what is arvi mistake - Page 3

What a lovely post! :)... U wrote everything that us arvi fans have been trying to explain from so many days and so many posts... Seriously... hats off to ua post :)

Originally posted by: sipokobusak

@Topic maker,
Arjun and Purvi has two mistakes.

Arjun and purvi mistake was they are too weak to fight for their love.
Purvi weakness is she is too mahaan..and arjun was spineless to fight for his love.
he did whatever purvi told him to do...for their so-called love.
that was their first mistake.

their second mistake was they have sex before marriage.
but now i no longer blame them because sex before marriage is not wrong and not a sin in hindu. thanks to misscarlet and ashvikluverrr for telling me this.
all this time i thought they have commit a huge sin..but not anymore because now i know they have not since in hindu it was not a sin.

so they have only one mistake..that is the first mistake i mentioned above.

Hope this piece of information satifies ua curiosity :)
Sexual intercourse is a natural reproductive function, a part of the instinctive nature, and its pleasures draw man and woman together that a child may be conceived. It also serves through its intimacy to express and nurture love. It is love which endows sexual intercourse with its higher qualities, transforming it from an animal function to a human fulfillment. Intensely personal matters of sex as they affect the family or individual are not legislated, but left to the judgment of those involved, subject to community laws and customs. Hinduism neither condones nor condemns birth control, sterilization, masturbation, homosexuality, petting, polygamy or po*nography. It does not exclude or draw harsh conclusions against any part of human nature, though scripture prohibits adultery and forbids abortion except to save a mother's life. Advice in such matters should be sought from parents, elders and spiritual leaders. The only rigid rule is wisdom, guided by tradition and virtue. The Vedas beseech,"May all the divine powers together with the waters join our two hearts in one! May the Messenger, the Creator and holy Obedience unite us."Aum Namah Sivaya.

Premarital sex,
I won't give any religious explanation. Let me give u a simple explanation.
Would you like if your sister have premarital sex?
Would you like if your daughter have premarital sex?

Surely you won't.
So as a brother, sister, father or mother you don't want your girl to have premarital sex. So it itself becomes wrong when it is not being approved by the elder or relatives.
When you can't allow your daughter and sister to have premarital sex, how can you be eligible to have premarital sex with the daughters and sisters of others.
In this way, it is unethical in every religion for both male and female.

Originally posted by: sipokobusak

i know my friend..i respect your view.
but you still have not answer my question.
honest from you and from you religious view..is sex before marriage a sin?

I did say.. I dun say so n neithr I believe so.. N here we aint tokim abt our pov's buh abt Arvi's situation !
N acc to dat its not a Sin !

Here is a diff..
Whn ur alrdy engaged.. N r gtn married widin nxt 2 days thn I dun feel its a Sin !!!
As simple as dat !

If we respect ur views.. Do respect ours..
U cnt taunt any1 here sayn dis n dis person hv made us realise dat its aint a sin.. Etc etc !

Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda

Premarital sex,
I won't give any religious explanation. Let me give u a simple explanation.
Would you like if your sister have premarital sex?
Would you like if your daughter have premarital sex?

Surely you won't.
So as a brother, sister, father or mother you don't want your girl to have premarital sex. So it itself becomes wrong when it is not being approved by the elder or relatives.
When you can't allow your daughter and sister to have premarital sex, how can you be eligible to have premarital sex with the daughters and sisters of others.
In this way, it is unethical in every religion for both male and female.

The person asked whether if pre martial sex is considered a sin in hinduism. What the society or a person believes is different according to different persons.

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

The person asked whether if pre martial sex is considered a sin in hinduism. What the society or a person believes is different according to different persons.

Originally posted by: sipokobusak

is sex before marriage a sin?
honestly..

Sipo, I have been debating for a while to write about it. Finally, let me put in what I think.

Originally posted by: Pihu.k11

Here is a diff..
Whn ur alrdy engaged.. N r gtn married widin nxt 2 days thn I dun feel its a Sin !!!
As simple as dat !

If we respect ur views.. Do respect ours..
U cnt taunt any1 here sayn dis n dis person hv made us realise dat its aint a sin.. Etc etc !

Well well..i just ask a simple question and make a statement that sex before marriage is a sin..and you say i taunt anyone here?
What i said is base on religious fact..
is that wrong?
My religion teach me that sex before marriage is a sin.
But in hinduism it is not a sin..and i respect that.
I respect your faith and your religious view on that matter.

Why it takes you this hard to answer my simple question..just say it's not a sin.
No need to tell the different..etc etc.

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

Hope this piece of information satifies ua curiosity :)
Sexual intercourse is a natural reproductive function, a part of the instinctive nature, and its pleasures draw man and woman together that a child may be conceived. It also serves through its intimacy to express and nurture love. It is love which endows sexual intercourse with its higher qualities, transforming it from an animal function to a human fulfillment. Intensely personal matters of sex as they affect the family or individual are not legislated, but left to the judgment of those involved, subject to community laws and customs. Hinduism neither condones nor condemns birth control, sterilization, masturbation, homosexuality, petting, polygamy or po*nography. It does not exclude or draw harsh conclusions against any part of human nature, though scripture prohibits adultery and forbids abortion except to save a mother's life. Advice in such matters should be sought from parents, elders and spiritual leaders. The only rigid rule is wisdom, guided by tradition and virtue. The Vedas beseech,"May all the divine powers together with the waters join our two hearts in one! May the Messenger, the Creator and holy Obedience unite us."Aum Namah Sivaya.

Dear..no need to explain further..i respect your religion.
According to you..sex before marriage is not a sin in hindu.
I got that..thank you for telling me that.
I learn something new today..i appreciated that.
But there is no need to explain more..