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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#101

Namkaran is done by the girl's family . Cremation strictly by the boy's family . Maharastrians don't even interfere in this ...they don't even talk in another family's business in such matters , this is a whole different culture we r seeing . Don't see how Purvi can be absolved for 'technically' she disposed off no baby , or told everyone that he living baby was dead .

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pallavi25

@pallavi25

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Posted: 12 years ago

#102

In Bengal, boy's family does god bharai first then girl's family can do it, Naamkaran is done by boy's family only as child belongs to dad's family and gets his/her name from that family only.

Purvi had just given birth, we cannot expect her to arrange for such things, Im sure Onir must have done the needful. After all hes been shown as a noble person up until now.

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#103

The point here is that when and how did purvi put the baby in a trash bin?

In terms of cremation etc ...this is left to the CVs again. The point of the baby was to create more problems in the triangle not actually have significant meaning as in normal families.

But I feel this is no reason to bash purvi by saying she put baby in trash. What she did by asking to give her baby up was wrong. But again no where was it shown a baby was out in trash. This is just ridiculous and if one doesn't like purvi go ahead bash her on her misdeed but don't make stuff up like oh she put baby in trash.

Also as raydille said earlier no point in arguing as words get twisted to eachs benefit...

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#104

I think the 'baby thrown in trash ' is a metaphor for the inhuman act for disposing someone's baby without that person's permission ? I have not seen the comment yet but my interpretation ? I think it passionately describes the inhumanity ? Maybe im wrong .

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#105

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
I think the 'baby thrown in trash ' is a metaphor for the inhuman act for disposing someone's baby without that person's permission ? I have not seen the comment yet but my interpretation ? I think it passionately describes the inhumanity ? Maybe im wrong .

The comments are normally treated/disposed of like yesterday's trash, it was metaphorically speaking and yes passionately spoken to show the inhumane in which Purvi and Onir put ArOvi's baby wherever they did, without letting the parents grieve. Purvi even thinking to handle the situation this way should not be forgiven for such an act. It is not mahaan, it was a horrible act.

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soniiyaa

@soniiyaa

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#106

Nah I can't buy that excuse. I've seen many comments saying she threw baby in trash. Not she got rid of the baby like trash. It was def not metaphorically speaking.

Agreed what she did was wrong but I can say with 100% guarantee that the comments were not metaphorically but rather to just bash purvi. From red light district to idiot mother. They were all to bash purvi on assumptions.

Edit: and I'm not a purvi fan, infact I've been furious with her on many things she did. But one thing is for sure I get mad at what I see not what I assume. Nor do I make such comments out of context. I'm not a purvi fan. I'm a PR fan and supporter of true love.

Edited by sk11 - 12 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

#107

How one interprets comments is subjective but i am saying this and not as i love to bash her but generally speaking

I really don't care if she lies in a rental house in a questionable area , poverty can be very bad and she is going through a bad phase though it bothers me that Arjun who can give EVERYTHING and ANYTHING to his baby is willing to let his baby be brought up there simply as she should get Maa . The concept of Maa is greatly overhyped in serials just like the concept of pyaar ...she would have grown up like a princess in his home with a professional nanny from a bureau . Women working abroad often leave their babies in India or their homelands for a year or so as they have to do a job for some financial reasons and then bring the baby when te time is right and they have tided over the crucial phase . The babies don't even remember that year coz babies don't remember those days . They grow up fine .

It is not just wrong but horrible to take the decision of disposing off someone's baby or swapping the babies . When Ovi was drinking in pregnancy i had suggested she should be turned in to social security if husband or parents had no control on her . Onir has paid for the baby swap by losing his license and being reduced to lifting crates but Purvi HASN'T been jailed . How dare she take such decisions for others . If Varsha was jailed why wasn't she . I am puzzled to this day .

It is AWFUL to say that a living baby is dead and cry ...it is regarded as inauspicious and inhuman from a moral and spiritual viewpoint .

She did this , and i really don't see how Archana waking up , Onir's bigamy or ANYTHING lessens the enormity of her deeds . Her sins r her own just as suffering for the deal was Ovi's karmic fate .

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Hillylove

@Hillylove

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#108

Well, I am sure the persons including myself who spoke metaphorically have no apologies to make, as we know what we were saying and meant it very much, as it is not lies but only the truth about what Purvi did.

Frankly, it does not even matter how it is said, what she did was disposing of the baby, whether it was in a trash or wherever, the point is, the baby is nowhere to be found, and the parents were not allowed the respect of knowing what happened and grieving and the rites performed.

Arjun may not care because he only wanted the baby by Purvi there are words to describe him that I cannot say on the forum. Only Ovi feels it, because at the end of the day, Ovi does have a heart and can own up to her mistakes, as she walked away from Arjun twice, one month after the marriage and just recently.

Purvi tells lies upon lies, she is never apologetic about her mistakes, and she self-righteously continues her behaviour.

Look at Onir's condition because he blindly supported her inhumane act, and all she is focusing on is that he has something to hide, what about the things she is always hiding from others?

this girl needs to focus us on getting her husband life back to normal. There is no limit to her behaviour.

I could never support Purvi, and if it means Onir needs to be free from her negative influence, I will support that.