Originally posted by: pari87
Rithika,
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I was talking about pre-wedding time when Archana was all for Purvi and you are right post-wedding and after getting her family back, she was never around for Purvi. I had even made a post about it then, as however foolish Purvi was, my heart did go out to her on the weddin night when she was crying alone in her balcony and nor Sulo nor Archu had been there to take care of her. Even when Archu did not call her immediately to D house, I had commented about how cruel she was being, enjoying her honeymoon after 18 years, while her daughter is suffering so much. Even when Purvi ran away, I had commented on a thread how Archana could have slept peacefully for 6 months not knowing where her beloved daughter was. In my head, Archana has never deserved Purvi or any other kids. I had always said, that even that wedding night, Purvi accepted the deal and i think it was foolish as hell, I still deride her for it, but I did say at that time, it was a stupid indebted feeling that Archana had left on her, by always crying about bio kids when she was with Purvi.
I have always stated Archana is the worst mother you could have. She cannot handle more than one child. First it was all Purvi, and no concern for bio kids. Then it was all new family. no concern for Purvi. Then it was all Soham, no concern for any other child.
All in all, what I meant is, being bio child, makes no difference, it is the mother who loves you and cares for you, that the child should be with. So arguments about pari being with purvi and arjun was not acceptable in my eyes as Purvi has done nothing to deserve that child, by giving her up liek a toy to Ovi.
Thanks for your post. Well written and to the point :) I agree, Manju makes a better mother. She at least looks out for her children's bhalai even in random situations.