Dear Ashfaque,
Of course I understand. I understand you very well.
I thought I had sent you a post last night, but it seems to be nowhere here, so let me try again. I am so glad that you liked this post, for I wanted you young people to know how we, the older lot, felt about Arjun as he was in the beginning. You might not know this, but we even set up a Protect Arjun Project, and we made it very active too!
I can see that your heart is set on Arjun and Purvi getting back, and for your sakes I hope that comes about.
But, though I do not want to sound like the Grinch who stole Christmas, it is a fact that, as Pari noted elsewhere, and as notsurewhy has noted here, neither of them is the same as in April 2012, especially Purvi.
She might not love Onir, theirs might not be a normal marriage, but there is a lot that they have between them, and especially on Purvi's side: deep gratitude, a sense of belonging together that was so evident this week, and her dependence on him for tackling
any problem. I am sure
he would let her go at once if that was what she wanted. What I am not at all sure of now is whether
she would want it, even if Ovi released Arjun and Onir let her go. It would not gel with her
sanskaari self-image, and for people like Purvi, the self-image is very important. They
have to feel good about themselves, and I do not think she will feel good ditching Onir. So, for Arjun and Purvi to get back as before would be, as I used to say often after their parting of the ways, like repairing broken porcelain. Do it as finely as you might, the cracks will still show.
Still, there is nothing the CVs cannot fix, and just to make you happy, let us hope that they do end up together, with their baby in tow!
Shyamala Aunty
Originally posted by: ashfaque2012
Thank U for your Post. Arjun is a powerful actor that why I am too much attached this serial. Honestly told that I saw more than 12 years in Indian TV serial. Very first episode I saw this PR. But many reason continue not see this PR. Many episode I missing. Especially how Varsha turn negative, how Baishali & vandita spent their live. I also not member that time when Sushant left the show. I am totally surprised when Hiten entry of Manav role. After 18 years leap I am too interested this serial for only Arjun & Purvi character whose protryed by RD & Asha Negi. I am totally surprised their acting. That time to till I am too much concerned their.
I am happy when they are happy, I am helpless when they face miserable life.Now a days this CVs totally butchered their character. If they think this is twist what type of twist this to character butchered. Why they are making Arjun a woman, why they make him cry always???I want that Khadoos Arjun back he stand his own feet. This is true that Shakti is good actor but why he is too much presence when Arjun is lead character except ARMAN. This is totally unfair. Now a days If shati presence 95% time & only 1 or 2 minutes we saw Arjun who are all time helpless people. WHY??? Is not totally unfair & wasting RD's talent. Is it Arjun a simple character?
If shakti leading character then not this PR? Need another serial who is only lead character not also there include RD. If Arjun not lead character then why they saw us Arjun is lead character & making loving him too much. This is totally unfair. We want ARVI back & firstly restore Arjun first like a man whom we have seen before. No more waste RD talent. He faces many problem his life. Very first he lost mother. After that when he find actual love with Purvi then she reject that marriage. Because her true love Purvi also face same problem when her sister ovi deal their mother love. Purvi is orphan that why she easily trap that deal.Purvi feels that she owes so much to the Deshmukhs.. Primarily Archana since she gave her a home and love even though she was an orphan. When she was with Archana these 18 years all Archu talked about was how much she wanted her family back.. Now that her family is back she somehow feels obligated to make sure they are always happy.. She always blames herself for Ovi's unhappiness...
After that all time ovi's bad behavior Purvi forced to leave Bombay. Later we know that Purvi was pregnant that time. So she avoid this painful things. From the start Purvi is thinking about Archu's happiness. Purvi doesn't want any more sadness in Archu's life even it is through Ovi's health state.
After 6 moths when no one know Purvi's whereabout then both ARMAN find Purvi at kolkata & also know that she married. Also know that onir is her husband. They try to onir treatment ovi but onir refused. But Purvi help her parents. Purvi doing all these to keep Archu happy. Purvi is exact replica of Archu. so correcting her is not so easy. Manav also not any time stand Arjun & Purvi. For Ovi he is using other. when Purvi loved Arjun, it was very sinful for him. but when Purvi sacrificed her love and mother for Ovi, he felt its great and said goodbye. he talks caring about Purvi to Archu but never stood by Purvi's side when it comes Ovi or Purvi. He stands by Ovi, even though he knows Ovi is wrong. Manav now thinks about Purvi because his doll Ovi's life is in Purvi's husband hand. they had Purvi's address in hand. why Manav use his influence to find Purvi?
If Purvi is not orphan then all D family very much concern to her. But ovi is their blood so they too much concern her but not Purvi. That why all time Purvi thinking that family. I am 100% sure if any family member know that ovi's baby died then they demand to Purvi handover her baby to ovi. This CVs all time try to prove that Once an orphan always an orphan. This serial all time try to prove that Evil always wins, The loser. She lost her family, baby and love. That why I am not able to angry Purvi for her baby donation.
That why Purvi is not able to stand Arjun. Arjun all time try to stand by Purvi
through thick and thin. They all time feelings each other. They not forget any moment each other.
Both Arjun & Purvi face huge suffer for loving each other. Their love is pure love. They made each other. No other person not understand their properly anytime. We all time saw that how ARVI feeling each other. Enough is enough.
Ovi is to be blamed for all the happenings in her life. She blackmailed and schemed to get what she wanted & thus, is the reason why Purvi and Arjun aren't together!
Now this is the right time to Baby's truth revealed & united each other for their baby sake. Also true love sake ARVI need united this time.
"Like a rainbow after the rain, there's always a good thing after the pain"
Hope Aunty U understand my point.