This is so weird. I guess both sides are hypocrites then. You can't blame Ovi for something that Purvi did herself and vice versa.
I am no fan of Arvi but I pray that they stay together because I think they deserve each other!! My reason for not being an Arvi fan has nothing to do with Ovi though. I don't get their idea of happiness.. Arjun says he could've been happy with Ovi, he could've made it work without her tantrums and suspicions. Purvi made it work with Onir just fine. Sure they weren't having sex like Arjun and Ovi but they were happy. Purvi was content.
Yesterday when Archana was telling Ovi about what was going on between Purvi and Arjun, Ovi thought out loud and worried about Purvi. She meant Purvi no harm. This has to do with her happiness and her loss. Ovi haters just need a reason to blame her. You know that if she spoke up before marriage and told Arjun about the baby he wouldn't have gone through with the marriage. Then you would've blamed her for using the child to keep Arvi apart and now you are blaming her for doing the exact opposite. The problem is not Ovi here. The problem is Purvi and Arjun's relationship. Purvi should trust Arjun. If she can't trust Arjun then she is just as insecure as Ovi. Ovi was always insecure about Arjun, she could never tolerate another girl around him and she could never get over the fact that he loved Purvi. But what makes Purvi insecure? Does she doubt his love after all that he has done for her? Why can't she trust him? When Ovi found out about Arjun and Purvi's lie she gave Arjun the chance to come and tell her the truth. She called him and he lied. And now Arjun did the same to Purvi. She is no different than Ovi in this matter. This will be another one of those Ekta super couples that is supposed to be an example of love but in reality there is no sign of trust anywhere. No one knows how to communicate...
I thought Purvi was right in not telling Arjun when she was pregnant. My only problem with her was when she came back into their lives and kept meddling. If Ovi returned to India and started meddling around I would have the same problem with her. Ovi doesn't want Arjun, she wanted to raise this kid by herself and hide her from both of them! You can't say she is doing this to ruin Arvi because this time around she hasn't done anything!
Edited by Perfangel5655 - 11 years ago