was Ovi's husband ALREADY??? An information I never had before!!!!!!

my mistake.. i meant fiancee not husband... i typed wrong...

Ovi was drinking because Arjun was two timing her??? When???? Purvi was not even in the town at that time? so two timing???? With whom??? I don't think it was possible for arjun to two time Ovi with Purvi as he did not even know about Purvi's whereabouts then... Perhaps I missed watching Arjun having an affair with a third girl..


yes ovi drank because she was insecure... arjun was cheating her..
cheating need not be only physical or having a relationship.. he only had purvi in his mind and even though he was Ovi's husband, still he used to think of Purvi and ovi knew it...
After marraige, thinking of your ex flame is wrong isnt it?😕

And of course any pregnant woman who is angry with her husband can do nothing except draw down neat shots; one after another in a deliberate attempt to harm one's fetus..

NO.. i already said ovi drinking was a big mistake but we should try to understand the situation which lead to it...

Edited by pari-kirloskar - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar


no.. no purvi is not responsible for gauri's death or mansi's rape..
Rape is a very serious crime and only the rapist is responsible...
I agree with your post, even though I dont personally like Purvi in the serial and she has made many mistakes but so do have other characters...
but she is definately not responsible for Rape..
and regarding soham killing gauri.. how is purvi responsible for that.. at that time she wasnt in INDIa.. but she is responsible for sheltering a criminal...


It is funny how you have "LIKED" the post where Purvi has been blamed for Mansi's Rape and considered worse than a Rapist but here you are saying you do not agree with it.😕
You have every right to like any post in the forum but I'm just curious to know why is your reply not directed to the post where this horrible accusation was made.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: style14


It is funny how you have "LIKED" the post where Purvi has been blamed for Mansi's Rape and considered worse than a Rapist but here you are saying you do not agree with it.😕
You have every right to like any post in the forum but I'm just curious to know why is your reply not directed to the post where this horrible accusation was made.

I dint " like" the post for purvi being blamed for mansi's rape.. i liked the post because it was written purvi responsible for sheltering a criminal...
surely I dont have to reply to each and evry post.. i did reply to this one where I have defended purvi right?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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You want a person to forget his true love in few months? It is very difficult to do it... Ovi should have moved on in her life, she would have let arjun marry purvi and be happy in his life... If she cant forget arjun, how she can accept it from arjun..?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: amu_mannu

You want a person to forget his true love in few months? It is very difficult to do it... Ovi should have moved on in her life, she would have let arjun marry purvi and be happy in his life... If she cant forget arjun, how she can accept it from arjun..?


yes.. u asked a very valid question.. even I dont have answer for it...
All i can say is...i know to forget your love is very difficult but after marraige people do start loving their husband/wife slowly over time.. and not sit mourning like a devdas over love failure😕
when u marry, u take saath pheras and vows and in that your partner's happiness is your responsibilty...
but arjun always only thought of purvi.. wont ovi feel insecure?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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my mistake.. i meant fiancee not husband... i typed wrong...

Not even a fiancee... Arjun had broken up with her, accepted Archana's challenge, proved his worth and was getting married to the love of his life with all the blessings from the elders... If anything he was Purvi's fiancee THEN..



yes ovi drank because she was insecure... arjun was cheating her..
cheating need not be only physical or having a relationship.. he only had purvi in his mind and even though he was Ovi's husband, still he used to think of Purvi and ovi knew it...
After marraige, thinking of your ex flame is wrong isnt it?😕

Insecure??? Of what??? Purvi was not even in town, she was pregnant with the child of the man she claimed to love... Don't tell me she was insecure because Arjun loved Purvi... That was not something which was revealed ho her after she got married to Arjun unknowingly... Arjun not being able to forget Purvi was a part of "any cost" she wanted Arjun at... Ovi knew about it much BEFORE...
And if Arjun was cheating her mentally by remembering Purvi, didn't she built her marriage on the FOUNDATION of emotional blackmail. Wasn't her marriage based on the all the emotional cheating that she did???
Arjun remembered Purvi even after marriage because Ovi was hurling Purvi's name on Arjun's face at all the occassions. On top of that she was shouting and swearing like a fish wife... So whose fault was it again??
If Arjun's behavior triggerd Ovi's drinking, perhaps Ovi's drinking triggered Arjun's remembering Purvi..

NO.. i already said ovi drinking was a big mistake but we should try to understand the situation which lead to it...

Then we should also try to understand about the circumstances which lead to Purvi falling in love with Arjun, their consummation, circumstances of Pari's birth, her not wanting to abort Pari , so on and so forth and all the things she did but for which she is never ever cut a slack. If that is too much of a task , let's at least not label the choices she had made like falling in love with Arjun or consummating with him a couple of days before their would be wedding as crimes.




Edited by bitasta - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#69
Thats the result of her own mistake... Giving time to arjun was necessary... And she was insecure b'coz she knew that she had done a big mistake...she knew that she separated two true lovers...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar

I dint " like" the post for purvi being blamed for mansi's rape.. i liked the post because it was written purvi responsible for sheltering a criminal...
surely I dont have to reply to each and evry post.. i did reply to this one where I have defended purvi right?


You can reply to and Like any post in the forum. That is your right.

FYI:
You have "LIKED" the post where Purvi is blamed for Mansi's Rape and considered worse than a Rapist

Post where Purvi was being held responsible for sheltering a criminal was a separate one.

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