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Posted: 12 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Ruchikaarvilove

Yes moreover she always says that she has moved on in her life. But is doesn't seems so. If she really wants to move on then why not hse just end up this deal-wala-rishta? I guess the whole family would support her in this. Or otherwise she can go to Canada and happily live her life out there. If she really wants to move on then she has to show this in her works as well.. If she forgets Arjun and moves on then she can live her life peacefully and even Arjun can remain in peace! 😊

Very True. She can live in peace and let arjun, purvi and pari and the entire family live in peace.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Arjun naming the baby Pari has a lot to do with Purvi's baby's supposed death. Arjun was deeply saddened abt Purvi's loss. By naming his and Ovi's baby Pari, he was trying to soothe Purvi's wounded heart.
Ovi snatched Arjun from Purvi's life, but she could never throw out Purvi from Arjun's heart. That is not possible. It was stupidly insane of Ovi to even think that she would be able to do so...its not easy to forget the one u love, its actually impossible!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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What else can you expect from Ovi. She cannot see anything beyond herself!

I have supported Ovi that she cannot expect to feel responsible for Pari. However, the way she behaved with Pari was totally, totally disgusting. The baby she has nursed for two months, can she not look after it till someone comes and relieves her? When she has decided she has nothing to do with Arjun, what is this anger about Pari being the daughter of Arjun and Purvi? Purvi and Arjun are really unforgivable to leave the baby in the hands of this emotionless person.

When she has been going around in Canada claiming that she is not married when her husband is still alive and from whom she is neither legally separated or divorced, why only carry this anger on Pari? Yes, thanks to Archana and Teju without whom there is no hope for this D-clan.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pancham101

Archana and Purvi have a relationship that transcends norms created by society. When Purvi said that she is nothing without her Aai, it was beautiful and sad at the same time.



Coming to Teju..well, she has always had a relationship with Arjun in her own right too. A testament to that is this scene from long ago, when Teju's car needs repair work, obviously right outside the garage.
There is only and only honesty on Arjun's part and a sincere effort on Teju's part to understand...

A confused Teju wants to know why the Mr. Kirloskar is doing what he's doing ...wherein he replies that he is trying to find himself.

Teju feels as his best friend, he should have talked to her about what was happening in his life...


Arjun offers 'thapri wali' chai to a shocked ex-taxi driver ...


Teju appreciates the chai as a symbol of the change in Arjun...


Arjun is looking forward to day he can ask for Purvi's hand...


Wish Teju's wisdom and her ability to appreciate nuances of various rishtey are not relegated to the sofa right alongside mute Grandpa.

Great post as always Rayadallie



Beautiful screen shots and write-up my friend. Archana-Purvi bonding is the one of the most precious ones of the show and Teju is the most uncomplicated soul of the show.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I liked what Teju did. <33

And I also agree with most of your post.

Besides the fact that Ovi was doing her own thing in Canada while her mom was in Coma. I think everyone was doing the same.
Didn't Purvi do that too.
Worse she did it with Pari too.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi snatched Arjun from Purvi? As much attached as Arjun was to Purvi's pallu, he was still an fully functional adult male. He went into it willingly. He slept with Ovi, got turned on by the feel of Ovi's body, released his sexual desire on her- all without being forced.

And Purvi and Onir did take away Ovi's mourning for her child. She had a RIGHT to know her child was no more the moment it died. I don't know why Arjun would be dumb enough to leave his love child with his wife. Which wife would be elated to take care of such child? If Purvi Arjun were in love, it doesn't change the fact that Arjun was MARRIED to Ovi- marriage is both a social and religious contract to be commited emotionally, physically, and spiritually. As far as I saw, Arjun was not emotionally available for Ovi but jumped at one word from the damsel in distress Purvi. He was emotionally cheating on Ovi with Purvi (yes there is such thing as emotional cheating). Arjun could have refused to marry Ovi in the first place OR even divorced her. He does not love her so what's his excuse for staying in the marriage?

I don't know why someone would be portrayed as a negative character for not getting over such a huge event in their lifetime...in reality people don't get over such thing their whole entire life. Some go into depression, some suicide, some do get over it after therapy. At worst Ovi is a grey character which makes her all the more interesting. Keep in mind that it hasn't even been a year since the revelation. In another serial Veera, the mother (who is a positive character) loath her step-daughter who her missing husband had with someone else..but grew to accepting her. THat is a realistic portrayal. At the very least she didn't have to see/hear from the other woman all the time. Here Purvi digs her nose into everything, anyone would be annoyed.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Oh and let's hope Archana does what she knows best when it is revealed that Onir has another wife. For all those that think Archana will reunite Arvi, here's a background into her problem-solving capability under similar circumstance:

DHARMESH-VAISHALI-MADHURI:

Archana's youngest sister, Vaishali, was married to a fat rich guy Dharmesh and was with child with him. It was discovered by Archana and Manav that Dharmesh had a hidden life with a first wife and child who had some disease. He visited her in Pune frequently and lived as husband and wife. He was also attempting to make another child with Madhuri so that their child Varun could have bone marrow. So anyways after everything was found out, Archana co-hearced Madhuri to court to make her marriage not valid in court so that her own sister Vaishali could get the title of legitimate wife, and her child get Dharmesh as a father. In the end Vaishali got custody of Dharmesh's first child with Madhuri as well but Vaishali treated the child poorly. Dharmesh also abused Vaishali quite a lot. But Archana "fixed" everything.

Now it'd be interesting to see if Archana takes the same approach with Onir-Shalini-Purvi. One thing we know is Onir isn't rich as Dharmesh was so maybe that might affect Archana's decision. Also, if Archana can send Vaishali to an abuser like Dharmesh, I don't see why she won't send Purvi back to Onir. She would be a hypocrite if she doesn't, meaning she cares more for her daughter then she ever cared for her sister.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: PandorasBox

Ovi snatched Arjun from Purvi? As much attached as Arjun was to Purvi's pallu, he was still an fully functional adult male. He went into it willingly. He slept with Ovi, got turned on by the feel of Ovi's body, released his sexual desire on her- all without being forced.

And Purvi and Onir did take away Ovi's mourning for her child. She had a RIGHT to know her child was no more the moment it died. I don't know why Arjun would be dumb enough to leave his love child with his wife. Which wife would be elated to take care of such child? If Purvi Arjun were in love, it doesn't change the fact that Arjun was MARRIED to Ovi- marriage is both a social and religious contract to be commited emotionally, physically, and spiritually. As far as I saw, Arjun was not emotionally available for Ovi but jumped at one word from the damsel in distress Purvi. He was emotionally cheating on Ovi with Purvi (yes there is such thing as emotional cheating). Arjun could have refused to marry Ovi in the first place OR even divorced her. He does not love her so what's his excuse for staying in the marriage?

I don't know why someone would be portrayed as a negative character for not getting over such a huge event in their lifetime...in reality people don't get over such thing their whole entire life. Some go into depression, some suicide, some do get over it after therapy. At worst Ovi is a grey character which makes her all the more interesting. Keep in mind that it hasn't even been a year since the revelation. In another serial Veera, the mother (who is a positive character) loath her step-daughter who her missing husband had with someone else..but grew to accepting her. THat is a realistic portrayal. At the very least she didn't have to see/hear from the other woman all the time. Here Purvi digs her nose into everything, anyone would be annoyed.


I think this applies to Arjun too. He lost his love just as ovi lost her child. Arjun was equally as hurt when he discovered Ovi and Purvi had actually sold him between each other. Just like Ovi is and rightfully so upset and hurt that she wasn't able to see or even know about her child.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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^ No one forced Arjun to marry Ovi, he did it willingly.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Archu right from the show started has been a emotional paradox.Her mom(Sulo) stopped her education/agreed to stop her education midway when she was young coz there was no one to help her manage the household and other children.Hence Sulo as re-payment for that always wanted to give a wonderful life to Archu.In that process she turned blind eye to the character of the person she wanted her daughter to get married to.
Satish came in as a perfect dude ,well educated with different life style.Even though Satish was perfect that emotional bond Archu was looking for never matched.Satish and family became vicitims of Ajit's plan and things collapsed.Then came a simple mechanic in form of Manav in archu's life and they connected.One thing common was both were used by their family as a machine to either mint money (Manav's case) or to get hosehold chores done (Archu's case).
No one really cared what did they want or to say they exited to make others life easier.
Archu was never allowed to value for herself thanks to Sulo as she was taking all her decisions.This made Archu loose her own identify.There was no one to make her feel that she is special.
Manav entered things changed and for first time in her life she was made feel so special.She was in trance over Manav's simplicity and could relate with him and was head over heels in love with him like Manav was with her.
She realized this a bit late after original Sachu (Manav' brother) death.
Both were ready to give up their love for the sake of a responsibility (Shravani and her unborn child) which could have been tackled in a much better way.
Over the years for Archu there is no life beyond Manav and similar was the case with Manav.
Sometimes being too good or trying to help too much makes situation worse as it was the case when Arman tried to help Varsha by almost giving Soham for adoption thinking its gone to make Varsha happy ,end result she got possessed with Soham (Same Varsha who did not do a iota of help when Archu was suffering from labor pain and money was needed for operation and none helped,Arman's first unborn child died).Arman life were dictated by others which led them down to the depth of never ending torture from others.
Anything too much makes the situation worse and unfortunately Arman have been the victims many times ,they slogged out living on roads without food and shelter and fought it out against many odds.
Looks like their children (all 5) are suffering the same fate in different ways.
I hope CV's have mercy at-least and end this never suffering and let peace prevail in the life of all Arman kids coz no pain is more painful than to see your children suffer.For a change ,show younger generation learning from their mistakes and correcting it ,show them to have backbone and put an end to these never ending senseless sacrifices ,give them a opportunity to analyze and learn with their parents help.Of course if PR becomes logical then it cant be termed PR with the current state of affairs.Can only hope CV's at least show mercy on Arman and their kids at-least now.

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