wat the hell? DT note pg7&24 - Page 7

ovi is the only responsible these whole messing. She not destroy only her life but also Arjun, Purvi & Pari life also. Some people are disagree. Well no problem. But mahan onir babu realize this. When ovi blame to him then onir babu say this. ovi madam was totally shocked & she burst her anger & cut the phone.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

India is not a tiny microcosm of limited homogenous morality and traditions!

Rather its an amalgamation of diverse cultures with vastly different traditions and marriage customs.

There are some regions AND religions where men regularly have multiple wives and nobody around gives a thought abt this being an aberration. There are regions where people related by blood can marry and that is part of the local custom, not a deviation. There are many instances of a guy coming to "see" one sister for matrimonial purposes and choosing another sister instead. There are some regions where one woman has multiple husbands, all of them brothers in the same family.

So to judge these matters of matrimonial customs in a narrow sphere of morality would be completely incorrect!

It all depends on the circumstances and in this case, the actual facts are, Arjun and Purvi were destined to love each other and marry but Ovi came in between them! She was the aberration and now that she has gone, Pari's parents must reunite in the bond of matrimony.

Its also a question of Pari's identity, so that narrow-minded people dont call her illegitimate in the future. That is what Sulo and Archu realized today due to Sheetal's mom's words. This is also what Arjun has been feeling for last few weeks that he and Purvi shd be married for Pari's well-being. He can say confidently that his daughter's name is Pari Kirloskar but when mother's name comes up, its Purvi Deshmukh! And that has to change!

Archu and Sulo want to secure Pari and Purvi's future as they dont want these two to be alone when they actually belong with Arjun.

Totally agree with U Pallavi Di. These bold point is so true.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

India is not a tiny microcosm of limited homogenous morality and traditions!

Rather its an amalgamation of diverse cultures with vastly different traditions and marriage customs.

There are some regions AND religions where men regularly have multiple wives and nobody around gives a thought abt this being an aberration. There are regions where people related by blood can marry and that is part of the local custom, not a deviation. There are many instances of a guy coming to "see" one sister for matrimonial purposes and choosing another sister instead. There are some regions where one woman has multiple husbands, all of them brothers in the same family.

So to judge these matters of matrimonial customs in a narrow sphere of morality would be completely incorrect!

It all depends on the circumstances and in this case, the actual facts are, Arjun and Purvi were destined to love each other and marry but Ovi came in between them! She was the aberration and now that she has gone, Pari's parents must reunite in the bond of matrimony.

Its also a question of Pari's identity, so that narrow-minded people dont call her illegitimate in the future. That is what Sulo and Archu realized today due to Sheetal's mom's words. This is also what Arjun has been feeling for last few weeks that he and Purvi shd be married for Pari's well-being. He can say confidently that his daughter's name is Pari Kirloskar but when mother's name comes up, its Purvi Deshmukh! And that has to change!

Archu and Sulo want to secure Pari and Purvi's future as they dont want these two to be alone when they actually belong with Arjun.

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

Naava Very good & sensible post. May be this is first time I saw someone support with Sulochana.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

India is not a tiny microcosm of limited homogenous morality and traditions!

Rather its an amalgamation of diverse cultures with vastly different traditions and marriage customs.

There are some regions AND religions where men regularly have multiple wives and nobody around gives a thought abt this being an aberration. There are regions where people related by blood can marry and that is part of the local custom, not a deviation. There are many instances of a guy coming to "see" one sister for matrimonial purposes and choosing another sister instead. There are some regions where one woman has multiple husbands, all of them brothers in the same family.

So to judge these matters of matrimonial customs in a narrow sphere of morality would be completely incorrect!

It all depends on the circumstances and in this case, the actual facts are, Arjun and Purvi were destined to love each other and marry but Ovi came in between them! She was the aberration and now that she has gone, Pari's parents must reunite in the bond of matrimony.

Its also a question of Pari's identity, so that narrow-minded people dont call her illegitimate in the future. That is what Sulo and Archu realized today due to Sheetal's mom's words. This is also what Arjun has been feeling for last few weeks that he and Purvi shd be married for Pari's well-being. He can say confidently that his daughter's name is Pari Kirloskar but when mother's name comes up, its Purvi Deshmukh! And that has to change!

Archu and Sulo want to secure Pari and Purvi's future as they dont want these two to be alone when they actually belong with Arjun.

Wonderful post Pallavi.

India is complex, and truth is stranger than fiction sometimes. Just because we haven't heard of a case - doesn't mean it didn't happen (as naava mentioned too)

For example, here's a link to two articles on Raja Reddy - dance exponent married to two sisters (circumstances and what not have to be considered). Point is, they are living in an independent country in this day and age - and it's public knowledge what happened.

https://www.hindu.com/mag/2005/11/13/stories/2005111300390500.htm

https://blogs.hindustantimes.com/just-people/2009/04/14/about-raja-reddy-his-dance-and-two-wives/

As for fiction - see the tracks of Justajoo (a husband who is with two sisters), Dishaayein (twin sisters who are with one man at sometime) and Hu-ba-hu
(all hyperlinked). Almost makes you laugh -some of these tracks in the Indian Express piece 😆

Originally posted by: ashfaque2012

ovi is the only responsible these whole messing. She not destroy only her life but also Arjun, Purvi & Pari life also. Some people are disagree. Well no problem. But mahan onir babu realize this. When ovi blame to him then onir babu say this. ovi madam was totally shocked & she burst her anger & cut the phone.

@trident

Wow trident you do realize purvi is a fictional character ? :o

People say it was only ovi s mistake. she took a gun said she wud kill everyone. u marry me right nw or u r dead! Kindly this matter I told U that that gun is not physical or try to kill anyone. But that gun was mom love emotion.

U say this iwas only mistake by ovi. Then your kind information U read following what other mistake of ovi.

How ovi is good person now. She's rude, offensive, disrespectful, neurotic and obsessive! I remember the way she behaved with Archana even before she knew Archu was her mother. She was treating Archu like a servant, ordering her around because to Ovi, she was just her father's employee who could be bullied and commanded according to her will. She told Archu to call her Ma'am! Inspire of Archu being much older to her! Ovi behaved like a typical obnoxious rich kid who has an inflated sense of her own entitlement because of having a rich dad! I cannot stand such kids!

Not only bad behave with her mother Archana but also bad behave with Sulochana when she know that she is Archana mother.

She always WANTED to have what she liked! And even she always got what she wanted. It's just nobody can buy a person's feelings and that's exactly what happened in Arjun-Ovi's case... I have always seen that she changes with time, If good happens to her, she becomes good and if worse happens to her , she becomes bad.. This shows her immature attitude of course, she is immature..

When ovi dealing this proposal with Purvi you need first try that time situation. Many times I say this again I say Purvi is orphan. So she is more concern her mother life. Emotion is one of the most weak thing people lives. Obviously ovi not dealing this hold a gun to either Purvi or Arjun's head or force but she applies emotion blackmail. ovi well know Purvi how much love her mother. Only her mother sake she is ready ovi proposal. Purvi very well know how Archana missing her family last 18 years. If Purvi not agree that proposal then ovi was suicide. U remembers when ovi try to cut her wrist that moment Purvi call to ovi & she agrees to meet Purvi. If not Purvi call that time then ovi was suicide. Whole family blames Purvi for ovi death. Archana also feel bad. If that happen Purvi never forgive her to death of ovi. Then time U people also blame like present Purvi. For her Arjun was a winning trophy whom she wanted to possess by hook or crook.No sane real person would behave how Ovi has behaved. Manav described Ovi rightly in yesterday's episode. So even her parents know she was wrong.

Remember when Bishnu Bala (Soham) Kidnap Purvi instead ovi then Manav was agree to fulfilled Balan demand. But ovi was angry & she try to interput thiat what need to spent so much money for Purvi. What kind of sister she is.

After 1 month marriage anniversary when ovi came home with Arjun then after many days Faruq Bhai has meet to Arjun that he is now good position. If DK not help him he never recover his debt. That time he not knows that Arjun was married with ovi instead Purvi. He wishes to Allah that they are good couple & always will be happy. Then what ovi was reaction. she throws that sweet Faruq Bhai had given them & too much bad behave with senior person like him.

I also remember how Ovi demanded that the then pregnant Purvi be thrown out of Deshmukh house simply because she could not stand Purvi to be in the same house as her! What kind of girl could throw out a heavily pregnant girl (I won't even say sister as Ovi never considered Purvi as her sister) just for her own whims and jealousy? And that too after Purvi dragged Onir to Mumbai to treat Ovi's pregnancy? Is it human behavior?????????

When ovi was pregnant she was totally drunked. Her behavior tries to kill her baby. Also onir say this her womb is so weak. If she not cares herself anytime lost her baby.

People say Purvi forced onir to come Mumbai. But this is really wrong. Only ARMAN demand sake Purvi try to make convince onir to treatment ovi. When he was not agreeing she forced to come Mumbai then onir also came.

Teju has inherited her parents' basic goodness; Ovi has inherited only Savita's selfishness! It often happens that in a pair of twins, one is born with good traits and the other with bad traits. Teju and Ovi are examples of that!

When she know that Pari is Purvi baby then she was totally careless of Pari. When Archana know whole truth then Purvi try to explain Archana everything. But what ovi did. she asking Purvi why not abort your baby. What type woman she is.

She never a good daughter, nor nor good sister, nor good friend, nor good wife, nor good wife.

Originally posted by: tridentmajor

obviously sulochana will support purvi. afterall she is the biggest leech. dusron ki property par naagin ki tarah kundli maar ke baith jaana is her birthright. if ovi gets arjun then this buddhi wont get a single penny out of arjun's wealth but if purvi gets arjun then entire wealth will go to sulochana only.
god knows how much wealth she wants to stuff inside her. moti bhains kahin ki

as far as purvi is concerned , she has no shame roaming entire mumbai with arjun and her illicit child. so cudnt she open her mouth on arovi first month anniversary and declare that she is pregnant ?
ovi left arvi after knowing about their daughter right !!! so ovi would had left arvi that time also. atleast ovi and onir's life would had been spared.
purvi ruined ovi's life , onir's life and she even snatched the medical support of the needy poor in kolkata.

purvi deserves to be drowned in a ocean full of hungry sharks.

SULO IS NOT A LEECH. she cares and loves purvi a lot hence is thinking of a good future for her. thats why for purvi and pari;s sake she wants purvi and arjun to get married. but i agree she is partial toward purvi bcz now only arovi divorce tuk place, she saw how much unhappy ovi was still, she has the audaucity to fill archu's ears regarding arvi marraige. i hope archana has the sense to take correct decsion.
as far as purvi is concerned she even tried convincing arjun to stop arovi divorce so why blame purvi unnecesarily?
but yes purvi has taken extremely stupid decisions which were not only self destructive but spoiled ovi and onir's life. poor ovi, i cried for her.. why is she making such a big sacrifice? she can never forget arjun.😭.