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it is a maha sin in hinduism too .
it is a sin in christianity too so is it in Islam .
it is a sin in all religions.
Nowadays no one follows this thought process and does it saying religion needs to be modified with time etc . They say its a personal decision etc .
There r some who even today follow religion as it is to the hilt .
I just wanted to tell u for ur information .
TM Purvi has every right to sacrifice herself for Archana if she chooses to make Archana her priority in life ...its her life and what she prioritises is her business . Like Punni proritises money , Purvi prioritizes Archana . Fine by me .
But her sacrifice should be limited to herself . She could have refused to marry Arjun till last minute , thats fully within her right .
But emotionally forcing Arjun to marry someone he did not want to , forcing him to sleep and not get out of the marraige and calling all this emotional forcing as a 'test of love'is super duper wrong and crossing her limits.
Archana is not Arjun's mother , he owes her nothing . Ashna is his mother and when she died DK brought him up as a father and a mother both . Arjun owes everything to DK , not to a girl's mother he met only 6 months of his life .
Purvi was an orphan who was picked off the streets and she has an obligation to Archana , not Arjun . Purvi should have told Arjun about this profound sense of obligation that she felt and said 'sorry i cannot marry u , it will be bad for my mom's personal life .'
What Arjun does later is his business . Whether he spends rest of his life sighing like a majnu for her or whether he goes to Canada , whether he remarries a girl DK chooses is entirely upto him . Its not for Purvi to decide .
She can only make decisions for herself . Not for others .
Where ARVI went wrong were
Purvi forced Arjun to abide by her decisions ...if she was cutting free , it should really be cut free ...this was not cutting free but keeping him tied to her string to be used for further purposes .
Arjun went wrong when he chose not to exercise his own thinking abilities and listen to each forceful emotional command . He could have told her , fine , i can understand ur sense of obligation to ur mom , but i will not marry ur sister especially after sleeping with u .
There is no question of calling her selfish if she had chosen or not chosen Arjun over Archana . Archana creates fresh controversies each time and endangers her marraige ...whether her children r there in the picture or not . She endangered her marraige before Purvi came in her life by losing Soham and she endangered it immediately after Purvi broke off with Arjun and 'gave' her marraige back to her by going against the family and Manav once more by insisting Soham lives in the family although he was a gunda and the rest were very uncomfortable .
Manav has a history of loving her inspite of Archana constantly doing kaands which puts her against him .
Her children have nothing to do with these decisions or making and breaking her life .
If Purvi feels she can make her mother's life she is playing God and if she thinks she can sacrifice other people to rebuild her mother's life she is playing Devil .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago
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