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Posted: 12 years ago
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The wise say hope springs eternal in the human breast and that may be the reason why even after a myriad bizarre twists, one still has faith that the CVs will not butcher Arjun's and Purvi's characters any further.

ARVI began with fireworks, we fell in love with their spats, delighted in Arjun's cockiness and Purvi's feisty, die-hard attitude, we spurred Arjun's intensity and conviction that he could win Purvi over and when he did win her over, we were over the moon with delight. He won her over but in the process, won us over as well. Unfortunately, what began with a bang ended with barely a fizzle.

Now, as ARVI stand at the crossroads, one does sincerely hope that the CVs do not make Arjun a wimp who makes doleful sheep's eyes at his former love, who is now his sis-in-law, while they turn Purvi into an ungrateful wench who abandons the man who has stood by her side steadfastly when she has needed help the most.

I had hoped ARVI would be back together seamlessly but the current track leaves no hope, what with Ovi carrying Arjun's child and Purvi married to Onir. The die has been cast, sadly, there is no turning back. The only way that ARVI can be together again with some semblance of dignity is IF Ovi is not carrying Arjun's baby and Purvi is not married to Onir. Barring this, ARVI need to move on with their lives, separately.

Yesterday, it was mentioned in the update that Arjun left Purvi in the wheelchair without taking time to alert Manav about Purvi's condition and that he did not stay with Purvi till family arrived. One does not do this with any relative, let alone a sister in law. He had been told Ovi was fine and awake, he could have waited a few minutes until he was sure Purvi was okay. Today, he sat stroking Ovi's hair and pacifying her (absolutely right in his position as her husband) totally forgetting the plight of the girl that had fainted. He made no enquiries, did not tell Manav, it was a non-event to him.

Onir, on the other hand, as Purvi's husband sat with her, berated her, told the nurse he would look at Ovi's reports later and assured Purvi all will be right as he was back beside her. He was playing the role of loving husband to perfection just as Arjun was. Why upset the applecart then?

Purvi obviously cares for the guy who has taken her under his protection and given her love, shelter and his name. So, she should. Today, she compared their relationship to that of Manav and Archana and felt that it was a strong bond that they shared. They do, marriage is not just about love, it is about a sense of belonging, responsibility, bonding, unity, facing the world together, being best friends. I have never seen Purvi talk this seriously about her relationship with Arjun. She was never this sure, it was always beset with doubts. Their good times together were frivolous and fun, lovey dovey but the Purvi today was serious and realistic when she had that conversation with Onir.

I believe Arjun has matured too (except for those looks at Purvi that he cannot help), he is caring and loving towards his wife who is carrying his baby. I only hope he is not thrown into a quandary and pulled two ways when he discovers Purvi is also carrying his offspring. I hope to God, Purvi is not. If only wishes could be horses!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with your post Jhanvi ...
I also don't remember Purvi talking this seriously ever .She knows that she is lucky to have Onir and talking about their relationship with Manav and Archana's is a big thing for her as Manav and Archana are both her role models ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I agree with your post Jhanvi ...

I also don't remember Purvi talking this seriously ever .She knows that she is lucky to have Onir and talking about their relationship with Manav and Archana's is a big thing for her as Manav and Archana are both her role models ...


Tanya, I hope to God Purvi has sense enough to realize her good fortune in finding a guy like Onir when she was literally bereft of all family. She would be insane if she does not. 😔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jhanvi i hear ur sentiments.
Purvi and Arjun did have serious talks abt their relationship.Well it came more from Arjun rather than Purvi.Arjun talked about their life together.Waking up,Purvi getting his clothes ready,eating breakfast together and going to office.Then there was the conversation between Arvi about their future children.
With Onir i agree things are different.Arjun came with a past that was connected to Purvi's family.The guilt that Purvi was the one that came between Arjun and Ovi would always dangled above Purvi's head.She was constantly reminded that she was the one who wrecked Arjun and Ovi's so called love life(according to Ovi).Purvi always felt that since Ovi loved Arjun since she was 14 years old then her love failed in comparison.She even mentioned that she saw more in Ovi's eyes.I beg her a pardon as Ovi didnt care abt anyone but herself and didnt give a damn abt Arjun's happiness.
The thing is Purvi never expected to love,This new found feeling was a breath of fresh air in her life.Arjun was the knight and shining armour that every girl wanted but whom Purvi never wished for.
He came and brought love,happiness,companionship,friendship but he came with a past that he had no control over.His lies well not telling her about his past had distanced them but i think the gap was never fully filled if Purvi still felt guilty.
Onir is a friend and not a love.I am really getting annoyed here.Purvi mentioned that there was no love just understanding in her marriage wiht Onir a few days ago and now she is comparing Arman's relationship to theirs, saying it is Pavitra Rishta.I hope the Cvs better stick to their original story but i guess they just love to send mixed signals.
About Purvi carrying Arjun's baby well i hope she is.What to say i am a die hard Arvian and will always be one.I sincerely hope that Ovi's baby is not Arjun's as i have my doubts.
In all this confusion,mixed signal and chaos the love between Arvi has never died.It still lurking in those two lovers' mind but its just that they are respecting the institution of their marriages to show it.I guess the Pavitra Rishta lesson that is being taught is that you might meet devils or saints in the cross paths of life but if u are meant to be with the one you sincerely love then watever direction u choose to take you will always find a way back to each other.
Thats just my POV.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ameilia

Jhanvi i hear ur sentiments.

Purvi and Arjun did have serious talks abt their relationship.Well it came more from Arjun rather than Purvi.Arjun talked about their life together.Waking up,Purvi getting his clothes ready,eating breakfast together and going to office.Then there was the conversation between Arvi about their future children.
With Onir i agree things are different.Arjun came with a past that was connected to Purvi's family.The guilt that Purvi was the one that came between Arjun and Ovi would always dangled above Purvi's head.She was constantly reminded that she was the one who wrecked Arjun and Ovi's so called love life(according to Ovi).Purvi always felt that since Ovi loved Arjun since she was 14 years old then her love failed in comparison.She even mentioned that she saw more in Ovi's eyes.I beg her a pardon as Ovi didnt care abt anyone but herself and didnt give a damn abt Arjun's happiness.
The thing is Purvi never expected to love,This new found feeling was a breath of fresh air in her life.Arjun was the knight and shining armour that every girl wanted but whom Purvi never wished for.
He came and brought love,happiness,companionship,friendship but he came with a past that he had no control over.His lies well not telling her about his past had distanced them but i think the gap was never fully filled if Purvi still felt guilty.
Onir is a friend and not a love.I am really getting annoyed here.Purvi mentioned that there was no love just understanding in her marriage wiht Onir a few days ago and now she is comparing Arman's relationship to theirs, saying it is Pavitra Rishta.I hope the Cvs better stick to their original story but i guess they just love to send mixed signals.
About Purvi carrying Arjun's baby well i hope she is.What to say i am a die hard Arvian and will always be one.I sincerely hope that Ovi's baby is not Arjun's as i have my doubts.
In all this confusion,mixed signal and chaos the love between Arvi has never died.It still lurking in those two lovers' mind but its just that they are respecting the institution of their marriages to show it.I guess the Pavitra Rishta lesson that is being taught is that you might meet devils or saints in the cross paths of life but if u are meant to be with the one you sincerely love then watever direction u choose to take you will always find a way back to each other.
Thats just my POV.


Ameilia, I hear you. I agree too that most talk about their future came from Arjun.

I too would dearly have loved to see ARVI together but see no way out of this mess. If Ovi's baby is not Arjun's, yes, there may be time yet to salvage the story but as it stands, I see no hope of Arjun ever leaving Ovi if she is pregnant with his child. If Ovi is pregnant with Arjun's baby, Purvi will never take him back either. Imagine the ruckus in the household. Purvi would never be able to face her parents ever.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i agree with you that purvi was never sure about arjun purvi relation , their is lots of doubt and just fun and today she is confident about her and onirs relation and about their bonding .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda

i agree with you that purvi was never sure about arjun purvi relation , their is lots of doubt and just fun and today she is confident about her and onirs relation and about their bonding .

What do you mean she was never sure? I think you might be mistaking doubt with shyness honey. There was only hesitation when she found out about his and Ovi's relation? I've seen hesitation in Purvi's eyes since day 1 with Onir lol. However, I have noticed that she's been getting more comfortable with him.. they have a cute friendship 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Linda and arjunpurvixo, no doubt at all that Arjun and Purvi shared a magical relationship. She truly loved him and he loved her, no question about that. But their relationship was plagued by doubts about the engagement, the D family, Ovi's "right" over him, Archana's non-acceptance of Arjun initially. Apart from that, their love was beautiful to watch and that is what breaks one's heart that it was all to nought, they threw it all away.

With Onir, I didn't see doubt in Purvi's eyes in Kolkata but did see some hesitation in certain scenes, she is getting surer of herself with him and their relationship. Does not bode good for an ARVI reunion.

As I said earlier, if Ovi is pregnant with Arjun's child, an ARVI reunion is next to impossible, the family will ostracize them, Purvi would never agree and Arjun too would be duty bound to stay with his psycho wife. The downside would be that Ovi's shenanigans would win out.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ameilia

Jhanvi i hear ur sentiments.

Purvi and Arjun did have serious talks abt their relationship.Well it came more from Arjun rather than Purvi.Arjun talked about their life together.Waking up,Purvi getting his clothes ready,eating breakfast together and going to office.Then there was the conversation between Arvi about their future children.
With Onir i agree things are different.Arjun came with a past that was connected to Purvi's family.The guilt that Purvi was the one that came between Arjun and Ovi would always dangled above Purvi's head.She was constantly reminded that she was the one who wrecked Arjun and Ovi's so called love life(according to Ovi).Purvi always felt that since Ovi loved Arjun since she was 14 years old then her love failed in comparison.She even mentioned that she saw more in Ovi's eyes.I beg her a pardon as Ovi didnt care abt anyone but herself and didnt give a damn abt Arjun's happiness.
The thing is Purvi never expected to love,This new found feeling was a breath of fresh air in her life.Arjun was the knight and shining armour that every girl wanted but whom Purvi never wished for.
He came and brought love,happiness,companionship,friendship but he came with a past that he had no control over.His lies well not telling herabouthis past had distanced them but i think the gap was never fully filled if Purvi still feltguilty.
Onir is a friend and not a love.I am really getting annoyed here.Purvi mentioned that there was no love just understanding in her marriage wiht Onir a few days ago and now she is comparing Arman's relationship to theirs, saying it is Pavitra Rishta.I hope the Cvs better stick to their original story but i guess they just love to send mixed signals.
About Purvi carrying Arjun's baby well i hope she is.What to say i am a die hard Arvian and will always be one.I sincerely hope that Ovi's baby is not Arjun's as i have my doubts.
In all this confusion,mixed signal and chaos the love between Arvi has never died.It still lurking in those two lovers' mind but its just that they are respecting the institution of their marriages to show it.I guess the Pavitra Rishta lesson that is beingtaughtis that you might meet devils or saints in the cross paths of life but if u are meant to be with the one you sincerely love then watever direction u choose to take you will always find a way back to each other.
Thats just my POV.

word Amy! 👏 you said it all, i just want to add a line that I too pray an arvi reunion soon!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hi soapwatcher1. I'm Sheetal 😊 Her getting confident with the relationship doesn't truly mean much in my opinion. In her head, she's always had confidence and faith that her relationship with Onir will work because they are good friends and understand each other. I think Purvi is giving him mixed signals... doing one thing, saying another 😕 Ovi's baby is just a mystery to me... it doesn't make sense... Arjun wouldn't seem like the type to consummate with her/impregnate her so early in the marriage - especially with all the misunderstandings and arguments they get into. However, wouldn't Arjun know if it was someone else's baby and not his? There's so many questions that Ekta is yet to reveal to us. However, I really don't want Ovi to just get her way without punishment. 🤔

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