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About the meddling
Absolutely fair and 👍🏼 to both the oldies although sadly it came a bit too late .
See how it looks .
It is not the U.S . It is India . Middle class India . The families r not elite and the kind who live a bohemian life style and change laws to suit their lifestyle , but simple maharastrian ones who live in fear of social gossip .
They will NOT understand the depth of the great love story between Arjun and Purvi and how the 2 souls were brow beaten into other marraiges and sacrificed . They will see whats happening AS IT IS and comment accordingly .
What they see
That Arjun comes to Purvi's house in Onir 's absence . Its pretty public and will set tongues wagging . Neither will they understand the tyaag story or Onir's super broad mindedness .
They have seen Onir's face on TV in a negative light
They know that Arjun's wife has left him in disgust
They see Arjun frequenting Purvi's house when Onir is not there
They will say ' Biwi chod ke chali gayi lekin dono ki rang raliyaan nahi ruki . Lafda ab tak jaari hai .
The wife has left but the 2 r shamelessly still carrying on .
When the oldies did not interfere they were criticized for not being true adults .
When the oldies looked uneasily the other way after Arjun blurted the truth in the party , nothing was said about their wrong silence . In my opinion they should have taken over then .
But they r criticized now for 'meddling' and 'unfairness' when things have gone too far .
Far too much damage has been done by the sexual crush of the century .
I would like to point out that it is not meddling at all . You see , it affects their life and their reputation too . When tongues will wag and gossip will start like a forest fire , they will bear the brunt of the kaands in their family .
Meddling is what Purvi does all the time , especially when she put herself in charge of Ovi's bhalaai .
This not meddling . This affects the families . Other children r yet to be married off .
Neither can it be justified that Purvi has not gone to them for diddly . She has managed her grief on her own . You see that does not matter . What matters is that two families r suffering from the heated gossip and the activities of the couple r fuelling it more and more .
The oldies , who were silent for a long time , finally spoke up . Its too much , they said . Focus on your marraiges and put a lid on your emotions .
Nothing wrong . Long overdue .
