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pari87

@pari87

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Posted: 13 years ago

#251

Originally posted by: rayadallie

I understand archanna and sulochana and sanskars but Children dont always live up to what their parents want of them, they always fall short. Even my parents instill so many sanskars but although i remember them, sometimes i do err as i am only human and the world out there is very tempting. I would not like people to target my wrong doings because my parents are sanskari people, if you know what i mean.

You are very right rayadallie. I agree, children will fall short of the same instilled sanskaars when times and norms change. It is no biggie. But, then the children should not be hailed as mahaan or tyaagi, when clearly they are so flawed. They should be put in their place about their reality. Purvi herself sings praises about her aai's sanskaars and kept reprimanding Arjun for chote log bade log nonsense, when she herself has no such qualms. So why give unnecessary bhashan?

Archana and Sulo both need to see Purvi for what she is, a regular girl with flaws and mistakes instead of touting her as the ultimate upholder of values and someone who can NEVER do wrong. Her wrong doings are thus attacked because she is shown to and claimed to be this super sanskaari middle-class girl with all her values being lauded.

Edited by pari87 - 13 years ago

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 13 years ago

#252

yes raydallie i know what u mean . and i agree too .

thats exactly the point we r trying to make ...that the pre maritalsex can be considered as a human weakness but the decisions taken after it were wrong .

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Afsara Afia

@Afss_94

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Posted: 13 years ago

#253

Originally posted by: pari87
I understand archanna and sulochana and sanskars but Children dont always live up to what their parents want of them, they always fall short. Even my parents instill so many sanskars but although i remember them, sometimes i do err as i am only human and the world out there is very tempting. I would not like people to target my wrong doings because my parents are sanskari people, if you know what i mean.

exactly!

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#254

Pari first Sulo has to see herself in the mirror and realize that she ain't no Saskar ki devi Queen B...And than accept her daughter Archana ain't no Sanskar ki devi ki beti...Or tyag ki murti...Than do chana accepting and realizing Purvi ain't no sanskar, tyaag or mahaanta ki murat...Their claims for sanskars were all empty vessels...They are hypocrites and need to shut their mouths..

Pardon my american english but I have had it with the Ks..

Look how Sulo's kids have turned out..

Look how bad of a duaghter, wife, dil and mother Archana is..

And Purvi takes the cake and the cherry topping in the worst daughter, grand daughter, GF, Sibling, and a WIFE ...Last but not least future Mother...

ADD: From the get go I have been saying this "Arjun started it by dumping one sister for another sister Purvi and finally that same Purvi finished it" now we have 2 innocent babies lives involved...What a shame...All of them being immature and not the right age to be married let alone be in love...Arjun 22, Ovi 19 and Purvi 18...should they be pregnant...This is a case of bablies are having babies..😳

Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago

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rayadallie

@rayadallie

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#255

Originally posted by: Dabulls23
This is what I wrote on another topic how and why I dont feel sorry for Arjun..

Its abt time Arjun gets all the blame just like Ovi is being blamed since these two got together knowing the fact Ovi was Purvi's sister...WHat goes around comes around...Arjun should have understood Ovi's pain and plight...He always blamed Ovi and called names...She never got his support..

Look at Onir he trusts his wife and stood up for her - defended her w/o knowing the truth and slapped Arjun although it was Purvi who was at fault in running to Kolkata...

Ovi is the loser in this deal out of all 4...Onir chose not to know the truth...But Ovi knowing the truth is still suffering...Arjun also lied to her abt him having sex with Purvi prior to his marriage with Ovi...

I so wish Ovi leaves Arjun by divorcing and takes the baby with her to canada..

Arjun deserves Purvi and so does Onir...Both men have chosen to be Lallus and Ullus..

I wished ovi had never pursued arjun in the first place. She knew that he did not love her and still fight for him, when you love someone, you dont hold them hostage, you let them free and if they return then it was meant to be but if they dont then so be it. Why should she divorce him now after she messed up her life by insisting she get him? stay and stuck it out. iT would not bother arjun a bit if she leaves as he does not love her.

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#256

Originally posted by: rayadallie
I wished ovi had never pursued arjun in the first place. She knew that he did not love her and still fight for him, when you love someone, you dont hold them hostage, you let them free and if they return then it was meant to be but if they dont then so be it. Why should she divorce him now after she messed up her life by insisting she get him? stay and stuck it out. iT would not bother arjun a bit if she leaves as he does not love her.

Ovi did not pursue him when Arjun proposed to her...SHe had already accepted that he did not love her...He got jealous of some dude Ovi was with and proposed to her..Even Manav made sure abt that...

I am sorry we will never agree on this issue as I see it diff than you do...I have no issue with your take and I respect that...

But what Arjun has done is wrong on all grounds...Had Purvi not been Ovi's sister I would have had no issue her marrying or loving arjun...But what Purvi did after sleeping with the man is what I have issues with..I cant condone this behavior nor decisions...

How abt if Purvi loved Arjun than how could she hold him a hostage and make him marry someone he did not love and make him sleep with his wife and consummate a marriage when he did not love Ovi?

Arjun had a choice not to marry ovi in the first place, even the 2nd go after Ovi's announcement on their marriage was not consummated and arjun's annoucement of him loving purvi and purvi alone he should have divorced Ovi...Why did he not??

Ovi should dump the two timing jerk and take the child and move on to canada...Let Arjun be stuck with Purvi and their mahaan child..

Neither Purvi nor Arjun had gun over their heads to accept Ovi's deal...Just like Purvi threw the check on Ovi's face, just like Archana did not accept Ovi's deal, same option Purvi had into rejecting her deal...Purvi chose to accept the deal at the 11th hour when Ovi had already faced and accepted ArVi's marriage...Thanks to Purvi, Archana and SUlo rubbing into Ovi and Deshmukh's faces abt their marriage...She was shocked to receive a call from Purvi...Purvi cold heartedly put this whole thing in motion and weakling Arjun accepted it..So now it is Ovi's fault???

My advice to Ovi...Do not let your love for anyone control your mind and heart & make you so weak that you are willing to sacrifice your self resepct...If your love is not reciprocated or atleast respected than that person does not deserve you...So stop craving for your mother or your husband's love...If they dont have an oz of understanding or empathy than they dont deserve your love...Move on child...Be happy that you are a loving person..

Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago

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m_masti

@m_masti

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#257

Originally posted by: rayadallie
I am not sure if she knew she was going to sacrifice the night before but what i knew is that it was a moment of weakness for both sh and arjun, they are humans and are in love. So I dont understand why people keeping harping on such things in this day and age.

let me put things in order

1. Purvi never thought how much it will hurt ovi

2. Purvi never thought how much it will effect Archu's life by marrying a guy who betrayed Archi' s twin daughter

3. Purvi never thought ovi-arjun-purvi triangle will make horrible things in her and archu's life

4. Purvi went to ask manav for kanyadaan never thought how much it will effect ovi if manav performs her kanyadaan

5. Purvi always had a dream seeing archu living happy life with manav and bio-kids, why did she forgot that dream, why she made some moves which will create forever distances between arman

6. why purvi forgot all her middle class values which she carries on

a. middle class girl cannot have love marraige

b. all neighbours are thinking that purvi trapped a rich guy

c. having sex with fiance eventhough it was a weakest moment

d. dump the guy on wedding eve after having sex with him

e. hide truth of preggo from arjun when he declared he still loves only purvi

f. made arjun to make ovi preggo

g. hide secret from archu when archu insisted her to tell the truth why she is leaving mumbai

h. did not abort the preggo though she knows it is called illegal kid

i. wanted to keep the preggo so that she could live with arjun's memories so that she will not move-on and cannot let arjun to move-on

7. why did she came to mumbai back knowing that the preggo secret will create a havoc

8. why she could not tell onir all her past, onir is sensible and he would have understood the issue and would have did ovi's treatment, this used to be a good way for purvi not to create havoc...

9. good that she got onir otherwise what the life is for a unmaried preggo girl, but still she kept everything as secret to onir

I am not opposing having sex before wedding in the weakest moment or not...but dumping the guy without proper reason is bad...and creating havoc in ovi-arjun life is bad...hiding everything from a man who is giving social status to you is bad...

purvi had many other ways to unite Archu and Manav without taking silly step of trading arjun for archu's happiness...and making ovi as victim of everything...

purvi is the true villain of this story, and she is a bed bug in arjun-ovi life...

Edited by m_masti - 13 years ago

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Dabulls23

@Dabulls23

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#258

Masti love your post with the numbers and alphabets 👏

@ the bed bug 😆

Catch u all later...Back to my 50 shades of 😛

Edited by Dabulls23 - 13 years ago

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m_masti

@m_masti

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#259

Originally posted by: Kalapi
Varsha, the whole thingy abt Teju/Sunny's marriage is the most stupiest track yaar...which parents will jump up and down to give their hand in marriage when there is an opposition in the house, even if the could be couple is in 'love', Never happen sin India. In a few days, my niece is getting married, but she also faced a lot of opposition infact from my hubby. She was doing a love marriage too, but their family is extremely close even though we will outside of India. No family in India goes my way or highway, especially about girl's marriage, everyone always reevaluate. Found Manav and Archana making promises to Sunny/Shani weirdest. Besides, why didn't the Cvs really develop a track around Shunny not having a job and that is the reason for Savita to oppsose...that track is senseless to the core...

completely agree...for me sunny and teju track doesn't make any sense...this track is created just to show savita will be becoming evil again and will oppose archu again...arman together oppose savita asusual...and savita feel more inferior...

Edited by m_masti - 13 years ago