Disgusting purvi DT note pg22 - Page 15

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Umm she has accepted that it was her fault 20 yrs ago so can we move ahead?

And I can see that u totally ignored the miscarriage thing and the psychological effect it had on Purvi's reactions to Arjun's attempts to explain.

Also later when Purvi went to get the divorce, Arjun just stupidly signed the papers, couldnt he tell her then? She was right there! He could have forced her to listen somehow...he just didnt try hard enough!😆

Sorry for jumping... Psycological effect should be of 2-3 months...not of 20 years...for giving divorse both are responsible...but for leaving arjun... 80% purvi is at fault...regarding that arjun's lie than if we can understand dat becoz of miscarriage nd pia's trauma purvi left arjun nd his home than why we can't digest same trauma situation for arjun????????? Arjun sunddenly comes to know abt pia just like purvi... Arjun can also be in trauma whenpurvi called him...so it better to this matter face to face rather than call...so he made that lie...phycological effect is happened with both...not only with purvi...

Jumping in here, finding a baby (Pia) and losing a baby (miscarriage) are two totally different things, the first could be shocking but not as traumatizing as the second so Arjun could not have suffered any psychological damage. And if Purvi was dumb to suspect him without giving him a chance to explain, he was dumber to have stupidly signed the divorce papers and even more stupidly sat silent for 20 years. Manav however bad at least believed Archana had refused to come with him to Canada, had asked for money even after he had been prepared to overlook Soham's disappearance. Arjun was harboring under no such misconceptions, he knew why Purvi was upset (Archana had no clue as to why Manav believed the worst of her, Savita kept the ticket thing a secret) and could have moved himself off that couch in his living room to go tell Purvi the truth.

On a serious note now. I see view points, but I will ask again because I take it they were said out of emotions.

There was not trama situation but definitly psycological effect for a moment...he comes to that he is having one more daughter...suddenly he comes to know he is father of ovi's kid too...suddenly there is new question how to convience new wife regarding ex-wife's baby...is it good idea to inform pregnant wife about ex-wife's baby on call??????? So yeah he made lie on call under psycological effect..

what i am deeply interested in is ' CHADDA KA MAAN ' Why was Chadda so important to break values she was raised with since birth . Who was Chadda to her . Why was Chadda shown respect only by drinking , dancing and allowing him to paw briefly , why did the parameter of MAAN halt at sleeping with him . 😉

Why Purvi doing this? R U want to know? Reason she knoww that some people want create more post. If they not post they not able to sleep properly. So their peace of sleeping Purvi doing this. R U happy now?😆

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

There was not trama situation but definitly psycological effect for a moment...he comes to that he is having one more daughter...suddenly he comes to know he is father of ovi's kid too...suddenly there is new question how to convience new wife regarding ex-wife's baby...is it good idea to inform pregnant wife about ex-wife's baby on call??????? So yeah he made lie on call under psycological effect..

Yes, agree he was affected by shock, confusion, etc but the effects should have worn off long before the effects of a miscarriage abated. Shock effects the psyche, lets grant that but that is momentary, sane thinking a little later and he should have been able to handle the situation if not that day maybe a week later, even a month later, not just an inane call or two but a refusal to sign the papers until and unless Purvi listened to his side of the story, refusal to grant over custody of Pari, something to shock her into lending him a ear. She lost more, an unborn child and the faith in her husband so it behove him to take the stronger and more persistent steps in making her listen. Look at him now, acting like an idiot with Ovi, does he seem like a 40+ sensible man? And Ovi, lets not even go there, she is getting carried away and living her dreams of being his wife still by taking this play acting too too far in Purvi's presence. She knows she can't act lovey dovey in private or she will look silly in front of Arjun or who knows he might even gain some sense seeing Ovi behave like that with him and call it quits and pack her off to Australia. Ovi doesn't want to take that chance. Girl is properly friendly in private and overly fawning in public. Reminds me of the clinging game she used to indulge in when Arjun was first forcibly engaged to her.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Yes, agree he was affected by shock, confusion, etc but the effects should have worn off long before the effects of a miscarriage abated. Shock effects the psyche, lets grant that but that is momentary, sane thinking a little later and he should have been able to handle the situation if not that day maybe a week later, even a month later, not just an inane call or two but a refusal to sign the papers until and unless Purvi listened to his side of the story, refusal to grant over custody of Pari, something to shock her into lending him a ear. She lost more, an unborn child and the faith in her husband so it behove him to take the stronger and more persistent steps in making her listen. Look at him now, acting like an idiot with Ovi, does he seem like a 40+ sensible man? And Ovi, lets not even go there, she is getting carried away and living her dreams of being his wife still by taking this play acting too too far in Purvi's presence. She knows she can't act lovey dovey in private or she will look silly in front of Arjun or who knows he might even gain some sense seeing Ovi behave like that with him and call it quits and pack her off to Australia. Ovi doesn't want to take that chance. Girl is properly friendly in private and overly fawning in public. Reminds me of the clinging game she used to indulge in when Arjun was first forcibly engaged to her.

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

Why Purvi doing this? R U want to know? Reason she knoww that some people want create more post. If they not post they not able to sleep properly. So their peace of sleeping Purvi doing this. R U happy now?😆

I guess why is purvi still alive is also a question which is still not answered 😆