Archu right from the show started has been a emotional paradox.Her mom(Sulo) stopped her education/agreed to stop her education midway when she was young coz there was no one to help her manage the household and other children.Hence Sulo as re-payment for that always wanted to give a wonderful life to Archu.In that process she turned blind eye to the character of the person she wanted her daughter to get married to.
Satish came in as a perfect dude ,well educated with different life style.Even though Satish was perfect that emotional bond Archu was looking for never matched.Satish and family became vicitims of Ajit's plan and things collapsed.Then came a simple mechanic in form of Manav in archu's life and they connected.One thing common was both were used by their family as a machine to either mint money (Manav's case) or to get hosehold chores done (Archu's case).
No one really cared what did they want or to say they exited to make others life easier.
Archu was never allowed to value for herself thanks to Sulo as she was taking all her decisions.This made Archu loose her own identify.There was no one to make her feel that she is special.
Manav entered things changed and for first time in her life she was made feel so special.She was in trance over Manav's simplicity and could relate with him and was head over heels in love with him like Manav was with her.
She realized this a bit late after original Sachu (Manav' brother) death.
Both were ready to give up their love for the sake of a responsibility (Shravani and her unborn child) which could have been tackled in a much better way.
Over the years for Archu there is no life beyond Manav and similar was the case with Manav.
Sometimes being too good or trying to help too much makes situation worse as it was the case when Arman tried to help Varsha by almost giving Soham for adoption thinking its gone to make Varsha happy ,end result she got possessed with Soham (Same Varsha who did not do a iota of help when Archu was suffering from labor pain and money was needed for operation and none helped,Arman's first unborn child died).Arman life were dictated by others which led them down to the depth of never ending torture from others.
Anything too much makes the situation worse and unfortunately Arman have been the victims many times ,they slogged out living on roads without food and shelter and fought it out against many odds.
Looks like their children (all 5) are suffering the same fate in different ways.
I hope CV's have mercy at-least and end this never suffering and let peace prevail in the life of all Arman kids coz no pain is more painful than to see your children suffer.For a change ,show younger generation learning from their mistakes and correcting it ,show them to have backbone and put an end to these never ending senseless sacrifices ,give them a opportunity to analyze and learn with their parents help.Of course if PR becomes logical then it cant be termed PR with the current state of affairs.Can only hope CV's at least show mercy on Arman and their kids at-least now.