Sulochana and Savita's meddling:Mod note Pg14 - Page 3

I dont need Ovi's Bhakts to come and defend her or quote my posts please! 😃

They want to save Ovi's marriage. Good for them. But why talk to Purvi? Go talk to the interested party Arjun !!!

What a couple of losers - these two old biddies !!!

frist of all this is a free forum...when purvi bhakts rush in to make big statements about womens rights and education and pass judgements freely...so if you cannot debate your point with coniction and facts, no need to tell us to stop quoting you..I and anybody on this forum has all rights to quote anybody we may wish...so thanks but no thanks for your little advisory there...

Ovi deserting her husband inspite of husband begging for forgiveness? where did education and broad minded thinking go here? If she is not happy and knows he will never get over his first love, why should she stcik around..infact purvi also, if she wants to be with arjun, she is mighty free to divorce onir amicably and walk out...he will understand also...

having sex with your husband was never a pint of dignity as far as I remember...maybe it works differently for some people with broad minded thinking that having sex withhusband has to have a reason behind it...She told him in the video she still loves him but needs space to find herself...i don't know how that is wrong on any wife's part...unless dignity involves being a submissive wife to a mentally cheating husband...i guess pride is reversibe when it comes to ovi versus purvi...

While savita and sulo giving bhashan to purvi breaking arjun-ovi's marriage was not called for, because she is not responsilbe for it, but she has no idea about how she treats onir carelessly, so they told her to look after her own marriage and child...and ovi coming back to a husband who clearly could not even asnwer whether he loves another woman or no, why should she? isthat educated people's guess that women whose usband doesn't give anything to the relationship should stay in there...she haspaid for her deal and has walked out...now there is nothing she needs to do or be a dutiful wife to him...

LOL...dual standards should be accepted instead of tuting big words about society and women being uneducaed and passing judgements...

jhanvi,

strange but I agree with you...while suo has the right to blast her poti...savita should have blasted mr kirloskar too who is actually the one who keeps running to purvi everychance he gets...

jhanvi dear,

i was going to PM you on your take on ovi's video and the very much talked about sex with husband ( if it happened that is) and also today's episode where purvi seems least concerned for the tribulation that onir is facing as well as that wound on his hand that garnered barely a reaction as shyamala aunty carefully noticed and mentioned...

I like your viewpoint and I like the logic behind it hence though it would be interesting to read your take...I don't want to start a war or debate over a stale issue,so PM me if you would have the time...or youcan write it here too, no worries...

Ofcourse, this is only if you have time and don't mind...i don't know if you wrote about it elsewhere, let me know i will check it out...i have been inactive for the past week but as you can see, back in full form...:) PR is addictive or it may be this forum...the dumb characters keep us occupied for sure! 😉

Janhvi -

Really. So they pick on the one who cares what they think. They can be angry with her certainly but this was completely out of line. Go pick on your damaad.

CVs had no logic when they wrote Manav's dialogues the other day - One day he was all about convincing Ovi to take care of Pari and the next day he asks how can she stand seeing Pari. He claims he does not want his daughter in a loveless marriage - where was your buddhi when Ovi and Arjun turned up after they got married? You thought that Arjun fell in love with you laadli overnight?

But these two grannies are seriously demented. And while Purvi has made many mistakes, Savita's comments about her being an orphan were in such bad taste.

strega completely agree with you on the buddhi-less adults...If you go in reverse, it all boils down to adults who had no sense of how to reprimand their kids and now their BS is very out of place...I still think Manav should have reprimanded ovi for that deal and sat her down and told her, arjun's love won't be bought..and she is better ff without him since he dumped her as soon as he found novelty in purvi...the guy was never gonna be a good husband...in fact, purvi should also never have been inot him...he committed to ovi before and easily broke it for her, what guarantee he won't in the future..I had liiked Archana for telling purvi, that he is wrong for both the girls...she was right..but then god knows him earning 10000 rs like manav made her agree to their alliance...it was in absolute bad taste for another daughter...and purvi woud have saved herself a lifetime of mess and ridicule if she had stayed away from arjun...it was best for all 3 to keep away frm each other...that time..archana did not stop purvi, and later manav did not stop ovi...

I do think they are all adults and can take their own decisions ofcourse, but then to go around suddenly feeling the need to sunao these same adults, is a bit retarded for sure...I will be honest, I loved Purvi being sunaoed today, because I am sick and tired of her going unscathed for all her mistakes just like Archana did in her heydays too...Onir takes the fall from career and Arjun's marriage breaks apart, and OVi's child has no proper closure for her...all 3 are suffering...Purvi, has a loving husband, a still in love hung up lover boy, daughter is with her,all she is missing is auxurious home ( but she loves chawl life) and a family that is accepting of her kartoots at this point...So I was happy they gave her a good sounding, but in an objective way, it was a bit too late for both of them to rant of on her...lopsided at best...sulo was happily agreeing to arjun-purvi when ovi was committing suicide so now why this sudden blame on purvi fr ruining ovi's life...? Savita's OTT comments on adoption I mentioned on KC too were totally uncalled for..and the ENTIRE blame on purvi too wasnot cool, since it is arjun who mostly runs to her...

So yes on the point that this late jaagran has happened I was happy someone sunoed purvi for her treatment of her own marriage and onir, but other comments should have been toned down especially when after marriage, they did nothing to intervene and help the 3 people making bad choices.