Thanks archana and teju - Page 3

Originally posted by: pallavi25

I always liked Teju right from Canada days, shes such a no nonsense, practical yet sensitive, loving girl! Shes truly Archu's daughter, with a big heart!

She would never do the wrong thing especially to a baby! She was right for blasting Ovi when she found Pari crying. How can any woman just stand there and let a baby cry when the baby is in her care? And I noticed Ovi placed Pari precariously at the edge of the bed, which could have resulted in a fall! Falling from such a high bed can be seriously injurious for a 3-4 month old baby! 😲 That was completely careless, callous and cruel! Im so happy Teju came rushing to Pari's rescue and took care of her! She doesnt approve of Purvi now, but she would never hold a grudge against the little baby just because its Purvi and Arjun's child.

Originally posted by: pallavi25

December 10 and 11th updates. Ovi clearly states her feelings to Archu abt the baby shes expecting, she didnt even want to have the baby and said she didnt care if anything happend to it.

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/pavitra-rishta/1189224/pavitra-rishta-updates-archieves-no-comments?pn=6

Originally posted by: PandorasBox

Feelings change. Emotion towards pregnancy is dynamic. I know a lot of people who were anxious, nervous, even displeased at getting knocked up but grew to loving their child growing inside of them. It doesn't change or lessen the hurt at losing a child. We saw the progression in Ovi's yearning for her child. The hopes and dreams you had for it. It's a big sin to take away the right to mourn for a dead child which Purvi-Onir did. Even if you are not religious, having a ceremony of some kind (ie. funeral) helps people get over their loss. Here Ovi did not get closure...There are open wounds and Archana unknowingly rubbed salt on it (But seriously how shameless can Arjun get by naming his child what his ex-lover wanted even though he had no idea it was her child!)

Originally posted by: rayadallie

I guess the CV committed a huge blunder by not showing us what happened to the dead child. In so doing, it does not make it right for us to assume in the negative that Onir and purvi discard the child without a funeral etc. Also at that time, the baby was perceived to be purvi's and Onir so the same argument can hold. But what bothers me up until now is if a funeral is the only way to mourn for a dead? How many persons would have lost love ones and never see them again. Does it mean they did not get to mourn because they did not get to perform a funeral? I am just curious.

Being frank about it, is that Ovi knew that arjun loved purvi before she made a deal of marriage with purvi, so if arjun continues to bask in purvi's world and memories, who is to be blamed for it- purvi? I guess not as Ovi went into it knowing the details up front. It was her choice. She got what she wanted. She won the war but not the battle. I am sorry for her but that is what she asked for.

Originally posted by: Pancham101

Archana and Purvi have a relationship that transcends norms created by society. When Purvi said that she is nothing without her Aai, it was beautiful and sad at the same time.

Coming to Teju..well, she has always had a relationship with Arjun in her own right too. A testament to that is this scene from long ago, when Teju's car needs repair work, obviously right outside the garage.

There is only and only honesty on Arjun's part and a sincere effort on Teju's part to understand...

A confused Teju wants to know why the Mr. Kirloskar is doing what he's doing ...wherein he replies that he is trying to find himself.

Teju feels as his best friend, he should have talked to her about what was happening in his life...

Arjun offers 'thapri wali' chai to a shocked ex-taxi driver ...

Teju appreciates the chai as a symbol of the change in Arjun...

Arjun is looking forward to day he can ask for Purvi's hand...

Wish Teju's wisdom and her ability to appreciate nuances of various rishtey are not relegated to the sofa right alongside mute Grandpa.

Great post as always Rayadallie

Originally posted by: Ruchikaarvilove

cOMPL;etely agree Raya di... 😳😃

Ovi is getting what she wanted. She ver ywell knew that Arjun and Purvi were in love but still she wanted to separate two lovebirds. And she did it. ANd now whatever is happening in her life she herself is responsible for it. Blaming Purvi or Arjun or anybody else is not the right thing!

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

😆 Hey but ovi doesn't have the right to feel angry because no one gives great arvi angry looks regarding their symbol of love

Originally posted by: rayadallie

The sooner Ovi realise the fault was hers, the sooner she would be able to move on because it seems to me that she has not move on, she is just putting up a charade or what I would say hard to get act towards arjun hoping for his undivided attention. In my opinion, if she had really chosen to move on, then there should have been no anger. Whatever arjun or purvi does should not have bother her. I in her place would have cared less of what arjun and purvi are doing in their life as it would interest me the least. I would have been looking towards my future and my new beau - if I get one already.

Originally posted by: Ruchikaarvilove

Yes moreover she always says that she has moved on in her life. But is doesn't seems so. If she really wants to move on then why not hse just end up this deal-wala-rishta? I guess the whole family would support her in this. Or otherwise she can go to Canada and happily live her life out there. If she really wants to move on then she has to show this in her works as well.. If she forgets Arjun and moves on then she can live her life peacefully and even Arjun can remain in peace! 😊