Arjun is an aweful father:Mod note pg14&17 - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Also arjun doesn't need to give Pari's place to Pia. They should both have their own place in his life and their own space in his heart, both as individuals. after all BOTH are his daughters.

So many people have more than one kid and they love them all equally.

Our hearts doesn't have a quota system that says we can only love one person at a time.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In my opinion, he is a coward to be scared of Purvi and not fighting for Pari.

Biggest wuss .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ambolove

Also arjun doesn't need to give Pari's place to Pia. They should both have their own place in his life and their own space in his heart, both as individuals. after all BOTH are his daughters.

So many people have more than one kid and they love them all equally.

Our hearts doesn't have a quota system that says we can only love one person at a time.



True. That would be ideal. But sadly, this show isn't about being a father or parent. Its only about love and triangles. Children are only used to keep tracks moving like Sachin was used in Arman-Shravani. Soham used in the Arman-varsha and then Pari and Pia in the Arvi-Ovi issue.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Arjun is definitely an awful father, especially to Pia. It was shocking how Arjun didn't even recognize Pia, she's his own daughter! Pia sounds like a real nice girl, Ovi brought her up well as a single parent unlike how Purvi brought up Pari terribly and taught her to dislike Arjun. Although one thing I don't get is why Pia is trying so hard to unite Arjun-Purvi as if her and Ovi owe them, Ovi did not make any mistake at all, and Pia should not feel that she is responsible for Ovi's separation from her family, it was all Purvi who tried to turn the whole family against Arjun/Ovi. But Arjun's indifference to Pia is just horrible, whenever Ovi speaks of Pia, Arjun just ignores it as if she's no one to him, all he keeps doing is worrying and worrying so much about Purvi, Purvi is marrying Rishab now, and Arjun/Purvi have separated.

Sorry if I've hurt anyone😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Though I wonder if PIA know the whole truth and nothing but the truth abt how ArOvi were engaged to be married but what happened once Arjun came to India. Just like Ovi-Teju have no clue abt how Archana took Manav to the court and filed a false case in support of random chawl walas, How Archana was big time instrumental in handing Soham to psycho sister Varsha against Manav's numerous warnings she handed 3 yrs young baby boy to her sister. In turn varsha kidnapped her...

All they know is Savita did not give the tickets to Archana which were sent by Manav for her to join them when they left for Canada.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Arjun is an aweful father to both his daughters...One hates him thanks to mother Purvi filling her ears against Arjun the father all her life...But Arjun does crave to know more abt Pari.

Pia on other hand his own daughter with Ovi who he never loved so did not bother with their child...Its OK to sleep with a woman you don't love, get her prego, have a child with her while craving and fantasizing abt love of his life Purvi who did not give 2 hoots abt listening to his explanations abt Ovi-Baby yrs ago and divorced him for stupid misunderstandings..

Even today the same Purvi who claims to love Arjun the love of his life and would do anything for him, IE marrying RK to get Arjun out of jail believed Chalu chadda and did not believe Arjun that RK framed him for the drug charges and got him out of jail too so he can marry Purvi.

She has chosen to believe a guy who made several passes at her, tried to sleep with her, indecent proposal. Framed Arjun with drugs and put him behind bars..Now tell me if you love someone as you claim you do than you got to give them BOD right? or would you believe some Chalu Chadda who has been the cheap, chaalu, cheezy mawali who you just met once or twice few days back??


But this is what female leads in PR do. They believe random people and take their husbands to court, file law suits, marry some man they just met but not believe a single word their husband or love of their life is telling them..Where is the love, respect or the big word "Trust" in this relationship????

Men who fall for these women deserve these women because they do not want to use their brain for thinking they let their hormones do the thinking and decision making..So I say all power to these women who make mockery out of these men and their marriages and children.

Perfect example of ArMan & what they have done to their own children.

Purvi what she has done to innocent Pari ...Mind you another innocent child PIA..


In this sitution why Purvi belive Arjun the who one day siad i am not living without you and other day said i am not living without Ovi . thier is no reason to belive him. If she think he not want to see her move on and do all these thing for the purpose she is right in this sitution because of arjun behaviour. And why arjun belive chadda when he is better know him.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In this sitution why Purvi belive Arjun the who one day siad i am not living without you and other day said i am not living without Ovi . thier is no reason to belive him. If she think he not want to see her move on and do all these thing for the purpose she is right in this sitution because of arjun behaviour. And why arjun belive chadda when he is better know him.

u r right why a person will be believe this type of man who changed his opinion everyday...

---------he accepted purvi's deal and again followed purvi even after her peace full marriage life and in other side he told to ovi that he forget purvi and now want to success his married life with ovi...
---------------this was the same man for whom purvi's first marriage broke and also after his marriage with purvi he went to ovi's place to stay

-------------he is the same man who always lie to ovi purvi knows that
---------he is the same man who recently changed his behaviour in one night


but here discussion is about how arjun unfair to his both daughter...

thats not make any sence that u did not love ur first wife so u hv not intreast her child...childs r ur own blood . if its about love then who tell u to sleep with the other girl ...if u think she is ur wife and as a husband its ur right or duty then its also ur wifes right on ur love and her childs right on u and ur love...


basically its about humanity which has not on arjun...he could find out pari's picture from internet then why not pia's ...

arjun unsuccess in his every relationship but a big black mark on name of father's pure love towards child...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

Arjun's life got complicated from the moment he gave it to Purvi and married Ovi. though Arjun only loved purvi, but as a husband did everything to make Ovi happy. he tried doing eveything to bring Ovi back once she left him after she found out that pari was his daughter.

Ovi comes back has a one night stand with Arjun and then leaves, she does not take his calls or want to meet him, and he finaly gives up. its not Arjun fault Ovi got pregnant and didnt inform him.

Arjun being in love with Purvi was ready to start a new life with her and their daughter Pari, things were going well and they were happy. then there were some differences because of Sohan and Manav mental state that affect the business.

but in all that Arjun never regretted marrying Purvi, Ovi lie and omission of the existance of her child, created a rift between Arjun and purvi.

in a heartbeat Arjun lost everything he holds most precious, Purvi, his daughter Pari, and their unborn child.

how could he ever give Ovi purvi place in his life or even her daughter Pari place in his life. they would remind him everyday of what he lost.

so i understand the chose to life without the joy of his children love, cause love one would result in the rejection of the other.

in all the mess Arjun lost the most. so i don't blame him. what he did was right. it takes a lot of guts to live a lonely life, Arjun sacrificed his happiness so the kids could have a sort of normal upbringing.



arjun life got complicated from the day when he came to india and did two timing with two sister...

in a heartbeat he felt that he lost everything due to misunderstanding then may be her angry towards ovi could be justify but not with pia...

but here arjun could ask help to ovi but he had not any interest about pia still...

this is not make any sense that u do not love ur wife so u should not love ur child...who thought like this he is a shame on fathers name...
Edited by onirfans - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He is absolutely terrible. He has always been terrible though even when Pari was a baby
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

Arjun's life got complicated from the moment he gave it to Purvi and married Ovi. though Arjun only loved purvi, but as a husband did everything to make Ovi happy. he tried doing eveything to bring Ovi back once she left him after she found out that pari was his daughter.

Ovi comes back has a one night stand with Arjun and then leaves, she does not take his calls or want to meet him, and he finaly gives up. its not Arjun fault Ovi got pregnant and didnt inform him.

Arjun being in love with Purvi was ready to start a new life with her and their daughter Pari, things were going well and they were happy. then there were some differences because of Sohan and Manav mental state that affect the business.

but in all that Arjun never regretted marrying Purvi, Ovi lie and omission of the existance of her child, created a rift between Arjun and purvi.

in a heartbeat Arjun lost everything he holds most precious, Purvi, his daughter Pari, and their unborn child.

how could he ever give Ovi purvi place in his life or even her daughter Pari place in his life. they would remind him everyday of what he lost.

so i understand the chose to life without the joy of his children love, cause love one would result in the rejection of the other.

in all the mess Arjun lost the most. so i don't blame him. what he did was right. it takes a lot of guts to live a lonely life, Arjun sacrificed his happiness so the kids could have a sort of normal upbringing.



I'm sorry. I had to reply. This makes me sick. No disrespect to you, but there is absolutely no excuse for abandoning your child, be it the child of the woman you love or not. If Ovi and Pia remind him of his messed up life, then that's his problem not theirs. If he was a man of honor, he would have fought his demons and upheld his responsibilities as a father towards Pia.

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