i agree that marriage is a holy institute, a pure relationship between a man and a woman. Archana and Manav, married eachother against all odds, they went against their families and followed their hearts and married eachother even after divorcing eachother first. that was truly a pavitra Rishta.
now Purvi and Onir marriage is based on mutual respect and understanding, two strangers met became friends, and dicide to become eachother's support system. Onir knowing that Purvi is carrying another mans child, but his inate humaneness and respect for purvi pushes him towards her to become her strength and support when she most needs it. there are no lies between this couple. and accept each other for what they are. Onir is in love with Purvi, but purvi is still bound to her past with Arjun due to her child she carries, for Pruvi Onir is her friend and support, her confidant. she knows he is a good man. and if only Purvi could let go of her past she could love Onir easily. but in all respects this marriage to is a pure, mutual and without pressure. a marriage of minds. a Pavitra Rishta
now Arjun and Ovi, there is nothing holy about this union, two people got married for all the wrong reasons. Arjune pressurised into giving up the love of his life to marry ovi, so that Archana his love's mother may get her family back.
Ovi the child woman, stubbon, spoilt, selfish, wants Arjun becaues she has dreamed of marrying him since she was a little girl. Alas she never grew up.
for Arjun this marriage is a dead stone resting on the crushed remains of the sacrafice.
for Ovi knowing that Arjun loves Purvi, and will always love only purvi, this marriage is becoming an shackel that she does not want to let go. and now she is using her unborn child to keep the shackels on Arjune.
Arjune is unhappy in this marriage, but is trying to make it work becaues of the promice he make to purvi and respect for Archana manav.
Ovir is eternaly unhappy in this marriager becaues there is no getting rid of Purvi's shadow that remains with Arjun constantly.
this is not a pure union, not a Pavitra Ristha
and should be set as a expample of the repercussions of such forced relationships, where obcession and stubbons is the foundation, should not happen and are better of broken than burdened with. Arjun and Ovi should divoce and find suitable partners that respect them for them selves. Arjun im sure deep down hates Ovi cause she is responsible for seperating him for his most prescious love. Arjuns love for purvi is pure. he is happy that she has seemingly found happiness with a good man like Dr Onir.
Ovi love for Arjun is selfish. it's not his happiness she cares about but her own. nothings else matters to her but that Arjun is around her and at her beck and call 24/7. such love does not deserve reward. Ovi should be made to realise that taking from others can never bring you happiness.
if Ovi had not to come between Arjun and purvi, Arjun purvi would have been happily married and their baby would be getting his biological father name. it is obvious that Arjuns and Purvi relationship went to the physical level before he was forced to marry Ovi. so technicly Arjune never cheated on Ovi. and Ovi is responsible for breaking a pure and loving relationship that could have had a chance of becoming a very happy family.