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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: naava
I understand you love Ovi and identify with her plight. I think she's pretty mixed up and finally getting some maturity. Shruti is an excellent actress to bring Ovi's emotions to the show and make people feel for her.

But I am glad you mentioned Shravani. I would like to ask some questions however.

1.Shravani fell in love with Sachin Sr. and became pregnant with Sachin Jr. before they were married. They wanted to marry but weren't being successful with approval yet so they weren't even close to being married yet. They were lovers. Purvi and Arjun on the night before their wedding became pregnant with Pari.

Sachin has never been called illegitimate even though Shravani and Sachin Sr. were lovers not married.
Pari is called illegitimate so often in the forum (twice in the TM post) even though it was the eve of their wedding.

I am just wondering why the difference. Why is Pari illegitimate and Sachin not?

2. Archana and Manav were married and madly in love when it was thought they should divorce so that Manav could marry Shravani & could take responsibility of Sachin. (He could of course have done that without marrying the mother)

Had they been successful Shravani would have married two brothers. Lots of viewers didn't like the breakup of ARMAN so fought against the divorce and new marriage, yet not one objected because a woman would be married to two brothers.

Yet when Arjun wants to marry the woman he loves and was forced to marry the sister instead (sounds like the Bible story) he is villified for being married to two sisters (at different times of course)

Again, I am curious to know the difference. Why is it ok for Shravani to marry two brothers but not ok for Arjun to marry two sisters. (An ancient custom by the way for most world religions..nothing "modern" as has been suggested in the forum.

3. Puriv's reason for leaving Arjun (which was definitely wrong) were for her mother, and also because she thought that Arjun would be happier with Ovi...that it would be easier for him because Purvi felt she wasn't accepted. So, she did it for her mother's happiness and for Arjun's happiness.

Yet, when Ovi left for Ajrun's happiness but also for her own happiness as she was unhappy in the marriage, Ovi is the heroine and Shravani the heroine ( for the same reasons) but Purvi is the villian. Why the difference?

I try to be fair minded and open. I had sympathy for Shravani and sympathy for Ovi. But when the facts are skewed a bit I felt I wanted to say something.

I'ts ok TM and others to love Ovi and feel her pain. But to do it at the expense of another character's integrity isn't fair imo.

Excellent points, naava! And so true! 👏

Sachin is also illegitimate! Then why isnt he called so like Pari is? Double standards!

And ur absolutely right! Such marriages are not modern but ancient, traditional customs in many Indian cultures. Like in the 1900s and early 20th century Bengal, Kuleen Brahmin grooms were a rare commodity so a Brahmin man could marry multiple daughters of the same family. I have read abt this in some Bengali novels and also heard abt it from my family elders.

And sorry but I dont feel any pity for Ovi at all! She just realized her follies and finally left.She used every tactics to get hold of Arjun but then she wasnt happy with him either.

Purvi had also left Mumbai and gone to agyaat vaas when she sacrificed her own happiness the day before her wedding with Arjun! Why wasnt anyone crying for her then?

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naava

@naava

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

I am not going to argue or post more than this.

My point was made by the very nature of all the subsequent talkbacks. Not only were the points I made ignored for the most part but what I wrote about is what happened in the posts that followed

1. Shravani and Sachin were intimate before marriage which was ok with everyone as no one condemns it and all rush to defend Shravani's honor. . Purvi and Arjun also were intimate before marriage and are called many names, dirty cheap immoral illicit..

If no one can see the double standard here there is no point in any discussion

2. Arman were indeed committed to each other and deeply loved each other and there was absolutely no break up of their marriage.. The decision to divorce and Manav marry Shravani was simply for the reason of giving the baby legitimacy. To divorce your current wife to marry your brothers girlfriend is ludicrous.

3. I am an honest and moral person. Some of the talkbacks would give the impression that they are moral unlike "certain" writers (me for example). who then must be "immoral" and "dishonest". I have not judged anyone as immoral or dishonest and I would appreciate the same respect when I post my opinion.

I am an Arman fan, but i want to defend the Arvi fans here. To be honest, I am really tired of reading how much Arvi supporters are accused of treating Ovi poorly. In all that I have read it not that way very often. For the most part Arvi fans spend all their time praising ArVi and being hopeful for their reunion and very little in being negative about others. It does happen - there were in the past some comments by one or two, but not so often and not the majority..

I would hope that viewers could say good things about the characters they love without bashing and badmouthing the other ones. That's all I ask.

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Thapelo

@Thapelo

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

@Muse10 great post it was a surprisly fine read although I think I always have more to say regarding Purvi's character still though I give credit where credit is due.

Edited by Thapelo - 12 years ago

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Afreen

@afreenaamna

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

sachin n shravani were not the so called lead so y would v mind them getting intimate or whatever? like who mind if punni does this with this man n that with that man lol.. arjun n purvi the mahan sanskari lead pair of a show named Pavitra Rishta doing disgusting thing efore marriage n having illegimate child which v call Apavitra Rishta in india n in every religion then y wont v mind..y wont v disgust on them..

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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

If Sachin was given his Uncle Manav's name and so hes not considered illegitimate then how is Pari illegitimate? She was given the name of Pari Arjun Kirloskar by her biological FATHER at the Hindu Naming ceremony after her birth! So shes VERY MUCH Legitimate Indeed! 😳

I have already made this point before, still people are in denial! 😆

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rajvta

@rajvta

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Posted: 12 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

Loved your post. I feel ths is the best summation of the two triangles shown in PR in last three years. Could never understand the double standards meted out - hatred to Purvi and the adulation for Shravani's great?? sacrifice.

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

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Posted: 12 years ago

#17

Great post navaa!

Ovi never sacrificed for anyone. She only reached rockbottom in her addiction of having Arjun at any cost. When she hit rockbottom, she finally realized it was time to move on. And that's all she did.

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Ria

@babu2008

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Posted: 12 years ago

#18

Guys: no point in arguing... worst manipulator in history of television: Archana and Sulochona

Worst situation creator: manju (sachin actually dies becoz of her)

most irresponsible and irrationale guy: Arjun

stupidest characters with no backbone: Purvi and then archana

worst sister: Varsha

Greatest guy: Onir Dutt

Please think about the contribution of Manju, savita and Varsha in ARMAN's life...savita used to provoke Manav sooo much. Also, she provoked archana to give Soham to varsha. She also gave the idea to varsha to adopt Soham..all these she did to manipulate the divorce of archana and manav. also manav and archana lost 18 years becoz of savita. .Also, don't forget that Manav and Archana lost their first child becoz varsha did not give them the money.

another point, Savita wanted manav and shravani to marry so that she can live a lavish life with Sharavani's money and settle abroad.

You all need to evaluate all the situations before you comment.

Edited by babu2008 - 12 years ago

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Winzy

@nicegirl_good

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Posted: 12 years ago

#19

Sachin is illegitimate , but he was spared that because his father DIED

Sachin was always protected by his family and not thrown around like a doll between two mothers 🤢

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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: babu2008
Guys: no point in arguing... worst manipulator in history of television: Archana and Sulochona
Worst situation creator: manju (sachin actually dies becoz of her)

most irresponsible and irrationale guy: Arjun

stupidest characters with no backbone: Purvi and then archana

worst sister: Varsha

Greatest guy: Onir Dutt

Please think about the contribution of Manju, savita and Varsha in ARMAN's life...savita used to provoke Manav sooo much. Also, she provoked archana to give Soham to varsha. She also gave the idea to varsha to adopt Soham...Also, don't forget that Manav and Archana lost their first child becoz varsha did not give them the money.

another point, Savita wanted manav and varsha to marry so that she can live a lavish life with Sharavani's money and settle abroad.

You all need to evaluate all the situations before you comment.

Exactly! 👏

Savita, Manju, Dharmesh, Ajeet, Varsha and Punni did all the villainy in the show! But who always gets blamed and criticized? Archu and Purvi! They were merely victims of the cruel games played by the villains as it is always shown in Hindi serials. The villains always plan to destroy the leads and succeed in their mission by creating misunderstandings and utter chaos. But in other shows the villains are blamed, its only in this show that I see the leads are blamed! 😆

Savita wanted Shravani as her bahu at any cost because of her greed for wealth. Manav could have given his name to Sachin by adopting him, he didnt have to marry Shravani but Savita insisted.

Edited by pallavi25 - 12 years ago

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