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Posted: 12 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: pallavi25



So shocking! Purvi valued her mother's happiness over her own happiness. What daughter does that nowadays? 😲
Ovi behaved horribly with her own mother and then struck a bargain, she wanted the MAN and in return she would accept her own mother! So noble of her...😆
Mother's day is coming up! This will make a good topic...what will u choose? Happiness of a man who u have loved for a few months? Or the happiness of the mother who adopted you as a baby and brought you up with love and caring?



Time and again we forget Ovi thought her mother abandoned her for 18 years
She didn't have a loving relationship with Archana
She didn't even think of her existence
Yeah of course you should do things for your mother's happiness but at the expense of another man ? Pushing him into a loveless marriage ?
Purvi didn't have to FORCE Arjun to marry Ovi
She could have broken up with Arjun and tell him she can't be with him
But she didn't have to push Arjun to Ovi
I thought one mother's happiness is thinking of YOUR happiness as I will be happy if my mom is happy
So isn't that selfish ?
Ovi owed nothing to Archana
Yes she said she would bring Archana back to her family
So that would only mean she would bring Archana to her house
And let her live with the Ds
I am welcome to think about my mom's happiness
I can tell my fiance I can't be with him any longer
But I have no right to tell him to marry someone for my own sake or my mother's sake
Of course if this was concerned my mom's life and death
I would but Ovi didn't tell Purvi to get Arjun to marry her or else she will kill Archana 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: altuphalu



Ovi and Onir do not have a 'story', they have reality. And we are not watching reality.

Ovi forced herself on Arjun and got married to him, knowing fully well that he was in love with Purvi. Same with Onir, he got married to Purvi, knowing fully well that she was pregnant with another man's child and said that he expected nothing in return.

Marriages are affairs of the heart - not affairs of sticking with the one person just because you forced someone to take wedding vows or in Onir's case accepted the wedding vows.

Marriages are not life sentences of unhappiness. They are meant to be a bond of happiness and love.

Ovi and Onir knew that they were signing a life of unhappiness and one sided love when they got married.

It was foolish on their part to expect happiness and love from a person that they knew fully well was committed to another. Where is their self-respect?????

Archana/Manav crossed their boundaries of morality and made their relationships with their own daughters (apavitra) when they accepted that Ovi and Arjun and to be married to one another even though they did not love one another.

In a marriage, you have to make sure that you uphold the very same values of 'pavitra rishta' in your children as you did with your own relationship. Manav/Archana failed as adults and as parents.

Now, the children should be allowed to make relationships right by themselves. The adults have put enough impurity in their relationships.



Just to emphasize on what you say
Marriages concern hearts
Then why is Arjun running after Ovi now that she freed him
Why does he say he NEED Ovi !?
I always believed love is friendship
Arjun could make his marriage work if he was just friends with Ovi
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Posted: 12 years ago
#73
thank you for putting down a well thought out argument rather than the insistent bratty whiny arguments made about shruti. i absolutely agree that purvi was very relatable in the beginning but not anymore. whereas ovi has remained real throughout. her personality doesnt take 90 degree turns at every corner but rather matures as she goes. as far as overshadowing asha goes i have to disagree and say that ever since the 6 months leap, she has overshadowed asha. i cant remember a single scene with asha delivering dialogues or even conveying emotions that made my heart melt. the last scene where i felt like that was the balcony scene when arch and silo were sleeping after arovi marriage and purvi cries by herself. that was a powerful performance. but since then she has only whined consistently (not asha's fault. she can act for sure. cvs screwed up). i would say shruti outshines asha even in the pari kidnapping scene where she was worried but dignified through out. asha did the best she could but her hysterics were annoying at best. i would go as far as to say that her camcorder scene was probably some of the best acting in pr post leap. purvi is a simplistic one dimensional character- people take what she says as good. ovi has layers and is much more complex. and as far as i see- shruti isnt lagging in any department with that. the comparison between the two actresses is not really even possible till asha has taken up a multidimensional character or shruti has played a one-dimensional ovi- only good or bad.
Teju, I agree wholeheartedly. I find Shruti has just improved by leap and bound, and now she outshines all the younger generation actors. Her emoting is outstanding - and all her different shades are done with finess - be it anger, disgust, horror, sadness, depression - you name it, she has just nailed it with perfection. Whereas AN's is only an unidimensional character, Ovi's character gives her scope to break away from a stereotype acting and take it to the next level. The fact that she is the youngest amoung the lot - says a lot. I feel she will go far, instead of being (possibly) an one serial wonder...The fact that many new members (that I see here) have come out and appreciated her acting, also says so much👏kudos to Shruti 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
#74

Shruti is just a talented actress, it cannot be denied.👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
#75

Originally posted by: Anjli2010

Ovi has indeed suffered the most in the Arjun-Purvi-Ovi triangle.

But sorry I blame only Purvi for all this. Even if Arjun had
difficulty accepting Ovi as his love (which I find hard seeing
they grew up together and he indeed agreed to get engaged
to her)... at least Arjun has tried. If only Purvi had
disappeared from PR and the face of earth, Arjun-Ovi could
have found the bond to be happy together. Damn P urvi😡
She sure has no "sanskar". I am fed up of her doing all
these tyags and hurting other people. I am pretty sure
she will be a thorn in Soham's life also. I cannot stand
Purvi any longer. I just fast-forward!


lol..I just couldn't help but reply after seeing your comment..Purvi disappearing from the face of the earth? ahahahah..I don't know if you were serious here, or joking, but either way I don't think she needed to disappear from the face of the earth. If two people can't love without the third person disappearing from the face of the earth then there is a big problem. And, I think that problem is solely between those two people. since you are saying it's all because of purvi, and saying "arjun has tried", but what's the point in blaming the third person if a relationship between a couple doesn't work out? In the end, I think it was more of arjun's and ovi's issue that their relationship didn't work out. Ovi had trust issues, while arjun just couldn't move on. I feel like the whole foundation of this relationship was wrong, they were both unhappy from the day they got married, and we already know the reason for that. But, after that I think ovi should have apologized for how she obtained him, and arjun then could have understood and maybe honestly moved on, both needed to make efforts to mend that broken relationship. and since they didn't, both were equally at fault here, therefore I wouldn't say purvi is the one to blame here. Sure, she has done some really stupid things, but for this particular marriage, I wouldn't blame her. It's a free world and she can live wherever she wants, and while she does, ovi and arjun should not have any problems in their relationship because of her location. Because purvi has never been some scheming girl who has tried to break apart their marriage, she has a husband of her own. My point is that if your relationship can't last on the fact that another person is just present, then maybe you are doing something wrong yourselves. A marriage is a foundation that is built on understanding, trust, and love and if either of those three are missing then there is no one that can stop this foundation from crumbling. Therefore, first and foremost both arjun and ovi needed to work on these three things before anything else. This is just my POV:)

Edited by coolpixie - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird



Time and again we forget Ovi thought her mother abandoned her for 18 years
She didn't have a loving relationship with Archana
She didn't even think of her existence
Yeah of course you should do things for your mother's happiness but at the expense of another man ? Pushing him into a loveless marriage ?
Purvi didn't have to FORCE Arjun to marry Ovi
She could have broken up with Arjun and tell him she can't be with him
But she didn't have to push Arjun to Ovi
I thought one mother's happiness is thinking of YOUR happiness as I will be happy if my mom is happy
So isn't that selfish ?
Ovi owed nothing to Archana
Yes she said she would bring Archana back to her family
So that would only mean she would bring Archana to her house
And let her live with the Ds
I am welcome to think about my mom's happiness
I can tell my fiance I can't be with him any longer
But I have no right to tell him to marry someone for my own sake or my mother's sake
Of course if this was concerned my mom's life and death
I would but Ovi didn't tell Purvi to get Arjun to marry her or else she will kill Archana 😕

I find it quite hilarious that Purvi is praised for accepting the deal for her Mother's happiness,when she told Onir that she is dead, so he would help her, to hide her shame... Purvi is very selective in thinking about her Mom's happiness...Archana was looking all over for her worried, did she think of her happiness then?
I really hope Purvi is not brought up in any Mother's day discussion. That would be a sin as she told the family her own baby died and gave her away right after birth. I hope I am spared..Not to mention Archana who abandoned hers for 18 yrs and gave her sister the other child on a platter.
Having any post for them on Mother's day would be an insult to Motherhood. 😲
Well I will just ignore that post...
Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#77

Voice Modulation?? YOu mean she needs to talk with baby voice like Purvi? How hilarious😆

The baby voice is not acting.😆

No one said Asha can't act on this forum, we only said Ovi should be lead. So there was no need to put down Shruti... Why am I surprised?

Shruti will get many shows in the future, she is talented.

However, please stick to the Topic of the post, it is unproductive to stray from topic and start bashing actors and actresses.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: pallavi25


So shocking! Purvi valued her mother's happiness over her own happiness. What daughter does that nowadays? 😲
Ovi behaved horribly with her own mother and then struck a bargain, she wanted the MAN and in return she would accept her own mother! So noble of her...😆
Mother's day is coming up! This will make a good topic...what will u choose? Happiness of a man who u have loved for a few months? Or the happiness of the mother who adopted you as a baby and brought you up with love and caring?

😆😆di aap bhi na kya q puch liya😆😆
someone pls answer i am eager to listen to the excuses given for proving ovi correct n purvi wrong
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Posted: 12 years ago
#79
Ekta has made many successful serials and she knows how to match actresses with characters.

And here she has made a perfect match.

Sometimes talent is not enough. There are many other factors that are considered, which I wont go into so as not to allow comparisons between Asha and Shruti.

Besides, if Shruti is a good actress she will get her own offers.

There is plenty in this world - no need to snatch from one to give another.

Actually that is the sanskaar that the character Ovi lacked.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#80

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi



nooo because Ovi is a backstabbing, psychotic, hypocritical, manipulative, neurotic "person." I used person in place of an another word.



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