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Posted: 12 years ago
You started another double standard Pallavi!

You say Purvi is technically not Ovi's sister because she is not related by blood. So she shouldn't care for Ovi because they are adoptive sisters? Well nobody asked Purvi to. She forcefully inserted herself in Ovi's life at every opportunity. She gave her opinion on every issue when NOBODY asked her to!

Okay so you say Purvi shouldn't worry about this because they are just adoptive siblings. Then why do ArVi fans get so outraged when Manav was angry at Purvi? She is also his adoptive daughter. A daughter who Archana adopted in his absence.

If you guys don't think Purvi should care what Ovi goes through because they are not connected by blood, why do you guys get so butt hurt when Manav doesn't treat Purvi as his own?

Picking and choosing rules to apply to certain characters yet not applying the same to Arjun/Purvi's actions.

I think we can agree to disagree on this issue.


Edited by ChemistryMajor - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ChemistryMajor

You started another double standard Pallavi!

You say Purvi is technically not Ovi's sister because she is not related by blood. So she shouldn't care for Ovi because they are adoptive sisters? Well nobody asked Purvi to. She forcefully inserted herself in Ovi's life at every opportunity. She gave her opinion on every issue when NOBODY asked her to!

Okay so you say Purvi shouldn't worry about this because they are just adoptive siblings. Then why do you get so outraged when Manav was angry at Purvi? She is also his adoptive daughter. A daughter who Archana adopted.

If you don't think Purvi should care what Ovi goes through because they are not connected by blood, why do you guys get so butt hurt when Manav didn't treat Purvi as his own?

Picking and choosing rules to apply to certain characters yet not applying the same to Arjun/Purvi's actions.

I think we can agree to disagree on this issue.



You mean same double standards as calling Purvi adopted, a street child, who has no rights on Deshmukh house and that she shd have left alongwith her illegitimate child when Ovi returned from Canada?
Purvi becomes adopted and a nobody at times, and at other times shes Ovi's sister... when the jeeju saali angle has to be brought up!.😆
Even Manav has always differentiated, for instance, in his Will he divided his property equally amongst Ovi, Teju and Sachin but just gave a pittance to Purvi. Why not equal share? Because shes not his blood! Sachin is his blood. And before you mention Soham, Im sure when Soham reforms completely and establishes/proves himself to Manav, then he will get equal share too like his blood related siblings.
Fact is, Purvi herself desperately tries to belong to Deshmukh family but they accept or reject her according to the current circumstances. 😆 Shes always been the outsider and she never really belonged to them, biologically or legally!

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: pallavi25


Same way that Ovi married her would be jeeju by crooked means a day before ArVi wedding!
BIL is not related by blood, Purvi and Ovi are not related by blood.
Purvi wont just be marrying her adoptive sister's ex husband but rather she will be marrying her ex-fiance and the father of her child! Whats so wrong abt that? I think its perfectly right!
Even Ovi wants that, doesnt she? And she told Arjun she would come to the wedding too. Arent u happy shes matured enough to say that?
Purvi stood there and conducted Ovi Arjun wedding...then why cant Ovi attend Purvi and Arjun wedding? I would be happy to see that Ovi who has evolved and matured and moved on!


Wait who was engaged first ? Wasnt Arjun and ovi engaged first ? And then purvi and Arjun !
But they were married
Purvi and Arjun were not married legally and in front of the society
What happens behind closed doors doesn't change the fact that ovi and Arjun were married for a year or so
Yes , of course I believe you've watched KHTV ? The Anika-bulbul- vihaan situation was appropriate
Vihaan was FORCED to marry Anika by Anika
And vihaan didn't even touch Anika
That's when Anika gave a divorce to him and she attended their wedding

Despite having a physical even emotional relationship with ovi in front of society and legally how can it in any way even be appropriate ?
I'm not against the two getting married , I'm against the fact that purvi will marry her sister's ex husband
If ovi was wrong to steal her jeeju
Then purvi was wrong to steal her jeeju first upon knowing Arjun cheated on ovi
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Wait who was engaged first ? Wasnt Arjun and ovi engaged first ? And then purvi and Arjun !
But they were married
Purvi and Arjun were not married legally and in front of the society
What happens behind closed doors doesn't change the fact that ovi and Arjun were married for a year or so
Yes , of course I believe you've watched KHTV ? The Anika-bulbul- vihaan situation was appropriate
Vihaan was FORCED to marry Anika by Anika
And vihaan didn't even touch Anika
That's when Anika gave a divorce to him and she attended their wedding

Despite having a physical even emotional relationship with ovi in front of society and legally how can it in any way even be appropriate ?
I'm not against the two getting married , I'm against the fact that purvi will marry her sister's ex husband
If ovi was wrong to steal her jeeju
Then purvi was wrong to steal her jeeju first upon knowing Arjun cheated on ovi


Its the chicken or egg situation here! 😆
Did Ovi snatch her would be jeeju or Purvi snatch her would be jeeju?😆
Well, Purvi didnt know Arjun was engaged to Ovi when she fell in love with him... and when she came to know she did reject him, didnt she? But then Arjun persuaded her and Archu and Sulo also gave their blessings when Arjun proved his love for her. If Archu had objected then, Purvi would have dumped Arjun right there and then!
In other Ekta shows, Ive seen worse. Blood related sister stealing sister's fiance or husband...its a common theme in Indian shows I believe.
Fact is Purvi is not related to Ovi by blood, shes just Archu's daughter and she doesnt really belong with Deshmukhs who rejected her when she was in her worst times. So the jeeju angle is not going to work, especially after Ovi Arjun divorce has been finalized.
Anika and Bulbul are blood related sisters...they had the same father.So situation is different.
Edited by pallavi25 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
Anyway, Im out of here! Got a lot to do and going away for the weekend again!
You guys enjoy the debate...😃
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: pallavi25


Its the chicken or egg situation here! 😆
Did Ovi snatch her would be jeeju or Purvi snatch her would be jeeju?😆
Well, Purvi didnt know Arjun was engaged to Ovi when she fell in love with him... and when she came to know she did reject him, didnt she? But then Arjun persuaded her and Archu and Sulo also gave their blessings when Arjun proved his love for her. If Archu had objected then, Purvi would have dumped Arjun right there and then!
In other Ekta shows, Ive seen worse. Blood related sister stealing sister's fiance or husband...its a common theme in Indian shows I believe.
Fact is Purvi is not related to Ovi by blood, shes just Archu's daughter and she doesnt really belong with Deshmukhs who rejected her when she was in her worst times. So the jeeju angle is not going to work, especially after Ovi Arjun divorce has been finalized.
Anika and Bulbul are blood related sisters...they had the same father.So situation is different.


She is archu's daughter but purvi is the one who keeps doing my sister , my sister 🤢
It's not ovi , it's not about being adopted or related by blood
It's about being from the same family . For better or worse. Archana can't throw purvi or ovi away
And when purvi knew her sister LOVED Arjun and always loved him , how did she say as to it
Ovi loved Arjun all her life
Ovi was dying . I cringe every time I think how bad it must have been for ovi
Like Anika, or many other jiju stealers ovi never did anything wrong for Arjun to cheat on her big time
I know they are not related by blood and I don't think it's really jeeju saali in Arjun and purvu's case
It's about something much bigger , it's about sticking for your words , sticking to your deeds
It's not even about purvi and Arjun anymore
If purvi was the one thinking about it or Arjun even
I would understand
But it's sulo thinking that way 🤢
That's disgusting why didn't she say anything when Arjun and ovi walked in wearing the garlands :s
She even slapped purvi in from of everyone
But she didn't say ANYTHING when things could be fixed
And now that ovi isn't here she is thinking about purvi

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Posted: 12 years ago


Few things I would like to remind everyone before closing this post ..

Once again go through the new IF rules made by the site admin and follow it if u dont want a WL before your name ..

Quoting some of the rules than hv been broken in this post ..

First rule broken : After viewbie note is given on pg 7 , noone is suppose to openly question the mod about it .. if u hv any doubts , there is a PM service for it and a rule plus protocol about the same is explained in the new IF COC which I m quoting below

Discussing the Dev Team: Lately there are lots of topics being created on the forum against one member of the DT or the entire DT. We realize that it's because you are not sure how things are handled or upset at the way things are handle. You may disagree with the way the issue was taken care and that's fair. However we want you to not create such topics that question or criticize the DT in the forum. The feeling arises that we want to keep things under cover. However that is not the case. We do want to hear your complaint but we also want to be fair to the people in question. All sides need to be heard objectively and bringing this in the forum just adds more fuel to the fire. By the time the whole story is heard in the forum the atmosphere becomes ugly and negative and we want to avoid that. If you have a complaint PM the DT person and if you are not satisfied follow the hierarchy and PM the next in command. When you are contacting us with your concern be civil and explain your point in detail so we completely understand your standpoint.



Second rule broken : When u r reporting posts or making comments in any post , try not to tell the Mods or other members what to do and what not to do as that comes under moral policing and will not b allowed anymore ... Quoting the new IF COC rule regarding the same below

Moral Policing: Moral policing by members in any forum will NOT be tolerated. It only leads to unnecessary instigation/arguments. The section Dev Team Members will do the needful when a situation arises. Members are to simply abide by the rules and not preach others. If you should come across an abusive topic please contact the development team, rather than taking matters in your own hands. You can contact the Development team by either reporting the post in question and filling out what the issue is, or by sending a PM with a link to the thread containing a few sentences of what the issue. When reporting the issues make sure you use the hierarchy. Viewbies are to be contacted first and then then up the ladder Moderators to Channel Moderators to Global Moderator and the Admin.



Third rule broken :
In the name of criticism , we wont allow any form of bashing , name calling , mocking or indirect celebrity slander which r observed in many of the posts in this thread .. A rule regarding same as per new IF COC is quoted below

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Fourth rule broken :
Last but not the least , dont report one post multiple times just to prove your point or challenge the mod as that is not allowed according to new IF COC too ... quoting the rule about the same below

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All of the above 4 rules hv been broken in last few pages despite a viewbie note on pg 7 ... And these rules r broken by both the parties involved .. Next time if we come across such cases when even after a viewbie note , members continue to fight or challenge the mods , then without any prior notes , the WLs of the members involved will b raised and they will receive PMs regarding the same ... I m sure all r aware of the number of restrictions that the WLs carry after the new IF rules r announced .. So if u guys dont want such restrictions to b imposed , then follow the above mentioned rules ..


Also those who challenged the viewbie note .. do take a close look again on all the warnings given on pg 7 .. warnings r given to both the parties .. the one involved in telling others to chill is warned too and the ones who deliberately used the word "jeeja saali" to only instigate the other fan grp were warned too .. 😊 ...We r not against the word "Jeeja saali" if its used in a proper healthy discussion with valid points but when the same word is randomly used in every single post almost on a daily basis to deliberately make fun of the characters which can rile up their fans , thats when warnings r issued .. same holds for other fan grps too .. if we come across such words which r time and again used for any other character in the show , similar warnings will b given ..

Closing this topic since the topic is reduced to just a one upmanship game between two parties instead of any healthy discussion or debate ...


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Edited by jyoti06 - 12 years ago

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