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Posted: 12 years ago
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I always liked Teju right from Canada days, shes such a no nonsense, practical yet sensitive, loving girl! Shes truly Archu's daughter, with a big heart!
She would never do the wrong thing especially to a baby! She was right for blasting Ovi when she found Pari crying. How can any woman just stand there and let a baby cry when the baby is in her care? And I noticed Ovi placed Pari precariously at the edge of the bed, which could have resulted in a fall! Falling from such a high bed can be seriously injurious for a 3-4 month old baby! 😲 That was completely careless, callous and cruel! Im so happy Teju came rushing to Pari's rescue and took care of her! She doesnt approve of Purvi now, but she would never hold a grudge against the little baby just because its Purvi and Arjun's child.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree. Teju understands her sisters pain but she's still able to see reality and the world around her. She sees that an infant is crying and needs attention!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi's husband, Arjun, named Ovi and his child Pari by day-dreaming of his love affair with his saali. At that time, everyone including Arjun thought it was Arovi baby. Purvi and Arjun talked about how they would name "their" child Pari. How shameless to name one's child based on a love affair with someone else.

The Pari name Archana brought out is not a small thing. It must have reminded her of her own dead child and the hopes and dreams she had. This time, it's not just about Arjun. I don't know how people can expect Ovi to move on so easily when the humiluation she reserves is nothing short of rubbing salt on old wounds. Pari is a symol of Ovi's life crashing down, of her dead child whom she hasn't had a chance to mourn over. And please, no matter how wrong Ovi was in making the deal, nothing justifies what happened hereafter. Anyone in Ovi's place would let off steam as she has no way of expressing herself. She has to put on the facade of being with Arjun despite being hurt.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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December 10 and 11th updates. Ovi clearly states her feelings to Archu abt the baby shes expecting, she didnt even want to have the baby and said she didnt care if anything happend to it.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

December 10 and 11th updates. Ovi clearly states her feelings to Archu abt the baby shes expecting, she didnt even want to have the baby and said she didnt care if anything happend to it.






Feelings change. Emotion towards pregnancy is dynamic. I know a lot of people who were anxious, nervous, even displeased at getting knocked up but grew to loving their child growing inside of them. It doesn't change or lessen the hurt at losing a child. We saw the progression in Ovi's yearning for her child. The hopes and dreams you had for it. It's a big sin to take away the right to mourn for a dead child which Purvi-Onir did. Even if you are not religious, having a ceremony of some kind (ie. funeral) helps people get over their loss. Here Ovi did not get closure...There are open wounds and Archana unknowingly rubbed salt on it (But seriously how shameless can Arjun get by naming his child what his ex-lover wanted even though he had no idea it was her child!)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sk11

I understand Ray. I felt sad when Purvi said "aai I was so lonely & incomplete without you"


Regardless of what Purvi has done, she's a human being at the end of the day. Just as I feel for Ovi, I feel for Purvi. Ovi still has her family to turn to...her father to speak to. Purvi had no one throughout except Onir who has began to act weird.

Purvi was betrayed also when she saw Arjun getting engaged to Ovi. She was shocked too. She got her heartbroken too. I remember how much Archu was going crazy on purvi by yelling and slapping her over and over again. Archu went insane when she found about arvi.

Then the deal came and purvi made the worse decision by accepting her deal. This decision to accept this deal ruined her life. She chose her mom over her love and she's paying for it...boy is she paying for it! She became pregnant and left town to save arovi marriage. Would have probably stayed there had Ovi's pregnancy not been difficult. Then in order to help ovi again she forced onir come to Mumbai. This was a mistake. She got herself involved where she wasn't wanted just because of who she was. Her husband was humiliated too by Ovi. Purvi shouldn't have cared. And let ovi be. Whatever would have come of Ovi's child would be her own doing. Then the baby swapping. No one will understand this.

Purvi tried to help "too much". She's always trying to look for the best in everyone even when they don't see it in her. She's gotten herself involved in situations that she wasn't needed in. She caused herself more heartbreak by getting involved with Ovi and her baby. Truth is purvi shouldn't have cared. She already gave her love to her...what more was needed!

Purvi has always had her heartbreak too but in the middle of purvis heartbreaking, ovi's heart would break faster and the family could only hear ovi's heart break and never felt purvis heart breaking. That's the sad thing here.




Sony, Thank U so much for very emotional Post. What I say now. Everything of your post is so true that also my view. Everytime I justify Purvi & ovi this way. Very sad that no one stand with Purvi but all are with ovi.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pallavi25

I always liked Teju right from Canada days, shes such a no nonsense, practical yet sensitive, loving girl! Shes truly Archu's daughter, with a big heart!

She would never do the wrong thing especially to a baby! She was right for blasting Ovi when she found Pari crying. How can any woman just stand there and let a baby cry when the baby is in her care? And I noticed Ovi placed Pari precariously at the edge of the bed, which could have resulted in a fall! Falling from such a high bed can be seriously injurious for a 3-4 month old baby! 😲 That was completely careless, callous and cruel! Im so happy Teju came rushing to Pari's rescue and took care of her! She doesnt approve of Purvi now, but she would never hold a grudge against the little baby just because its Purvi and Arjun's child.



I also like Teju. She sometime angry with Purvi but not cruel like ovi & her family. Teju is more sensitive member after Archana whole Deshmukh family. Thank U Pallavi Di amazing post of Teju.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Archana and Purvi have a relationship that transcends norms created by society. When Purvi said that she is nothing without her Aai, it was beautiful and sad at the same time.


Coming to Teju..well, she has always had a relationship with Arjun in her own right too. A testament to that is this scene from long ago, when Teju's car needs repair work, obviously right outside the garage.
There is only and only honesty on Arjun's part and a sincere effort on Teju's part to understand...

A confused Teju wants to know why the Mr. Kirloskar is doing what he's doing ...wherein he replies that he is trying to find himself.

Teju feels as his best friend, he should have talked to her about what was happening in his life...


Arjun offers 'thapri wali' chai to a shocked ex-taxi driver ...


Teju appreciates the chai as a symbol of the change in Arjun...


Arjun is looking forward to day he can ask for Purvi's hand...


Wish Teju's wisdom and her ability to appreciate nuances of various rishtey are not relegated to the sofa right alongside mute Grandpa.

Great post as always Rayadallie


Edited by Pancham101 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

And so what, arjun likes the name pari too. why is it that ovi has to relate everything that arjun does to purvi. That is exactly where her downfall is. She just cannot forget purvi and live her life for herself and arjun. How can she expect arjun to forget purvi and move on with her if she constantly brings purvi in their marriage. Purvi and arjun relationship is not a secret to Ovi that she now finds out and feels betrayed and has to constantly be reminded. She went into it with her eyes wide open and hope that arjun would have forget purvi.Put yourself in arjun shoes, how much would you be able to take?

Ovi is allowed to get angry but not take it out on pari, pari is a baby, she has not done anything to warrant ovi hatred towards her. How long would ovi remain angry? she walked away from arjun and said she move on and does not want him back, then why still the anger. She should have already gone past that as she made the decision on her own. When a woman behave like that is that she is seeking attention and hoping that arjun would fall at her feet and give her exactly what she wants.


But Arjun DID name her pari because purvi said they'd name their baby pari so ovi is not wrong here. Ovi is moving on , she didn't go back to Arjun when he begged her in Canada , if she wanted attention she would get attention in a lot of ways lol
Ovi and Arjun are NOT divorced yet
Put myself in Arjun's shoes? Dint he ask ovi to go to their house yesterday? Is it ovi wanting him or Arjun wanting her?
Why is it that everything she does is wrong? Arjun never loved her so its easy or hm to go after purvi , ovi does and she can't forget everything in a second that's unfair !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: PandorasBox

Ovi's husband, Arjun, named Ovi and his child Pari by day-dreaming of his love affair with his saali. At that time, everyone including Arjun thought it was Arovi baby. Purvi and Arjun talked about how they would name "their" child Pari. How shameless to name one's child based on a love affair with someone else.

The Pari name Archana brought out is not a small thing. It must have reminded her of her own dead child and the hopes and dreams she had. This time, it's not just about Arjun. I don't know how people can expect Ovi to move on so easily when the humiluation she reserves is nothing short of rubbing salt on old wounds. Pari is a symol of Ovi's life crashing down, of her dead child whom she hasn't had a chance to mourn over. And please, no matter how wrong Ovi was in making the deal, nothing justifies what happened hereafter. Anyone in Ovi's place would let off steam as she has no way of expressing herself. She has to put on the facade of being with Arjun despite being hurt.


😆 Hey but ovi doesn't have the right to feel angry because no one gives great arvi angry looks regarding their symbol of love

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