Kools so true abt the kids how they act and behave when they grow up..Love this line especially...👏
children r their own individuals and craft their own destiny . Parents realise their ego was mithya,
We can instill as much sanskars and what is right from wrong that we can...But at one point external influences, their own experiences and rest does have an impact..They will make their own mistakes and realize later on...Hopefully learn from them...We did not learn anything by our parent's mistakes although they shared them with us and warned us...
Meanwhile looking at kids mistakes parents try to see their faults or take the blame by saying we never taught you this or how could you do this to us? Did we fail as a parent? Sometimes parents do fail when they have not done their best and most of the time they have but the child decides to go ahead and do what ever..Never go around tooting your own horns unneccessarily abt the child that he or she can do no wrong...My child has the best foundation..
Sulochana fed this false ego in Archana and it got feded down to Purvi..Look at all Sulo's children has turned out to be not so perfect as a matter of fact some worse than the others..By putting Archana on pedestal she hurt her own other daughter Varsha labled her the blacksheep of the family, Vaishu being educated ended with a bigomist...Only person who is halfway decent is Vinod..Sulo has diff rules one for Daughter Archu and other for Manju and rest...
Savita being called evil, crass and a fighting cock but her kids turned out to be better than Sulo-manohar's..Savita has not shown differences between her daughter and DIL IMHO..
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago