Arjun is an aweful father:Mod note pg14&17

First Previous

Page

Next Last

Frequent Posters

Bushra

@muaaz

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: onirfans

In this sitution why Purvi belive Arjun the who one day siad i am not living without you and other day said i am not living without Ovi . thier is no reason to belive him. If she think he not want to see her move on and do all these thing for the purpose she is right in this sitution because of arjun behaviour. And why arjun belive chadda when he is better know him.

u r right why a person will be believe this type of man who changed his opinion everyday...

---------he accepted purvi's deal and again followed purvi even after her peace full marriage life and in other side he told to ovi that he forget purvi and now want to success his married life with ovi...

---------------this was the same man for whom purvi's first marriage broke and also after his marriage with purvi he went to ovi's place to stay

-------------he is the same man who always lie to ovi purvi knows that

---------he is the same man who recently changed his behaviour in one night

but here discussion is about how arjun unfair to his both daughter...

thats not make any sence that u did not love ur first wife so u hv not intreast her child...childs r ur own blood . if its about love then who tell u to sleep with the other girl ...if u think she is ur wife and as a husband its ur right or duty then its also ur wifes right on ur love and her childs right on u and ur love...

basically its about humanity which has not on arjun...he could find out pari's picture from internet then why not pia's ...

arjun unsuccess in his every relationship but a big black mark on name of father's pure love towards child...

As for Purvi marriage break its because of Onir mahanta not arjun so not blame arjun for this . This marriage broke only for Onir action he is responsible for this no one else.

As for father i am agree with mostly people he is completely fail as father for both Pari and Pia.

Quote

Winzy

@nicegirl_good

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Arjun is a pathetic human being

A person who can't love his own offspring can't love anyone that's why all his relationships fail

Kudos to ovi for bringing up a child who loves such a disgusting father😆

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Winzy

@nicegirl_good

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Arjun can love purvi of course he can

But parents love their children the most

Okay he didn't want pari or whatever

Why did he not TRY to maintain contact with Pia ? 🤔

He despises Pia that's why

Quote

onirfans

@onirfans

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#24

how could he ever give Ovi purvi place in his life or even her daughter Pari place in his life. they would remind him everyday of what he lost.

sorry to interpret : arjun can not give purvi place to ovi thats every one could understand but why he could not able to pari place to pia...love pia does not mean he should forget pari or love pari does not mean his neglect towards pia will be justify... both r his daughter and he is a not a girl that he will be feel pia is a result of rape ...no one raped her but he is one who slept with ovi with own wish...what he lost its also his fault not pia's . his relationship with purvi went with hardship ,misunderstanding, ego ,lie . and these r became his relationship with his love weak so when pia's existence revealed his true love left him without giving his time for at least one explanation...then how its a fault of ovi and pia...yes they can blame ovi for not informing about pia before marriage , then it also not justify bcz ovi left all and go austrial after than they got 20 years to clarify all things but they did not. then its totally fault of arvi not pia's . so towards angry pia is not justify...

even for purvi problem is child of arjun's first marriage then how she wanted to back arjun after 20 years when arjun stayed with ovi and pia( as per as purvi's knowledge ). how she want to snatched arjun from a innocent child.

this is a very horrible part of arjun who does not know how looks his child

I'm sorry. I had to reply. This makes me sick. No disrespect to you, but there is absolutely no excuse for abandoning your child, be it the child of the woman you love or not. If Ovi and Pia remind him of his messed up life, then that's his problem not theirs. If he was a man of honor, he would have fought his demons and upheld his responsibilities as a father towards Pia.

Quote

onirfans

@onirfans

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#25

As for Purvi marriage break its because of Onir mahanta not arjun so not blame arjun for this . This marriage broke only for Onir action he is responsible for this no one else.

As for father i am agree with mostly people he is completely fail as father for both Pari and Pia.

i agree onir did break relationship with purvi but why he has not any problem from starting that purvi does not love him or purvi having arjun's child etc etc...

onir did broke marriage but he can not be responsible for the broken marriage bcz what he did not for himself but for purvi and pari's good.

onir was accepted pari as his own child . even every one very well known how she carried purvi and pari. and major thing he did not do anything wrong , only he pretened to be bad for sake of arvi . then its a favour to arvi . and many times onir saw arvi close moment , and how arvi closed infront of onir . any husband can be able to see his wife under the arm of her ex lover . remember hospital scean, court scean, train scean, party scean, even in arjun house infront of onir...but onir did not blamed them but understood them . if any other person in the place of onir sure he could blame the character;s of purvi and arjun.

he started thinking about divorce when he saw arjun always interfere in their marriage and for his action purvi also unable to move on. and the end point ovi has breakdown all relationship with arjun and arjun now wanted purvi back in his life...if he could not divorce to purvi then innocent pari will be suffered alot. and purvi will be chopped in between husband and lover...onir was not responsible for arvi separation ,he did not snatched purvi from arjun and he married purvi when arjun has not in her life . so arjun eyes on onir's wife was totally bad. specially the person who never harmed u but support u.

so its arjun who is more responsible to broken of purvi's first marriage. if he could not do this or if ovi could not leave arjun by feeling cheated then onir sure onir could not leave purvi and he must be sacrifies his entire life.

but it was good that onir left purvi for arjun and moved on his life ...

it was a big responsibility of arjun after marriage for purvi bcz purvi left her diamond like husband and peaceful, respectful life for her love arjun only . so expectation from arjun its become high for purvi .

Edited by onirfans - 11 years ago

Quote

933624

Suspended

Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: muse10
I felt bad for Arjun when he was forced to marry Ovi by Purvi, even though even then I felt he should have flatly refused pointing out how it would ruin three lives.
He did it any way under pressure.

But then, if he had agreed to do this for the sake of his love for Purvi, he only paid lip service to it. He lived with Ovi without any warmth. He was taking care of Ovi alright. But kept having imaginary scenes with Purvi. I guess that is understandable. But I do not think he deserves the credit for doing everything in his power to keep Ovi happy because he did not. He very well knew that only his love could make Ovi happy. It is understandable that he could not love her. But it is not understandable why did not break the relationship. He was only trying to keep his word to Purvi. He could not say "no" to anything she asked for whether it was marrying Ovi or having a child with her, or separating from Purvi herself before the last leap. That is where his weakness lies. (I am not discussing Purvi or Ovi here). He has, of course, suffered a lot and his suffering deserves sympathy on humane grounds . But his suffering is due to his own inability to withstand whatever was demanded by Purvi.

Even now he is taking so much help and support from Ovi, but he shows no concern for her life, her child (which happens to be his too). His only concern is Purvi - not even Pari so much. Shouldn't a 40 + man be concerned about his children? I think TM does have a point, even though I agree that Arjun's condition is pitiable in some ways.

(In terms of performance, I think Ritvik is doing an excellent job portraying a pitiable confused man. But I hope Asha also gets an opportunity to show her talent as an actor with varied emotions. She is given only three or four types of scenes because of the way the writers have developed her character. I think she deserves more.)

i agree with u ..

many people say arjun loved only purvi but he married ovi ,but cud never forget purvi..

all these are lame excuses...

the fact is arjun kirloskar always took miss ovi deshmukh for granted. she was that girl in his life who wud always be there for him whether he acknowleges her love or not.. he knew it...

P.S one more thing... after marraige people respect and start loving their spouses...

i have seen so many cases where 2 people are madly in love with each other, but due to parental pressure they marry somebody else and after some time they love their spouse .

so wen in an arranged marraige u can fall in love, then why couldnt arjun love his best friend and wife ovi? even shashank loved ankita but now that he is going to marry mansi he has fully accepted her and has started loving her...

if only arjun kirloskar had tried to move forward in his life, instead of harping over his past...many things would have been different today.

ovi would have been staying with her family..

because of arjun both the kids pari and pia grew up without a father....

pia would have a father and joint family's love.

pari wud not have hated arjun

Edited by pari-kirloskar - 11 years ago

Quote

Shina_AshVik202

@Shina_AshVik202

Navigator

Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: pari-kirloskar

i agree with u ..
many people say arjun loved only purvi but he married ovi ,but cud never forget purvi..
all these are lame excuses...
the fact is arjun kirloskar always took miss ovi deshmukh for granted. she was that girl in his life who wud always be there for him whether he acknowleges her love or not.. he knew it...

P.S one more thing... after marraige people respect and start loving their spouses...
i have seen so many cases where 2 people are madly in love with each other, but due to parental pressure they marry somebody else and after some time they love their spouse .
so wen in an arranged marraige u can fall in love, then why couldnt arjun love his best friend and wife ovi? even shashank loved ankita but now that he is going to marry mansi he has fully accepted her and has started loving her...
if only arjun kirloskar had tried to move forward in his life, instead of harping over his past...many things would have been different today.
ovi would have been staying with her family..
because of arjun both the kids pari and pia grew up without a father....
pia would have a father and joint family's love.
pari wud not have hated arjun

Are dear dats nt gonna happen...coz ArVi are d lead couple not arjun ovi, neither onir purvi...ye mahaaan ekta maiya ka common formula hai...though dis all stories are stupid...bt ppl watch dis kind of horible stories for der fav ldead couples..same lik I watch for ashvik.

Sumtimes lead male leave leave lead female sumtimes vice varsa

It keeeps going on an on...till either show goes off air or actors leaves after getng bored wid dis stufffs...haha haha

God bless audience lik us...

Quote

onirfans

@onirfans

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#28

many people say arjun loved only purvi but he married ovi ,but cud never forget purvi..

all these are lame excuses...

the fact is arjun kirloskar always took miss ovi deshmukh for granted. she was that girl in his life who wud always be there for him whether he acknowleges her love or not.. he knew it...

P.S one more thing... after marraige people respect and start loving their spouses...

i have seen so many cases where 2 people are madly in love with each other, but due to parental pressure they marry somebody else and after some time they love their spouse .

if only arjun kirloskar had tried to move forward in his life, instead of harping over his past...many things would have been different today.

ovi would have been staying with her family..

because of arjun both the kids pari and pia grew up without a father....

pia would have a father and joint family's love.

pari wud not have hated arjun

i do not think any comparison of shashank and arjun will be justify ...

shashank is a ideal man, he also loved ankita like arjun loved purvi but never agree to do such thing under pressure of ankita when ankita forced shashank to marry mansi like purvi...

Arjun is a successful business man but looser, useless and a big failure in his real life...he only could understand business deal not others...

and also think when purvi was working whole family took care of pari so she had not any pressure to handle child and working together ., but again she failed to understand her hild and pari grow up with depression due to less parents love but pari is a so understanding girl and tried to understand her mother.

but ovi was alone its very hard to stay alone with a daughter . but she handled everything with beautifully both her child and her working. pia's happy face and her word explain everything that ovi never neglect pia for her own sadness or own problem. she gave first priority to her child .its really very hard to handle both at a time alone. but she tried to her best . bcz she forget her sad past for her daughter sake, its also very hard to forgive them who cheated u but she did ...

ovi is a ideal example of to days modern women ...

Quote

933624

Suspended

Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: ashvik202

Are dear dats nt gonna happen...coz ArVi are d lead couple not arjun ovi, neither onir purvi...ye mahaaan ekta maiya ka common formula hai...though dis all stories are stupid...bt ppl watch dis kind of horible stories for der fav ldead couples..same lik I watch for ashvik.

Sumtimes lead male leave leave lead female sumtimes vice varsa

It keeeps going on an on...till either show goes off air or actors leaves after getng bored wid dis stufffs...haha haha

God bless audience lik us...

its so wrong na.. to keep leads together cvs goes to the extent of spoiling everyones life...

they shud have got arvi married. they cud have introduced sweet a guy like onir for ovi.. like naren loves ahana , i wish someone cud have loved ovi..

now that arjun married ovi they cud have shown him slowly realising her love and liking her... but no...

next again arvi married. but again cvs seperated them.. basically purvi, ovi , arjun stayed for 20 years without a spouse due to cvs...

Quote

onirfans

@onirfans

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#30

Sumtimes lead male leave leave lead female sumtimes vice varsa

It keeeps going on an on...till either show goes off air or actors leaves after getng bored wid dis stufffs...haha haha

God bless audience lik us... God can not bless bcz may be god also confused that how we tolerate this stuff ...so confused to give credit ekta or audience😉

u r right this the formula of ekta ...honestly saying i never seen such a pathetic lead character like arvi in other shows of ekta...

i really felt for first time ekta chosed a weakest lead character to show amar prem ...may be she has some other idea to show this character that how people not only suffered for their mistake but innocent people also suffered due to their stupidness in love...

Quote

1 2 3 4 5 ... 13

Arjun is an aweful father:Mod note pg14&17 - Page 3

Related Topics

Explore Topics