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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rayadallie

I am sorry to say that it was ovi who came between purvi and arjun as arjun only found out about love when he met purvi. he and purvi fell in love unknowingly and in all fairness to purvi, she never knew about ovi when she fell in love with arjun. So realistically, it was ovi who forced herself upon arjun. @bold All I would say an engagement is not an engagement by mere saying it, it involves agreement and rituals. If it was by merely saying it then anyone could have been engage with or without the consent of the other person. the world would have been very chaotic with such a system



no..it was purvi coming between arjun and ovi.
it's not purvi fault because she didn't know about arjun and ovi.
but arjun know very well that he has made a commitment to ovi by saying he is ready to marry her.
he fall in love with purvi..but why he wait until purvi accept him and then trying to tell ovi he fall for another girl?
when he fall in love with purvi..he should have tell ovi first and the family that he don't want to get married because he fall for another girl.
arjun has betrayed ovi, the trust and the faith of the family.
and now he is paying for his action.

i agree with the engagement needs official agreements and rituals.
but the point is..arjun has make a commitment..and who on earth will not dissappointed and heartbroken when the guy who said agree to marry her fall for another girl.
it's kind a backstabbing.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sipo dear 1000000000% agreee...That is what I am talking abt...Good post...👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sipokobusak



no..it was purvi coming between arjun and ovi.
it's not purvi fault because she didn't know about arjun and ovi.
but arjun know very well that he has made a commitment to ovi by saying he is ready to marry her.
he fall in love with purvi..but why he wait until purvi accept him and then trying to tell ovi he fall for another girl?
when he fall in love with purvi..he should have tell ovi first and the family that he don't want to get married because he fall for another girl.
arjun has betrayed ovi, the trust and the faith of the family.
and now he is paying for his action.

i agree with the engagement needs official agreements and rituals.
but the point is..arjun has make a commitment..and who on earth will not dissappointed and heartbroken when the guy who said agree to marry her fall for another girl.
it's kind a backstabbing.


why puran things gasa peta , look forward ,
btw seems now someone will dump her husband 😭 by saying love ka carrot 🤢
hope ekta will not dump him 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sipokobusak



no..it was purvi coming between arjun and ovi.
it's not purvi fault because she didn't know about arjun and ovi.
but arjun know very well that he has made a commitment to ovi by saying he is ready to marry her.
he fall in love with purvi..but why he wait until purvi accept him and then trying to tell ovi he fall for another girl?
when he fall in love with purvi..he should have tell ovi first and the family that he don't want to get married because he fall for another girl.
arjun has betrayed ovi, the trust and the faith of the family.
and now he is paying for his action.

i agree with the engagement needs official agreements and rituals.
but the point is..arjun has make a commitment..and who on earth will not dissappointed and heartbroken when the guy who said agree to marry her fall for another girl.
it's kind a backstabbing.

Sipo, I agree with all except the underlined. In India, word of mouth is binding especially between 2 families tying the wedding knot, in the land of arranged marriages. In many families, many couple don't get to have a formal engagement until the day of wedding because of reasons ranging from time to money. Even in these cases, the final word agreed upon between the parents is binding. Interesting fact, in India sometimes billion dollar diamond deals do not have a legal binding to even begin with; trading is done on the basis of word of mouth that is binding (not the fina sale).

In Ovi Arjun case, it was a binding arranged marriage between the 2 families...oh and btw, in India, even if the couple fell in love, parents actually will go and do all the formalities and arrangement, the couples does nothing...as we see Vinod and Manju going over to talk to Mittal (family).

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