OVI HAS SACRIFICED JUST LIKE SHRAVANI WPg8

Originally posted by: naava

I understand you love Ovi and identify with her plight. I think she's pretty mixed up and finally getting some maturity. Shruti is an excellent actress to bring Ovi's emotions to the show and make people feel for her.

But I am glad you mentioned Shravani. I would like to ask some questions however.

1.Shravani fell in love with Sachin Sr. and became pregnant with Sachin Jr. before they were married. They wanted to marry but weren't being successful with approval yet so they weren't even close to being married yet. They were lovers. Purvi and Arjun on the night before their wedding became pregnant with Pari.

Sachin has never been called illegitimate even though Shravani and Sachin Sr. were lovers not married.

Pari is called illegitimate so often in the forum (twice in the TM post) even though it was the eve of their wedding.

I am just wondering why the difference. Why is Pari illegitimate and Sachin not?

2. Archana and Manav were married and madly in love when it was thought they should divorce so that Manav could marry Shravani & could take responsibility of Sachin. (He could of course have done that without marrying the mother)

Had they been successful Shravani would have married two brothers. Lots of viewers didn't like the breakup of ARMAN so fought against the divorce and new marriage, yet not one objected because a woman would be married to two brothers.

Yet when Arjun wants to marry the woman he loves and was forced to marry the sister instead (sounds like the Bible story) he is villified for being married to two sisters (at different times of course)

Again, I am curious to know the difference. Why is it ok for Shravani to marry two brothers but not ok for Arjun to marry two sisters. (An ancient custom by the way for most world religions..nothing "modern" as has been suggested in the forum.

3. Puriv's reason for leaving Arjun (which was definitely wrong) were for her mother, and also because she thought that Arjun would be happier with Ovi...that it would be easier for him because Purvi felt she wasn't accepted. So, she did it for her mother's happiness and for Arjun's happiness.

Yet, when Ovi left for Ajrun's happiness but also for her own happiness as she was unhappy in the marriage, Ovi is the heroine and Shravani the heroine ( for the same reasons) but Purvi is the villian. Why the difference?

I try to be fair minded and open. I had sympathy for Shravani and sympathy for Ovi. But when the facts are skewed a bit I felt I wanted to say something.

I'ts ok TM and others to love Ovi and feel her pain. But to do it at the expense of another character's integrity isn't fair imo.

Originally posted by: sanchitjain

well this is my first post on IF. felt like putting my opinions.

@red

how can u even say that archana and manav were madly in love with each other and only for the sake of shravani they decided to divorce ? the pavitra rishta which i saw on zee tv clearly showed something else. archana had already left manav's house and gone with her mother after she had slapped him. the marriage was already on the verge of breaking due to mother daughter duo. shravani came with her pregnancy news much after archana had left manav's house. so its not like archana-manav were happily living in the deshmukh house and then suddenly because of shravani they separated. i am sure my memory serves me right. i never knew that wives who are madly in love with husbands leave the house after getting the husband slapped.

@blue

shravani marrying manav was totally moral and the need of that time. archana and her mother had done total kachra of manav and his family. manav's brother also died. didnt manav deserve a woman who would trust him and look after the family? now shravani was also pregnant. so that child needed a father's name and surname. savita needed that child bery much because her son had died and that child was his symbol.

shravani didnt have sex with 2 brothers like arjun had sex with 2 sisters. yes i agree that shravani had started loving manav , but was she wrong in that ? any girl will love a gentleman like manav. not everybody is as ungrateful as archana. archana used to rant in front of her that "main chali jaaungi". she thought that as it is she is going to get married to manav then was it wrong if she invested her whole and soul in that relation and started loving him. when the whole world including armaan themselves were telling her that she is going to become manav's wife then how is it wrong if she starts loving him and tries her best to make that relation work.

shravani never resorted to cheap levels to get manav. she never seduced him or try to trap him somehow.

on the other hand shameless has slept with 2 sisters and made both of them pregnant.

coming to the illegitimate point.

nobody is saying that pari should lead the life of an illegitimate child. onir loves her so much and has given his name to her. then how is she illegitimate ? he was lifting crates and toiling in hard sun so that she gets milk to drink. her own father just gave her up to use that excuse as a bait to make ovi stay back. when her step father was toiling hard for her sake that time her own father was warming his bed with her step mother.

its purvi who made her own daughter illegitimate TWICE.

first by having illicit sex and conceiving her and second time by coming back to mumbai due to which her illgitimate status became clear in front of everybody.

after getting a husband like onir any woman would had stayed happily with him but purvi was too bored with the simple happy life with onir. she wanted to do some big tamashas and kaands because thats the thing she thrives upon. she was so engrossed in ruining ovi's life by interfering that she didnt even think that if pari's truth comes out in open then she will be termed illegitimate.

if she really cared about pari then she would had happily stayed in kolkata with onir and never come back due to the thread of pari's truth coming in front of everyone.

thats why i will repeat , PURVI IS THE ONE WHO MADE HER OWN DAUGHTER ILLEGITIMATE TWICE !!

Originally posted by: naava

I understand you love Ovi and identify with her plight. I think she's pretty mixed up and finally getting some maturity. Shruti is an excellent actress to bring Ovi's emotions to the show and make people feel for her.

But I am glad you mentioned Shravani. I would like to ask some questions however.

1.Shravani fell in love with Sachin Sr. and became pregnant with Sachin Jr. before they were married. They wanted to marry but weren't being successful with approval yet so they weren't even close to being married yet. They were lovers. Purvi and Arjun on the night before their wedding became pregnant with Pari.

Sachin has never been called illegitimate even though Shravani and Sachin Sr. were lovers not married.

Pari is called illegitimate so often in the forum (twice in the TM post) even though it was the eve of their wedding.

I am just wondering why the difference. Why is Pari illegitimate and Sachin not?

2. Archana and Manav were married and madly in love when it was thought they should divorce so that Manav could marry Shravani & could take responsibility of Sachin. (He could of course have done that without marrying the mother)

Had they been successful Shravani would have married two brothers. Lots of viewers didn't like the breakup of ARMAN so fought against the divorce and new marriage, yet not one objected because a woman would be married to two brothers.

Yet when Arjun wants to marry the woman he loves and was forced to marry the sister instead (sounds like the Bible story) he is villified for being married to two sisters (at different times of course)

Again, I am curious to know the difference. Why is it ok for Shravani to marry two brothers but not ok for Arjun to marry two sisters. (An ancient custom by the way for most world religions..nothing "modern" as has been suggested in the forum.

3. Puriv's reason for leaving Arjun (which was definitely wrong) were for her mother, and also because she thought that Arjun would be happier with Ovi...that it would be easier for him because Purvi felt she wasn't accepted. So, she did it for her mother's happiness and for Arjun's happiness.

Yet, when Ovi left for Ajrun's happiness but also for her own happiness as she was unhappy in the marriage, Ovi is the heroine and Shravani the heroine ( for the same reasons) but Purvi is the villian. Why the difference?

I try to be fair minded and open. I had sympathy for Shravani and sympathy for Ovi. But when the facts are skewed a bit I felt I wanted to say something.

I'ts ok TM and others to love Ovi and feel her pain. But to do it at the expense of another character's integrity isn't fair imo.

Originally posted by: naava

I understand you love Ovi and identify with her plight. I think she's pretty mixed up and finally getting some maturity. Shruti is an excellent actress to bring Ovi's emotions to the show and make people feel for her.

But I am glad you mentioned Shravani. I would like to ask some questions however.

1.Shravani fell in love with Sachin Sr. and became pregnant with Sachin Jr. before they were married. They wanted to marry but weren't being successful with approval yet so they weren't even close to being married yet. They were lovers. Purvi and Arjun on the night before their wedding became pregnant with Pari.

Sachin has never been called illegitimate even though Shravani and Sachin Sr. were lovers not married.

Pari is called illegitimate so often in the forum (twice in the TM post) even though it was the eve of their wedding.

I am just wondering why the difference. Why is Pari illegitimate and Sachin not?

2. Archana and Manav were married and madly in love when it was thought they should divorce so that Manav could marry Shravani & could take responsibility of Sachin. (He could of course have done that without marrying the mother)

Had they been successful Shravani would have married two brothers. Lots of viewers didn't like the breakup of ARMAN so fought against the divorce and new marriage, yet not one objected because a woman would be married to two brothers.

Yet when Arjun wants to marry the woman he loves and was forced to marry the sister instead (sounds like the Bible story) he is villified for being married to two sisters (at different times of course)

Again, I am curious to know the difference. Why is it ok for Shravani to marry two brothers but not ok for Arjun to marry two sisters. (An ancient custom by the way for most world religions..nothing "modern" as has been suggested in the forum.

3. Puriv's reason for leaving Arjun (which was definitely wrong) were for her mother, and also because she thought that Arjun would be happier with Ovi...that it would be easier for him because Purvi felt she wasn't accepted. So, she did it for her mother's happiness and for Arjun's happiness.

Yet, when Ovi left for Ajrun's happiness but also for her own happiness as she was unhappy in the marriage, Ovi is the heroine and Shravani the heroine ( for the same reasons) but Purvi is the villian. Why the difference?

I try to be fair minded and open. I had sympathy for Shravani and sympathy for Ovi. But when the facts are skewed a bit I felt I wanted to say something.

I'ts ok TM and others to love Ovi and feel her pain. But to do it at the expense of another character's integrity isn't fair imo.