Purvi-onir's rishta - Page 6

Gaurav, my dear boy, it is a good thing for you I cannot get at you, or I would have pulled your ears real hard!😉

Arjun and Purvi can run away together, for that is within their powers.But how on earth can they get married? ArMan were never married to anyone else, how can you forget that? Now this duo is never going to get the necessary divorces, and even if they did, the emotional upheavals within her family would never let her at least live in peace, not to speak of being happy.

She would never be happy cut off from them, and they would never forgive her for going back on her mahaan tyaag. When she ran off to Kolkatta, she carried with her the warmth of their unstinting gratitude and admiration for what she was doing to save the Arjun-Ovi marriage. That kept her going. Now it will be the opposite. How will she cope? No amount of love and caring from Arjun would rid her of the burden of guilt and the feeling of being despised and rejected by those she cares for the most.

You must be too young to have seen the 1980 Yash Chopra film Silsila. It failed because the audience rejected precisely the kind of scenario Arshi and you are proposing. I remember one very telling retort that a friend of Amitabh's makes when Amitabh says that he is but a man, not a devta, and does he not have the right to any happiness? The reply is "You can become a devta from a man, but once you have done that, you cannot once again become a man from a devta." That is it.

The only way Arjun and Purvi can now come together again is for both the inconvenient spouses to be disposed of - Ovi by death in childbirth, preferably but not necessarily along with her baby - and Onir to be run over a Kolkata tram.

Unless of course he plans to be even more noble than he already is and give up his Mishti, who was never his anyway, for all that she flirts with him by showering him with water droplets from her wet hair. Now that was a very discordant scene for those believing that Purvi feels only friendship for Onir, for it was VERY coquettish, and being a woman, I cannot imagine doing it with any 'mere friend' (when I was young, that is!😉)

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: gaurav_ankita08

Yup i agree with u shymala aunty but here Ekta is making the show mockery with butchering the characters,I hope Arvi runs away n get married like Arman did.

My dear Anum (what a very unusual and pretty name!),

I can fully understand your affection for Arjun-Purvi - which I shared till recently - and I would agree with almost all that you have said here. However, I would request you to see my post to Gaurav above.

It is not so easy to turn the clock back, for there is no such thing as a clean slate. There will be a good bit of what the Americans call collateral damage, especially to Purvi's relationships with her parivaar. Will she be able to survive all that and really be happy? If it is the burden of gratitude to her adoptive mother that weighed her down and led to all this damage, what of that burden then?

The only way to get the happy ending you want is for Ovi to die in childbirth, but in such a way that neither Purvi nor Arjun can be blamed for it in the least. Plus Onir will have to give up Purvi willingly, or also be killed accidentally. There is simply no other way out, and maybe this is what the CVs will do.

But somehow I doubt it. I have an uneasy feeling they are planning another long leap in the summer, and if so, they will need conflict between Purvi's kid(s) and Arjun's, so there can be no reunion of the kind contemplated.

You cannot even begin to imagine how frustrated and angry I feel at what my favourite pair has been reduced to. But please, my dear, the mistake was 90% hers, not his. My poor boy was emotionally blackmailed and coshed into submission, that is all. He was of course a complete fool to let himself be manipulated like that.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: Manoshono

Shyamala Aunty, I wished Ekta would have thought about all this that you are saying before attempting to separate arvi. She wanted her so called trps to rise, as she does that to every of her Jodis.

But as far as my thoughts are concern. I have always been a huge fan of arvi. In fact I only started watching this serial because of them and no matter what happens I would still want them to be together. I guess it's only because I have always been watching them after the leap and their chemistry, understanding and purity of their relationship, dragged me to watch them. Even though I hate the fact that Ekta has destroyed a wonderful couple. But the love that I have for them wanted me to see their reunion again, with their realization of the mistake that they have made in the past. I also want ovi to realize her mistakes as well.

And as far as these soaps are concern. In the end they are just fictional stories which tend to entertain us. It doesn't matter what we want, it's up to Ekta and her genius team which decides the real deal here for her own selfishness.

No matter how much sense we try to put into these stories, none of the fans on both ends would ever understand. Because each person has their own logical reasons to defend.

As far as purvi and arjun are concern. I do feel they have done the most horrible mistake of their lives but nobody is perfect in this world. And if one regrets and wants to go back and correct their mistakes then I think they should be given a chance.

Regards,

Anum!

Dear Shyamala, loved reading all your posts on this thread. While I agree with you that both are tiresome, Purvi and Arjun, I blame them both equally, to date. If she gave up on him, twisted his arm so to speak, where was his dimaag to go marry Ovi when he was head over heels in love with Purvi? No amount of arm or neck twisting should make a real man give up on his love. I like what you said in one of your earlier posts about him being a pajama. No sane person even if purportedly in love would agree to such a preposterous proposition. He fell in my estimation when he agreed to marry Ovi. Purvi was bogged down by idiotic gratitude, what was he weighed by? The need to prove his love for her by giving up on her? A true man would have put her in her place. If they could both so easily give up on the other, maybe their love was not all that strong.

Thanks a lot, my dear Talira.

If Purvi feels only friendship for Onir and is never going to progress beyond that, that kind of extremely coquettish scene in misleading for him and very unfair on her part. One should never promise what one cannot deliver, whether in business or in personal relationships.

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: TALIRAlinda

I CAN say only one thing that is, if purvi cant love him then she should stop her flirting with onir and obviously should stop special flirting like yesterdays FB , as onir will come then purvi again with her husband then may be again purvi will behave like normal loving wife and if one day they will separate for some reason then if again she remember arjun after too much flirting with onir then it would be too much bad to see sanskari beti so if she stuck with her so called ex love then she should straightly say that i cant love you , its just friendship , without friendship you shouldnt expect anything from me . it is too bad to see that husband miss badly his wife and wife remember her ex so called love . if purvi straightly say then onir will accept it as he is mature and very good person , and will not suffer for his wife .

@ sashashyam aunty , your explanation just aws .

Thanks shyamala Aunty. Anum is a very common name in Pakistan 😊

I just wanted to acknowledge your writing skills. I think it's out standing. Even though our ways of thinking is apart from each other only because I want to enjoy this fictional story not in a true sense. I would still say that it always inspires me.

Hopefully arvi reunites again. I hope Ekta would come up with a brilliant idea for their reunion.

Sorry shymala aunty i wrote something else in that post actually i was watching some other channel that time mistakely i typed wrong lines.

Dear Janhvi,

I agree with you 100%, and if I am softer on Arjun, it is only because in some corner of my heart, I equate him with my Sasha. If I had been there, I would not have behaved like DK and the Ds. Also, Purvi has a terrifying hold on him; he is like a man bewitched.

But when you say If they could both so easily give up on the other, maybe their love was not all that strong, that is exactly what I feel too.

I loved your very perceptive take @ blue on the Onir-Purvi relationship, from her side. It is the most insightful piece that I have read so far on this topic, and it is spot on.

I agree that being stuck with Ovi is a very heavy cross to bear for poor Arjun, especially with Purvi having plonked herself there as well to add to his miseries.

I too feel that the best solution would for both of them to carry on as they are - and here too Purvi will have it infinitely easier - and manage as best they can. If there is going to be another Great Leap Forward this summer, I expect that is what will happen. Let us see.

Take care, my dear, and it was very nice to be sharing our views as we used to do last year. How very long ago that seems to be!

Shyamala

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Dear Shyamala, loved reading all your posts on this thread. While I agree with you that both are tiresome, Purvi and Arjun, I blame them both equally, to date. If she gave up on him, twisted his arm so to speak, where was his dimaag to go marry Ovi when he was head over heels in love with Purvi? No amount of arm or neck twisting should make a real man give up on his love. I like what you said in one of your earlier posts about him being a pajama. No sane person even if purportedly in love would agree to such a preposterous proposition. He fell in my estimation when he agreed to marry Ovi. Purvi was bogged down by idiotic gratitude, what was he weighed by? The need to prove his love for her by giving up on her? A true man would have put her in her place. If they could both so easily give up on the other, maybe their love was not all that strong.

I hope to God, Purvi is not carrying Arjun's baby especially since Ovi is carrying his baby as well. I agree too that Purvi is too content and too sure in her relationship with Onir, she was coy, shy with Arjun, with Onir she is a woman confident in their relationship and sure of herself and sure of how he feels about her. There is no lingering self doubt or guilt about the family with Onir, she seems happier with him than she ever was with Arjun.

There was decidedly chemistry between Arjun and Purvi but that definitely was not enough to carry their love. As you rightly said, marriages can be built on foundations other than love. Love, even amar prem or pavitra rishta does not give one the right to break hearts just to be together, the two idiots lost their chance. Purvi cannot break Onir's heart or her bonds with him solely to be united with her pavitra love. Arjun cannot leave his pregnant wife to be with his lady love. They can pine for each other from afar and in stealth if they want to, it can be a pavitra rishta that way because they care for each other in some deep corner of their hearts despite all odds and not being together.

While I feel sorry for Arjun for being married to that vixen, I have a nagging feeling that he would have moved on too if the brat had made half an effort to help him forget Purvi. He hangs on to memories only because his reality is so terrifying. So, I will not blame Purvi for his present circumstance or chide her for moving on. They both shut the door on their relationship and sadly have to deal with it.

Really this forum has some great members who can make teenagers understand what is actual POV behind the story of show.
Shymala aunty we are lucky that we have you in our Forum.

Thanks a lot, and you, young man, have all the makings of a diplomat!😉

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: gaurav_ankita08

Really this forum has some great members who can make teenagers understand what is actual POV behind the story of show.
Shymala aunty we are lucky that we have you in our Forum.

Dear Shyamala. those were the days, sigh! Whatever happened to those happy times?