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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird


One day Ovi called Arjun, when divorce was still in process
But, Purvi joined Arjun's workplace then and answered Arjun's call
By then Ovi thought she doesn't need to interfere once again hence she kept mum
Maybe if Purvi would stay away from Arjun while Ovi and Arjun were still in the divorce process this wouldn't have happened
a decent lady doesn't join the same guy's office for who she had problems with her sister and also with who her sister WILL get divorced 😆


honestly waneeka i think if we dig up what happened in the past, there will be too many arguments and too little resolution. yes purvi being in the office made things difficult but if ovi truly wanted to tell arjun everything, she would have. she had realized it by then that her marriage was a futile battle. she wasnt married to purvi but to arjun. no matter where purvi was, if she was sure about arjun as a father and a husband, she would've told him about pia.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

But she was shown drinking many times when she was in Canada, whenever Manav or Arjun called her, she was drinking! So how could she know she was pregnant and still drink alcohol like the last time?


😆 we would all lose our minds if we try to figure out the timeline.

Maybe she didn't know at that time. Given all that she has been through with her first child I don't think she would do anything to harm her baby again.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

no i think the separation was only a contemplation for her. not a reality. and i think your speculation could very well be true. but i also remember her saying that she found out a few weeks of being in canada, and her doc said she found out pretty late. its not unlikely that she conceived before that one night we were shown. but arguing about y she slept with arjun or how she got pregnant is futile. as of now, we know that she didnt reproduce out of malicious intent or to break arvi up. she seemed pretty shocked at the pregnancy as well so probs (like all other pr pregnancy) it was totally unplanned on both sides. in pr when people have unprotected sex, the thought of conceiving never crosses their mind.



i guess we have to agree to disagree then. i think pari was the nail on the coffin for her and she knew it was OVER and she was DONE. She even drew up the papers and continued to drink still. I'm going to assume she didn't know about the baby then otherwise i doubt she'll hurt the baby again. im sure she had learned from the first mistake.

what boggles my mind is how did she drink so much yet still maintain a pregnancy ??!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Its not a question of Purvi not trusting Arjun! She did trust Arjun, thats why she was confirming Arjun's paternity at the hospital and had difficulty believing HE was the father! Because she could not believe that Arjun would hide such a thing from her!
Anyway Purvi bashers are saying shes doing drama, etc. and gloating at her misery!
But fact is Purvi is just a wife who has found out her husband has had a child with his ex-wife! So obviously shes in deep shock!
She called Arjun and expected him to tell her the truth where he actually was. But he lied, which has strengthened her suspicion that he was hiding the truth. That would be shocking to any wife!

But she didnt call Arjun and berate or accuse him yet! She just fainted from shock and distress.
I hope she wont have a miscarriage and delight all those who hate her character so much!
Edited by pallavi25 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

But she was shown drinking many times when she was in Canada, whenever Manav or Arjun called her, she was drinking! So how could she know she was pregnant and still drink alcohol like the last time?


pallavi the only way to watch pr is to believe in the most current facts about the timeline. non of it makes an ounce of sense anyways. like purvi an 18 year old being a senior executive in a company, manav even thinking about his 19 year old's marriage. nonsense
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

Its not a question of Purvi not trusting Arjun! She did trust Arjun, thats why she was confirming Arjun's paternity at the hospital and had difficulty believing HE was the father! Because she could not believe that Arjun would hide such a thing from her!

Anyway Purvi bashers are saying shes doing drama, etc. and gloating at her misery!
But fact is Purvi is just a wife who has found out her husband has had a child with his ex-wife! So obviously shes in deep shock!
She called Arjun and expected him to tell her the truth where he actually was. But he lied, which has strengthened her suspicion that he was hiding the truth. That would be shocking to any wife!

But she didnt call Arjun and berate or accuse him yet! She just fainted from shock and distress.
I hope she wont have a miscarriage and delight all those who hate her character so much!



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Yes, and isn't this what happened to Ovi? If it was wrong then, it's still wrong now. Ovi finding out about that was horrible. She found that out along with the fact her child had passed away which was probably worse.

The gloating makes me giggle. If it was SO WRONG when it happened to Ovi then how is okay that it happen to Purvi? It just favoritism towards Ovi lashing out. Most I think would agree what's happening to Purvi now is wrong.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham


pallavi the only way to watch pr is to believe in the most current facts about the timeline. non of it makes an ounce of sense anyways. like purvi an 18 year old being a senior executive in a company, manav even thinking about his 19 year old's marriage. nonsense

Hahaha, thats very true!😆 I dont know why we still try to find logic in Ekta's shows anymore!
Obviously Ekta had no plans for Ovi's 2nd baby as all the younger actors were supposed to quit! Shruti had even put in her papers months ago!
But then Zee convinced them all to stay and Ekta had to improvise and make Ovi pregnant again so she could separate ArVi again...but the cracks and bloopers in the story are showing very badly this time!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Once again a track that generates a debate.
It appears to me that for a year or so it has been almost a competition among the characters for being irrational - instead of each one trying to outsmart the other, each character seems to be wanting to outdo others in irrationality.

I have especially never understood any of the tracks involving - Arjun, Purvi, Ovi (not that I understand others either). Looking at the sequence of events involving these three only a few things make sense

First Arjun agrees to marry Ovi (why? only God and Arjun know - please do not say he was forced because he was not)

Then he starts falling in love with Purvi (understandable).

But he does not think it necessary to clarify things with Ovi or Purvi (why? only God and Arjun know)

In the meanwhile Pruvi is getting engaged to a greedy man (understandable since she did not know his real character)

Arjun gifts the same kind of expensive bracelets to both Purvi and Ovi - Purvi on her engagement and to Ovi just like that, which Ovi understandably takes as an expression of love
(why did Arjun do that? only God and Arjun know)

Purvi also starts liking Arjun after breaking up with the greedy guy (understandable)

Ovi comes to India to give Arjun a surprise and not knowing about Arjun-Purvi, Manav and DK throw a surprise engagement party (a little hasty but not too weird)

First Purvi and then on knowing the truth Ovi get very hurt (understandable).

Then Ovi pressurizes Purvi to let go of Arjun (why Ovi? What sense does it make to get a guy to who loves someone else? Completely irrational.)

At first, Purvi says "No" (that was a rational stand, liked her for that)

Then Ovi makes an unethical offer (totally irrational) and Purvi accepts it for her "mother's sake"
(now what is the sense in this? First, how would her mother be happy knowing that her daughter was separated from the man she loved even if that led to her own reunion with her family? Second, does a person hold no ethical responsibility to the person to whom she/he is about to be married? And third, if a woman has maturity enough to have unprotected intimacy, should she also not wait until she knew that the intimacy has not resulted in anything that would create problems before taking such a drastic step? And please, I am not talking about legitimate or illegitimate pregnancy at all, only of irrationality involved in the decision. From no angle this looks like "mahaanataa" or "bhalaai" of anybody)

Why did Arjun accept such a stupid decision of two women who were acting completely irrationally? (only God and Arjun know)

Then Purvi finds out she is pregnant and in her mahaanataa leaves Mumbai (did she not think of her baby if she wanted to keep it? and did she not worry what kind of prenatal care the baby would get?)

Ovi starts drinking in frustration rather than trying to win her husband over (great! how rational!)
Arjun, instead of following through with his promise to his beloved that he will keep his wife happy, keeps talking to his now lost lover in imaginary conversations and pays as much attention to his wife as a ward-boy pays to a patient in a general hospital (which, by the way, he calls "trying my best to make the marriage work")

Purvi finds a nice man for herself who gets married to her without having any conjugal rights (good for her!)

Then the whole drama about pregnancy complications and return of the separated lover and baby swap and quick separations of Ovi-Arjun and Pruvi-Onir (so utterly irrational, the less said the better)

Then a mature Ovi returns and finds the two lovers about to get married - she takes a rational decision this time not to come between them and Onir is truly sweet in taking the blame for a while and letting the lovers marry.

After her return to Canada, the very irrational Ovi of earlier tracks has changed. She has actually acted in a very mature manner. Now, it is Arjun and Purvi who are fighting like little children and Ovi has nothing to do with this. If the fights are fueling a sense of insecurity, what is Ovi's fault in this?

Ovi's pregnancy was predicted by many even when she left for Canada. But what is rather irrational here is the attitude of Purvi who had earlier kept advising Ovi not to be insecure about her and Arjun.

Why are pregnancies and children the only reasons for people to be loyal to one another? Why do they keep introducing new pregnancies to move the story forward? (totally unfathomable)
Which of Arjun's children will get to grow up with both parents? ( only the CVs know)



Edited by muse10 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: princess_farh

Purvi and Arjun dont deserve 2 be separated and specially not because of sm1 like ovi who never gets her priorities straight . . .

If she so badly wanted arvi 2 b happy then b4 their wedding she should hav told the fam abt Pia. Why the mahanta? Because the mahanta was a naatak. She wanted Purvi 2 suffer after marriage and that would be her so called revenge 4 arvi's saccha pyaar . . .

Im not saying that ovi shd hav abortd bt wat i am saying is that y jump in2 bed with arjun when she already had plans 2 leave him? ?


This is also applies to Purvi when Arjun-Ovi were still husband and wife.
Purvi was so badly wanted Arjun-Ovi to be happy but she did a lot of mahaanta and naatak and didn't told them about Pari.
Now it's Purvi's turn to feel betrayed.

But i agree with you that Arjun and Purvi don't deserve to be separated.
They should be together in order to avoid them bring troubles to others.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: muse10

Once again a track that generates a debate.

It appears to me that for a year or so it has been almost a competition among the characters for being irrational - instead of each one trying to outsmart the other, each character seems to be wanting to outdo others in irrationality.

I have especially never understood any of the tracks involving - Arjun, Purvi, Ovi (not that I understand others either). Looking at the sequence of events involving these three only a few things make sense

First Arjun agrees to marry Ovi (why? only God and Arjun know - please do not say he was forced because he was not)

Then he starts falling in love with Purvi (understandable).

But he does not think it necessary to clarify things with Ovi or Purvi (why? only God and Arjun know)

In the meanwhile Pruvi is getting engaged to a greedy man (understandable since she did not know his real character)

Arjun gifts the same kind of expensive bracelets to both Purvi and Ovi - Purvi on her engagement and to Ovi just like that, which Ovi understandably takes as an expression of love
(why did Arjun do that? only God and Arjun know)

Purvi also starts liking Arjun after breaking up with the greedy guy (understandable)

Ovi comes to India to give Arjun a surprise and not knowing about Arjun-Purvi, Manav and DK throw a surprise engagement party (a little hasty but not too weird)

First Purvi and then on knowing the truth Ovi get very hurt (understandable).

Then Ovi pressurizes Purvi to let go of Arjun (why Ovi? What sense does it make to get a guy to who loves someone else? Completely irrational.)

At first, Purvi says "No" (that was a rational stand, liked her for that)

Then Ovi makes an unethical offer (totally irrational) and Purvi accepts it for her "mother's sake"
(now what is the sense in this? First, how would her mother be happy knowing that her daughter was separated from the man she loved even if that led to her own reunion with her family? Second, does a person hold no ethical responsibility to the person to whom she/he is about to be married? And third, if a woman has maturity enough to have unprotected intimacy, should she also not wait until she knew that the intimacy has not resulted in anything that would create problems before taking such a drastic step? And please, I am not talking about legitimate or illegitimate pregnancy at all, only of irrationality involved in the decision. From no angle this looks like "mahaanataa" or "bhalaai" of anybody)

Why did Arjun accept such a stupid decision of two women who were acting completely irrationally? (only God and Arjun know)

Then Purvi finds out she is pregnant and in her mahaanataa leaves Mumbai (did she not think of her baby if she wanted to keep it? and did she not worry what kind of prenatal care the baby would get?)

Ovi starts drinking in frustration rather than trying to win her husband over (great! how rational!)
Arjun, instead of following through with his promise to his beloved that he will keep his wife happy, keeps talking to his now lost lover in imaginary conversations and pays as much attention to his wife as a ward-boy pays to a patient in a general hospital (which, by the way, he calls "trying my best to make the marriage work")

Purvi finds a nice man for herself who gets married to her without having any conjugal rights (good for her!)

Then the whole drama about pregnancy complications and return of the separated lover and baby swap and quick separations of Ovi-Arjun and Pruvi-Onir (so utterly irrational, the less said the better)

Then a mature Ovi returns and finds the two lovers about to get married - she takes a rational decision this time not to come between them and Onir is truly sweet in taking the blame for a while and letting the lovers marry.

After her return to Canada, the very irrational Ovi of earlier tracks has changed. She has actually acted in a very mature manner. It is Arjun and Purvi who are fighting like little children and Ovi has nothing to do with this. If the fights are fueling a sense of insecurity, what is Ovi's fault in this?

Ovi's pregnancy was predicted by many even when she left for Canada. But what is rather irrational here is the attitude of Purvi who had earlier kept advising Ovi not to be insecure about her and Arjun.

Why are pregnancies and children the only reasons for people to be loyal to one another? Why do they keep introducing new pregnancies to move the story forward? (totally unfathomable)
Which of Arjun's children will get to grow up with both parents? ( only the CVs know)




I agree with this so much!! Finally a post that blames all of them for their stupidity and points out Arjun's mistakes for once instead of painting him like a victim. He made mistakes every step of the way.

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