Kool's Commentary 4 : PR, Apr 19:Final Warning Pg100 - Page 100

Originally posted by: anu rulz

thank you shyamalaji..it annoys me to see such bad research put into medical field and vomitted on screen..people anyways think doctors are overrated these days, and top of tht our indian shows portray the medical field as a never-ending party..aaj patient ko book padhke sunayi, kal maalish kari, parso patient theek ho gayi..its not tht simple..no wonder the lay public thinks we charge fees for no reason..it takes a minimum of 10 years to finish PG, tht too if u dnt have to take any breaks and u clear all exams in first go, which never happens..PG entrance in India is undoubtedly the toughest exam, with barely 5000 seats in govt. colleges, and over 1 lakh doctors applying each year..do the math..i got thru in my second attempt and thank my stars..my fiance was not so lucky, had to wait till third attempt, tht too got into a deemed univ instead of govt..and each attempt is a wasted year..its superlatively frustrating..and on screen, people finish their degrees in a jiffy while nain-ladaoing wid random relatives..

Yes, my dear Anu, it must be making you see red. And that too because medicine is such a vital profession; it is you who keep God's creations up and running.

If you think of what they do to the court scenes, it is enough to make any self-respecting lawyer go after the CVs with a hatchet. Just see the combination of both these in the Onir trial! I do not think the CVs even knew that there was such an institution as the Medical Council of India to tackle all such cases.

Congratulations on clearing that brute of an exam, and I am glad your fiance made it as well. If not, no matter how much he cares for you, there could have been friction ahead, but now it is all neat and nice.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: anu rulz

thank you shyamalaji..it annoys me to see such bad research put into medical field and vomitted on screen..people anyways think doctors are overrated these days, and top of tht our indian shows portray the medical field as a never-ending party..aaj patient ko book padhke sunayi, kal maalish kari, parso patient theek ho gayi..its not tht simple..no wonder the lay public thinks we charge fees for no reason..it takes a minimum of 10 years to finish PG, tht too if u dnt have to take any breaks and u clear all exams in first go, which never happens..PG entrance in India is undoubtedly the toughest exam, with barely 5000 seats in govt. colleges, and over 1 lakh doctors applying each year..do the math..i got thru in my second attempt and thank my stars..my fiance was not so lucky, had to wait till third attempt, tht too got into a deemed univ instead of govt..and each attempt is a wasted year..its superlatively frustrating..and on screen, people finish their degrees in a jiffy while nain-ladaoing wid random relatives..

i dont find any any justification in arvi reunion...they cant moke there castle of love on other people tears and what abt poor onir this is a big letdown for purvi may be onir got missing and circumtances will make purvi to live in arjun house for pari but this is really wrong arjun is still vi husband i know what ovi did in past was wrong but what is happening now cant be justified like this i want purvi to start a happy life with onir and respect her pavitra rishta with onir what is ekta doing right now is wrong i will definately quit this show after this mess.

i just wanted to ask how liberal are indian girls/women these day? ok so lets say for arguments sake that your a terrible wife and you bicker and drink all day and make your husband miserable. all of a sudden you realize that and leave him. but then he insistently tells you that he still wants you although you are annoying, bad, and suspicious. and whilst he is telling you all this you see his illegitimate child and ex hanging out in his room. so should you be totally cool with that and say oh its fine, u should totally hang out with her knowing shes the cause of stress in our marriage- especially in my absence, in my bedroom. wow how modern and progressive of people. im impressed by this forum. i shud be more like that and tell shiv to bring angelie (my stepson's mum) around to hang out in our bedroom whilst im not there. im being a spoilt brat and a bad wife by insisting that she doesnt cross the threshold of our bedroom and invade the place where our world begin- mine and his. i'll give him the proposal immediately. i wanna see how he reacts to that. AK the genius businessman is very tired of his conservative drunk wife. god knows why she is so back dated! what kind of a wife has a problem with bedroom invasion!

awesome posts Anu...

CVs make mockery of everything...

the things that they showed today is nothing...compared to how Onir handled 2 surgeries in different rooms(not OTs) after car accident...

and the way Gauri ran out when she saw Soham was in the room made me 🤣...

don't know anyone observed it...gauri's voice is irritating too, kind of she talks with nose...even i did not like kinshuk voice...how many irritating voices they will introduce...

PR timeline confuses everyday...from the time Gauri character is introduced she changed 4 dresses which means 4 days...so the PR clock is 4 day clock here...and Ovi-Manav-Arjun clock was running only for 1 day...

Teju, at my home(in India) even my SIL or MIL doesn't enter my bedroom without asking me, we telugu girls have so much haq as SIL but still my SIL never entered my bedroom and i never entered my brother's bedroom...also my MIL says she never uses my bedroom even we are not in India, she just makes sure everything is clean, thats all...now we live miles from India but i never entered any of my cousin's/friend's bedroom nor they entered in mine without permission...forum needs chance to bash Ovi thats all...

for those who are as conphused as me about the timeline of this joke, this is what is going on:

no disrepsect to anyone but, first of all no one bought stress into that marriage except the both parties themselves .for that marriage was never based on ,love ,trust or desires to be married to each other from both parties.it was one sided,that must never be taken out of the complicated mess as was seen.it was conceived due to some selfish behaviour by one of the spouse because they wanted to be married to the other irregardless knowing fully well that the man doesnt love you period.

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

i just wanted to ask how liberal are indian girls/women these day? ok so lets say for arguments sake that your a terrible wife and you bicker and drink all day and make your husband miserable. all of a sudden you realize that and leave him. but then he insistently tells you that he still wants you although you are annoying, bad, and suspicious. and whilst he is telling you all this you see his illegitimate child and ex hanging out in his room. so should you be totally cool with that and say oh its fine, u should totally hang out with her knowing shes the cause of stress in our marriage- especially in my absence, in my bedroom. wow how modern and progressive of people. im impressed by this forum. i shud be more like that and tell shiv to bring angelie (my stepson's mum) around to hang out in our bedroom whilst im not there. im being a spoilt brat and a bad wife by insisting that she doesnt cross the threshold of our bedroom and invade the place where our world begin- mine and his. i'll give him the proposal immediately. i wanna see how he reacts to that. AK the genius businessman is very tired of his conservative drunk wife. god knows why she is so back dated! what kind of a wife has a problem with bedroom invasion!

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

for those who are as conphused as me about the timeline of this joke, this is what is going on:

Option 1: CVS think that the time difference between india and canada is 4 days. so whilst ovi is living the same day, the mumbai clan has moved onto day 4. thus she is in the same spot, drinking the same bottle, wearing the same clothes as when we last left her whilst the mumbai clan have all progressed four days in. however, arjun is apparently so attached to his wife that he is on canada timing. thus although 4 days have passed, AK has not yet realised that his wife hung up on him mid convo. by the time his canada standard day is over, he will realise it.

Option 2: CVS think that although she gets drunk on literally two shots of tequila, ovi is more of a seasoned drinker than a frat boy in a state drinking championship on his 21st birthday, and has a tolerance of an elephant. she can sit in a spot drinking for four days straight without dying.

I personally like option 2 better. it adds to ovi's merit- she's a living miracle. a 5 foot tall south asian girl who can drink non-stop for 4 days without needing to be hospitalized for alcohol poisoning. most people would have been dead by the 4th day.

Originally posted by: chinyere

no disrepsect to anyone but, first of all no one bought stress into that marriage except the both parties themselves .for that marriage was never based on ,love ,trust or desires to be married to each other from both parties.it was one sided,that must never be taken out of the complicated mess as was seen.it was conceived due to some selfish behaviour by one of the spouse because they wanted to be married to the other irregardless knowing fully well that the man doesnt love you period.

if arjun wasnt happy he should have walked out,if ovi wasnt happy and not beign love as she wanted love and should have ,then walk out as well.dont be delusional and contnue with something that was broken from the beginning.

if im not wrong then ovi did walk out. infact she flew out. to another country. arjun cant seem to let it be. are you still going to say ovi is encouraging her delusions? or is it arjun who is insistent that he loves her and wants her back?

as well as no one ( be it man or woman)on this earth should put up with any spouse who is nagging ,bad,,annoying and suspicious bacuse before you can love sombedy you have to love yourself,and if these qualities are not providing happiness in your life and you are miserable ,then how the hell will you make someone else happy.

no one is asking anyone to put up with an annoying wife or husband. clearly i've said that if you find your spouse is that bad, you should run away. not beg her to come back if she's already left you. every single person in this world is insecure about something. there is something about everyone that if teased can tear them apart. you may think you dont have any such feature but you do. that doesnt have anything to do with their potential to love. but yes if your not happy, theres only so much you can pretend. thats why i believe ovi left. she was not happy and spread that unhappiness to everyone. y does hero AK want to bring such a spoil sport into his life?

it has nothing to do wih modern /porgressive times but in modern times you cant expect to get two people married becaue of family,business or they are best friends,that do not make the basis of a strong marrigae.there was nothing of a loving strong marriage at the beginning so what do they need to salvage now??

excuse me. in this modern day i got married because of family and business connections between my granddad and my husband's family. we had a really bad start but that only made us stronger. foundation can be solidified. there is always something to salvage in a marriage given both parties are willing. its about your conviction to your commitment not love. we didnt salvage our marriage out of love but rather out of respect for our commitment and love followed. and to this date i can bet you im absolutely not the only one. there are probably still a lot more arranged marriages than love ones in india to date. and heres the kicker- im half english. not even fully indian and my parents had a love marriage but are divorced now. but yes, you may feel like there's nothing to salvage in this one and i would agree. arjun is clearly not willing to do what it would take to salvage his marriage. then y keep calling and doing emotional attyachar on ovi?

in the first place many modern woman be it indian or not would not subject themsleves to so much pain and suffereing,i think modern women are much more decisive,smarter and strong to know what will work for them and wouldnt.i dont want to be any stepmother to any child,so hell no would i be hooking up with any man who has a child,because the bio mother and father will always share a special bond wihich is the child,that aint working for me,so ill focus on my career if those are the only type of men available.i wouldnt complicate my life and create a mess and then blame every tom ,dick and harry fro my unhappiness,that is plain old stupid.

she wasnt exactly asked whether she wanted to be a stepmom to pari now was she? and she's not blaming tom, dick and harry. she's blaming her husband who is still stringing her along and his ex purvi who dumped her dead child like yesterday's news and replaced it with ovi's husband's illegitimate child. as far as moving on goes- she is concentrating on her career. now if her husband is going to call her and then have his ex hanging around then clearly thats rubbing salt on her wound. now whether he did that willingly or not- hows she suppose to know? the proper response from arjun should have been to ask purvi to leave as he is having a personal convo with his wife. not gape with his mouth open.

if you realise that the marriage aint working that the spouse doesnt love you and he still pursuing you then use some sense and realise that if he didnt love me in 1 yrs he will love me in one week? but then again if you are just a talker and talking big and not standing by your decision of moving on and bettering your life then you would nt be cool with whatever happenin with the husband or who is there with him even in the bedroom

but if you are a strong person and can make it on your own then the husband can do whatever he wants even a bedroom ivasion.

she did exactly what she said she would. she left and didnt bother him at all. he decided to call her insistently and all she said was ok i'll see what he wants. even divorces are not possible without communication. she just called to see what he wanted. he said that its unfair of you to leave me when i need you. she gave him time to figure out what he wanted to do with their marriage. saying that implies that he wants her. she has been explicit- you cant have purvi anywhere if you want me. if he says that he wants her back, then he gives her the right to care about a bedroom invasion. thats not how marriage works. if it was a matter of simple rationale nobody would get married in the first place or there would be no divorces. as long as your legally married and actually even soon after the divorce its not as easy to be calm and 'cool' about a bedroom invasion. it hurts the old self respect.

again this is my principles on how ill live my life and my responses which doesnt have to be

aligned to any ther persons' likes or dislike.if you dont live like that then you have a choice to agree or disagre,it makes all kind of people to make this world go around..

you've made a lot of generalizations about how you think things work in the modern world where love reigns as the principle reason behind marriages. so it cant really be about how you live your life. im guessing your unmarried. so really it is only a hypothetical assumption of how you would handle a situation you havent faced. but i appreciate your strength of character if your able to keep 'cool' in ovi's situation.

thank you

tejaswini