Disgusting purvi DT note pg22 - Page 14

Originally posted by: Angel-Jot.

The members defending Purvi's change in values are also trying to justify her.. and there was a member who mentioned that Purvi convinced Onir to swap the babies to protect her sister.. mentally. =/ That's called justifying her misdeeds.

I'm not sure how you've decided for me if I like or dislike Purvi.. =/ Just because I criticize a character's actions? For your information, I am in fact, a fan of ArVi however, I'm not going to blindly support a character just because I favour them. 🤔 If that makes me a Purvi hater in your eyes, so be it.

And I'm not sure why you keep bringing up 'posts from the past'.. I'm talking about this thread Pallavi. 😆 No one is defending Ovi's misdeeds.. 😆 Or her drinking during her pregnancy. 😆

Once again, jealously has no age. 😆 If I remember, I acknowledged that. 😃 But I also said that there's a way of dealing with emotions by a certain age. You become mature enough to deal with them in a more appropriate manner..

According to Purvi, her values are a choice. Explains what happened very well. She will use her values accordingly when the situation requires her to.. 😆 I've said this before and I will say it again, she clearly doesn't follow her values. They are just there.. 😃

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Are you a supporter of ArVi? Really? 😲 I havent seen you say a single nice word abt them till date!

If you were, you would try to understand why Purvi is behaving this way!

Shes being stonewalled at every turn! Shes being thwarted and stopped by Ovi and Arjun from finding out the truth!

Anyway, I dont know how you can say how a 40 yr old woman will behave maturely when shes being deceived and betrayed by the man she loves repeatedly.

Arjun tells her I love you, I cant live without you one day, the next day he tells her he was just putting up an act to get Ovi back into his life!

Purvi is suspicious, shes trying to find out desperately why hes lying, but at every juncture shes being blocked!

In such a state of affairs, people can get reckless and do things they wouldnt do normally!

And who told you that 40 yr olds cannot suffer from emotional turmoil and always behave maturely? 😆 In fact with age, women go through several changes in physiology which affects them emotionally as well!

I know some women in their late 40s who are having emotional breakdowns because of domestic or family problems. That is quite natural!

Do u think only teenagers and 20 somethings behave erratically? Then that is your misconception!

Till date? Excuse me? I haven't posted at this forum till date. =/ And I didn't know there was a certain criteria to be followed in order to be considered a fan? I have to blindly support and defend my favourite couple or character to be a fan? I find it slightly offending that I can't even voice my opinion without being declared a hater of my own favourite character..

Originally posted by: Angel-Jot.

Till date? Excuse me? I haven't posted at this forum till date. =/ And I didn't know there was a certain criteria to be followed in order to be considered a fan? I have to blindly support and defend my favourite couple or character to be a fan? 😲

The fact that Purvi's situation is being compared to women of that age that have domestic or family problems.. =/ I'm sorry but Purvi has brought this situation on herself. And if your ex husband has moved on, it's not the end of the world. 😆 Especially not if YOU left HIM 20 years ago WITHOUT giving him a chance to explain himself! =/ In this scenario, he has every right to move on and he would be the person in the right if he was to do so.. because he was wronged by his ex wife.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Purvi's problems is a domestic problem, isnt it? Did u forget that Arjun was pestering Purvi ever since she arrived in India, he repeatedly told her he still loved her, he had waited for her, and on Ankita's sangeet evening, he convinced Purvi finally that he did love her and he couldnt live without her!

Purvi already knew she had misunderstood Arjun. Do u recall her phone call to Archu where she was crying and repeating that it was ALL HER FAULT?

So she has admitted her huge mistake and Arjun had declared his everlasting love for her and that he had been waiting all these years for her!

Are you ignoring all these facts?

If Arjun had not gone after her, convinced her of his everlasting love, then would Purvi have doubted that he was still living with Ovi, would she still be suspicious?

Dont always place the blame on the woman, Arjun is at fault completely for leading her on and then dumping her!

Originally posted by: Angel-Jot.

If I knew each of my comments would be distorted in this manner, I wouldn't even try debating. 😆

Sure, he pursued her upon her arrival in India.. Sure, it wasn't her fault this time. But it's not me who's missing out on the facts. 😆 In my comment, (and please do read it again).. I was talking about the situation before the leap.. =/ 20 years ago, it wasn't Arjun who broke it off with her without letting her explain herself. It was Purvi. Would Arjun be doing any of this if Purvi hadn't divorced him because of her insecurity?

I'm not narrow minded at all so I don't believe the woman is always to blame as you've stated..=/ Please don't put such words in my mouth when I haven't even said them.. I don't appreciate that. 😊

Angad-Kripa, Archana & Manav.. all had different situations. =/

Originally posted by: Angel-Jot.

Angad-Kripa, Archana & Manav.. all had different situations. =/

Angad had actually cheated Kripa due to a misunderstanding.. =/ I understood her then.

Archana & Manav.. everything happened in front of Manav. They lost Soham in front of them. Archana willingly handed over her to her sister out of pity. Manav wanted Archana to go along to Canada with them anyway but it's his mom that faked that Manav didn't want her..

Purvi, on the other hand, spotted Arjun holding Pia with Ovi and automatically assumed that he had cheated on her.. =/ He hadn't known about Pia himself! What was he going to tell Purvi?

Yes, it's ridiculous how they never managed to get a proper conversation going in 20 years.. BUT, you don't run off and divorce your husband like that. =/ You TALK whether that's yelling, screaming, whatever.. you talk. You inform him that you're going to divorce him if nothing else. There's no way she can be defended for what happened 20 years ago..

Originally posted by: Angel-Jot.

^You've ignored quite a few things I mentioned too in multiple comments. =)

OK, I'll leave my husband by assuming he's cheated on me, hand him divorce papers automatically.. expecting that he will run behind me trying to explain himself.. 😆

I think we can agree to disagree Pallavi. This is going nowhere. 😆

We can unite as AK lovers at least. 🤣