Originally posted by: rithika2012
i really think archana took care of purvi till she was united with her family.. once she got it she didnot really care for purvi...
the way she left purvi and went to stay with her family after arvi seperation and never cared about bringing her back to D house till manav raised the topic (not even she spoke about it )made me feel that she cared much less to purvi after she got her family..
she was always occupied with soham but never thought about purvi and never remembered the pain which she was going thru..If she really cared she wouldnot have left purvi go alone to some other place to start a new life.. If purvi really wanted to leave also then she should make her convince and should ask her to stay till she arrange some place and a living for her but no she left her all alone in the night to her fate.. that was not a mother expected to do.. what ever may be the case she should not leave a girl like that..
if she really cared for purvi so much then why did she agree to send purvi to K house after she came to mumbai that too when she was pregnant???
ovi might need care but even purvi needs it and more over purvi lead her initial months of pregnancy all alone and as a mother she will know the troubles they face during that period.. Ovi got her love and care from her mother all those 5 and half months but purvi didnot but she agreed to ovi's condition and atlast ovi insulted purvi and she herself left to K house..
Im really sorry that i might have hurt some one but according to me none of the mothers in PR are good..
In my view Manjusha is a better mother because what ever her children are she atleast stood by them and atleast tried to made them right but unfortunately punni is so evil that she never thinks about her aai's happiness... but manju is more concerned about her daughters more than archana..according to me manju vandu and vaishali are better moms...
PS: not to hurt anyone just posted my feelings from what i could see in the show...
Rithika,
I wholeheartedly agree with you. I was talking about pre-wedding time when Archana was all for Purvi and you are right post-wedding and after getting her family back, she was never around for Purvi. I had even made a post about it then, as however foolish Purvi was, my heart did go out to her on the weddin night when she was crying alone in her balcony and nor Sulo nor Archu had been there to take care of her. Even when Archu did not call her immediately to D house, I had commented about how cruel she was being, enjoying her honeymoon after 18 years, while her daughter is suffering so much. Even when Purvi ran away, I had commented on a thread how Archana could have slept peacefully for 6 months not knowing where her beloved daughter was. In my head, Archana has never deserved Purvi or any other kids. I had always said, that even that wedding night, Purvi accepted the deal and i think it was foolish as hell, I still deride her for it, but I did say at that time, it was a stupid indebted feeling that Archana had left on her, by always crying about bio kids when she was with Purvi.
I have always stated Archana is the worst mother you could have. She cannot handle more than one child. First it was all Purvi, and no concern for bio kids. Then it was all new family. no concern for Purvi. Then it was all Soham, no concern for any other child.
All in all, what I meant is, being bio child, makes no difference, it is the mother who loves you and cares for you, that the child should be with. So arguments about pari being with purvi and arjun was not acceptable in my eyes as Purvi has done nothing to deserve that child, by giving her up liek a toy to Ovi.
Thanks for your post. Well written and to the point :) I agree, Manju makes a better mother. She at least looks out for her children's bhalai even in random situations.
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