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Hillylove

@Hillylove

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Posted: 12 years ago

#111

Excellent Posts KC👍🏼

You have all said everything.

However, I just want to make a comment on a comment that really shock me. Purvi was not in her senses, due to hormones, so she made a wrong judgement call in conspiring to swap babies?

Wow, I thought being in that state a woman would be screaming give me my baby, I want see my baby, not give my baby away. How many times we have heard stories where women have signed papers for their babies adoption and as soon as they deliver, changed their minds?

There is no end to the defence of Purvi's destructive decisions, but this is the limit, hormonal decision? Will I soon see that she had post par tum depression in her defence?

In a court of law Purvi's defence would have to come way better than that. As Kools said, the court would be looking at money motive and I can even add revenge motive. If the prosecution knew the background of all the relationships, they could very well argue that Purvi intentionally wanted her baby to be with Arjun not only for the fact that he has money, but to get even with Ovi for the deal, revenge.

Not only that, the judge would want to see some evidence of Ovi's dead baby, to confirm if there is in deed a dead baby or if it was not foul play on Purvi and Onir's part so the swap could happen. in this case they would need an autopsy done, could Onir and Purvi even produce such evidence?

So, the defence of hormones, is weak and I am sure would be overlooked by court as mere speculation, as Purvi had not made any effort to take the baby back after she came out of the hospital for months. Overruled!!!

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soapwatcher1

@soapwatcher1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#112

Originally posted by: Kalapi
What is adulation of Ovi...you mean to say swapping of child is to be glorified- which Court does it - not the Real court of this world _ Purvi did a crime - took away a baby, didn't give the mom to mourn. If she wanted to give the child, she should have given her telling Ovi the truth. Yes, she could even tell Arjun the truth...no, but that is not what she did. Did Ovi, tell Onir to swap her baby for Purvi's death one???

I guess, I can say the same about Purvi - it her her adulation that members turn a blind eye to her crime - intentions - really, a baby is swapped - this is criminal - if you don't see it, that is OK, but hope you don't follow Purvi's footstep in real life - that will be disastrous,,,,

Kalapi, that was a misunderstanding, my bad about the supari, I will never forget now what supari means. But I never said a thing about killing anyone because the person was sick or depressed so still not sure how that came about.

I mentioned adulation of Ovi only cos you said I was blinded by my love for Purvi. And please, you are doing it again, advising me to not be like Purvi in real life, these are fictional characters, I am certain we both have the sense to realize that and not follow their behavior in real life. Truce.

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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

#113

Everything is not always related to sex and money! That is the American way of looking at things. 😆

I guess people who have lived abroad for a long time have forgotten the diversity of Indian cultures, customs, thoughts and attitudes. Feelings are more important than money unlike capitalist countries, personal sacrifice is still glorified and admired.

The Court would see Purvi gave up her own child to her sister, she did not TAKE a child from her.To take is a crime, to give away is sacrifice.

Taking is bad, like Ovi took Arjun from Purvi. Giving is good, like Purvi gave her baby to Ovi since her baby had died.

The Court would see her noble intentions in giving away her own child, a very difficult thing to do for any mother. But it would be seen as a noble sacrifice, not as a crime!

Aah the glory of sacrifice like now Onir is being glorified for sacrificing his love and good name for Purvi's happiness.

Ekta's shows always portray the protagonists sacrificing their own personal happiness for the greater good (chawl case) or for someone's well being and happiness (baby donation)

Fuming and fretting abt the dead baby's funeral is not going to get us anywhere! The CVs or Deshmukh or Karanjkar family or Onir...nobody ever mentioned what would be done abt the dead baby, even when it was thought to be Purvi's stillborn.

Probably the CVs had no idea how a stillborn's shradh is done or whether its done at all...people who have not suffered such a tragedy would have no idea abt such a delicate matter.

Even Ovi never once questioned what happened to her stillborn. I didnt see her asking Onir...what did u do with my baby? Was it a boy or a girl?

But we did see Ovi talking to Onir abt Arjun and her divorce. That shows the baby is not and was never as important to her as her obsession with Arjun. So why go on abt the dead baby? And try to pin the "crime" on Purvi? 🥱

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

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Posted: 12 years ago

#114

Just like PR this forum has only handfuls who hold all the wonderful sanskars and know the diversity of cultures of India...They are the only ones who have infamous MBA degree when it comes to everything...Love, Sex, Money & all 😆 Rest are illeterate and have no clue..Moved to west and never learned or kept up with diversity...As if West IE US, Canada or England is not full of diversity...Lord have mercy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I 🤣 and at that

Taking is bad

Giving is sacrifice

Than

What are Indian givers 😡

On a second thought Why do I feel I will be seeing some article courtesy of Google uncle or auntie 😉 & MBA of our forum 😡

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pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

#115

Indian giver is a term used for Red Indians or American Indians by whites in America...not meaning India ka Indians! 😆

The phrase originated, according to researcher David Wilton, in a cultural misunderstanding that arose when Europeans first encountered Native Americans on arriving in North America in the 15th century. Europeans thought they were receiving gifts from Native Americans, while the Native Americans believed they were engaged in bartering; this resulted in the Europeans finding Native American behaviour ungenerous and insulting.

Its good to be well-informed, comes in handy! 😉

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#116

who is trying to 'pin' a crime on Purvi ? She actually committed one , fact shown in serial ! whether Ovi questions or not , is good or bad does NOT erase that ...infact Ovi's questions or nature have nothing to do with it . She did a crime , period and went scot free for it .

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#117

And who says the American way of looking at things is sex and money ? 😕 Isn't that judgmental and racist ?

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#118

Kools, it is not seen as a crime only Karma for Ovi by Arvi fans.

Her baby loss and crime swapping by Purvi is Karma for poor Ovi in their eyes.

Now, I see why the fall of man is blamed on women.😒

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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

#119

Its hard to understand Indian mentality and Ekta's shows if one is not familiar with the Indian mindset...of glorifying sacrifice for others.

When the court judge has declared Purvi innocent of any crime, why gripe abt that? She did not kill Ovi's baby, in fact Ovi endangered her own baby's life by her drinking during 1st trimester!

Princess Kate was sipping water at a party last year instead of wine which made the gossip mills start spinning that she was pregnant, which turned out to be true!😆

Every and any expectant mother knows that its deadly to drink alcohol during pregnancy and especially in 1st trimester which is the riskiest part of pregnancy. Ovi did that and she suffered the consequences. Reference Onir's diagnosis in Kolkata when he said that Ovi's womb was too weak for childbirth plus she had made it worse by drinking.

She didnt even want the baby so she was trying to get rid of it, she herself told Archu she didnt care what happened to the baby. And NO Arjun is not to be blamed for that, a normal mother cares for her unborn child irrespective of what the husband is doing or not doing.

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#120

Don't make sense you try to twist what the Indian culture deems as sacrifice. I am sure India would not condone a woman giving another woman her baby without her knowledge, and not allow her to do last rites on her own baby. this is past being a crime, it is an immoral act on Purvi and Onir's part, and even more immoral for Purvi as a Mother which she is so praised for, to even think of such a horrible thing to do to another Mother.

Why tarnish the reputation of your own culture to make an absurd point for a Fictional Character.

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