Purvi-onir's rishta - Page 7

You, Janhvi, are one marvellously WICKED girl! What a truly SPLENDID idea!👏👏 Do try and see if you can get it across to the CVs!

Shyamala

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Dear Shyamala. those were the days, sigh! Whatever happened to those happy times?

I just put down an evil thought that popped into my head elsewhere on the forum. It would be a great twist if Arjun were not the father of either baby. Purvi's would be Onir's and Ovi's would be Romil's. Poor Arjun would then be free of both girls and their crosses. One can dream.

OOMMGGG ! Din't really expect 62 responses for my post ... Thank u everybody

Perfect.. spot on.

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Dear Shyamala, loved reading all your posts on this thread. While I agree with you that both are tiresome, Purvi and Arjun, I blame them both equally, to date. If she gave up on him, twisted his arm so to speak, where was his dimaag to go marry Ovi when he was head over heels in love with Purvi? No amount of arm or neck twisting should make a real man give up on his love. I like what you said in one of your earlier posts about him being a pajama. No sane person even if purportedly in love would agree to such a preposterous proposition. He fell in my estimation when he agreed to marry Ovi. Purvi was bogged down by idiotic gratitude, what was he weighed by? The need to prove his love for her by giving up on her? A true man would have put her in her place. If they could both so easily give up on the other, maybe their love was not all that strong.

I hope to God, Purvi is not carrying Arjun's baby especially since Ovi is carrying his baby as well. I agree too that Purvi is too content and too sure in her relationship with Onir, she was coy, shy with Arjun, with Onir she is a woman confident in their relationship and sure of herself and sure of how he feels about her. There is no lingering self doubt or guilt about the family with Onir, she seems happier with him than she ever was with Arjun.

There was decidedly chemistry between Arjun and Purvi but that definitely was not enough to carry their love. As you rightly said, marriages can be built on foundations other than love. Love, even amar prem or pavitra rishta does not give one the right to break hearts just to be together, the two idiots lost their chance. Purvi cannot break Onir's heart or her bonds with him solely to be united with her pavitra love. Arjun cannot leave his pregnant wife to be with his lady love. They can pine for each other from afar and in stealth if they want to, it can be a pavitra rishta that way because they care for each other in some deep corner of their hearts despite all odds and not being together.

While I feel sorry for Arjun for being married to that vixen, I have a nagging feeling that he would have moved on too if the brat had made half an effort to help him forget Purvi. He hangs on to memories only because his reality is so terrifying. So, I will not blame Purvi for his present circumstance or chide her for moving on. They both shut the door on their relationship and sadly have to deal with it.

Its really good to read such logical and diplomatic posts from my forum friends👏.

My dear Kesha,,

Good to see such an honest and balanced post; quite uncommon these days among the ArVi groupies, all frantically reading the tea leaves in search of the most obscure sign which can be made to point to a possible reunion.

As for a rescue operation, the one needing it the most now is Arjun, and there is no one to do it for him, alas!

Apart from the moral compunctions you have cited re: the running away option, there is also a big question - Where to? Another city? Canada? And what do they do once they get there? Without DK's backing, Arjun would find the going very tough; he can hardly rejoin Farooq Bhai's garage 😉 or work as an executive for someone else. Then there are the emotional problems for Purvi that I had written about. They will all be serious issues, and might lead to Purvi becoming another Anna Karenina.

There are just a couple of points on which I do not agree with you. I do not see that Purvi is uncomfortable with Onir's touch. He puts his arm round her shoulders at the drop of a hat, and she seems quite at ease. And in the gajar halwa scene, it was she who was acting all lovey dovey and touchy feely with him, and also in the one where she pretends to be in pain. The first was HER flashback, remember? And the second was in real time.

As for whose baby it is, I doubt if even the CVs know it as yet, not to speak of the actors!😉

Secondly, I am afraid that the thesis that "in their earlier days of marriage Purvi was unaware of Onir's love for her so she acted all flirty but as months passed she realized that Onir actually feels for her and so she stopped her flirting" makes no sense to me at all. If she wanted to be 'just friends' with him, why on earth would she flirt with him just because she thinks he is NOT in love with her? Any man would take such behaviour as a come hither signal. No, no Kesha, that will not wash.

In fact Purvi is always coquetting with her lawfully wedded husband, and as Janhvi has brought out so very well, she is far more wifely and comfy with him than she ever was with Arjun. She is absolutely at home in her new set up, playing the lady of the house in full on Bong style, and if Arjun had not reappeared, she would have had her baby and her husband and her home, and been perfectly content and wrapped up in her very own parivaar.

You would also remember that it is always Arjun who reminisces about their days together, not Purvi - even in the train, she thinks only about her husband. It is only after her coming to Mumbai that she thinks occasionally about her times with Arjun. She is after all a woman of conventional morality, and she would feel it a sin to dream of an ex-lover while she is married to another man (of her own free will).

It is for the same reason that I cannot see her having a passionate tryst with Arjun a day before their marriage. It would just not be her, a very conventional lower middle class girl brought up the way she has been. It is not just that I (and Janhvi and many others) do not WANT it to be so, We believe that the Purvi we knew could not possibly do any such thing. Let us see who is right.

I no longer think that Purvi has any notion of breaking up with Onir, despite that very stupid letter she left behind. Today, she is shown regretting her harkat in leaving him like that, and waiting eagerly for him to come to Mumbai.

The very curious thing was in a long conversation with herself today, she did not once refer to the Ovi treatment issue, but only to her making up with Onir, about the solidity of their rishta surviving her harkat, and about the need for her to make a clean breast of her relationship with Arjun, the Ovi issue and all the rest to Onir. It thus seemed that she wanted to repair her relationship with Onir for its own sake, not to get him to treat Ovi.

Now of course he will land at her doorstep just in time to save Ovi and of course he will treat her from then on. I have a feeling Ovi will turn over a new leaf as well, after her sessions with Manav yesterday and today. Let us see.

Take care, my dear. I tried to praise your last post on the pavitra/ apavitra rishta thread, but before I could do so, the moderators shut it down. So let me tell you here how much I liked that post of yours!

Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: mjht_ArVi4ever

Its really good to read such logical and diplomatic posts from my forum friends👏.

Now coming to the topic of ArVi running away, I for once am against it. How can Arjun leave his pregnant wife and run away or how can Purvi leave her uh-so-caring-samaj sevak-doc hubby? Unless the CV's show that Ovi is carrying some one else's kid and Onir is some psycho-obsessed lover😕, who tries to harm Purvi and our knight in shining Armour AK saves her. I have seen such scenarios in Ektaish drama🤢.

But even after that i fail to understand what Purvi feels for Onir, in the flash back scenes she is flirting with Onir but then in the present scenes when ever Onir tries to touch her or if eye lock happens she feels uncomfortable, she feels sad on seeing arjun-ovi together, she feels sad for Arjun and remembers her happy moments spent with him. I am not sure but her character is getting messed up now. So overall Purvi has already ruined AK's life (of course AK acted like a dumbo by agreeing to her demands) and now she is ruining Onir's life.

Now coming to the pregnancy, if the kid is Onir's then she would not feel uncomfortable with him, i have said in one more post of mine that no wife would feel uncomfortable when her hubby touches her. And Purvi is not the girl who would allow any men near her so soon or get pregnant within 6 month of her tyaag😡. All i can think now is that maybe in their earlier days of marriage Purvi was unaware of Onir's love for her so she acted all flirty but as months passed she realized that Onir actually feels for her and so she stopped her flirting.

As an arvi fan I am in for their union and waiting eagerly for that moment but in the current situation I am doubtful about the re-union😭.

😊 my reply in bold red.

Originally posted by: sashashyam

My dear Kesha,,

Good to see such an honest and balanced post; quite uncommon these days among the ArVi groupies, all frantically reading the tea leaves in search of the most obscure sign which can be made to point to a possible reunion.

Well what to do we are so much in love with arvi that we dont care about the moral/immoral legal/illegal issues; all we want is arvi😆 which has become our obsession now (Ovi was of some use at least😉 who better to teach us obsession than ovi)

As for a rescue operation, the one needing it the most now is Arjun, and there is no one to do it for him, alas!

Apart from the moral compunctions you have cited re: the running away option, there is also a big question - Where to? Another city? Canada? And what do they do once they get there? Without DK's backing, Arjun would find the going very tough; he can hardly rejoin Farooq Bhai's garage 😉 or work as an executive for someone else. Then there are the emotional problems for Purvi that I had written about. They will all be serious issues, and might lead to Purvi becoming another Anna Karenina.

As I said i am against the running away scenario, unless a very appropriate and strong reason is placed before the audience by which the blame wont go on arvi. As for the places and job yeah maybe Canada, Arjun can run his business from there, because in Ekta-land people change the location of their business at the drop of a hat(cv's here).

There are just a couple of points on which I do not agree with you. I do not see that Purvi is uncomfortable with Onir's touch. He puts his arm round her shoulders at the drop of a hat, and she seems quite at ease. And in the gajar halwa scene, it was she who was acting all lovey dovey and touchy feely with him, and also in the one where she pretends to be in pain. The first was HER flashback, remember? And the second was in real time.

I dont know why but maybe as a biased arvi fan I am trying to console myself by saying that all Izz Well😆. Okay jokes apart, I still don't see the love for Onir in Purvi's eyes, its like a regular wifey duties which is usually seen among couples who had an arranged marriage😳.

As for whose baby it is, I doubt if even the CVs know it as yet, not to speak of the actors!😉

😆 I agree with you, you never know when the script changes

Secondly, I am afraid that the thesis that "in their earlier days of marriage Purvi was unaware of Onir's love for her so she acted all flirty but as months passed she realized that Onir actually feels for her and so she stopped her flirting" makes no sense to me at all. If she wanted to be 'just friends' with him, why on earth would she flirt with him just because she thinks he is NOT in love with her? Any man would take such behavior as a come hither signal. No, no Kesha, that will not wash.
I dont know but as I said its my love for ArVi that is making me think irrational and is always trying to find flaws in onir-purvi relation (and i wont even deny the fact that i feel like punching my laptop screen when i see them togather😭)
In fact Purvi is always coquetting with her lawfully wedded husband, and as Janhvi has brought out so very well, she is far more wifely and comfy with him than she ever was with Arjun. She is absolutely at home in her new set up, playing the lady of the house in full on Bong style, and if Arjun had not reappeared, she would have had her baby and her husband and her home, and been perfectly content and wrapped up in her very own parivaar.

But don't you think its unreal. I mean how can a girl like Purvi who was so in love with a guy 6 months ago, so easily accept a new guy even if it was to give name to her kid. I agree that she has molded herself very well into that life style and it was arjun's sudden appearance that is making her feel guilty for leaving him, etc. But Arjun's pain is still having an effect on her.

You would also remember that it is always Arjun who reminisces about their days together, not Purvi - even in the train, she thinks only about her husband. It is only after her coming to Mumbai that she thinks occasionally about her times with Arjun. She is after all a woman of conventional morality, and she would feel it a sin to dream of an ex-lover while she is married to another man (of her own free will).

How I wish arjun to run away not alone but with Ovi and his kid, at least that way he can have a peaceful life because with no Purvi around ALO can try to be good😕. Well yeah my poor Arjun is still reminiscing his past life with Purvi the ungrateful. And as for Purvi she is one hell of a confused soul, she wants Ovi to be cured and yet she stays in front of her eyes and has eye locks with her ex😳 (which i enjoy) . But then such small incidents again tells you that with Onir she is just fulfilling her duty and as u said she is a women of conventional morality so she will not open up about her hidden feelings for Arjun😉 who is her ex and hubby of her uh-so-possessive-obsessed-alcoholic sister.

It is for the same reason that I cannot see her having a passionate tryst with Arjun a day before their marriage. It would just not be her, a very conventional lower middle class girl brought up the way she has been. It is not just that I (and Janhvi and many others) do not WANT it to be so, We believe that the Purvi we knew could not possibly do any such thing. Let us see who is right.

I just know that the ArVi I fell in love were completely different to what we were shown on the night of their marriage. It was like i am seeing a complete stranger.
I no longer think that Purvi has any notion of breaking up with Onir, despite that very stupid letter she left behind. Today, she is shown regretting her harkat in leaving him like that, and waiting eagerly for him to come to Mumbai.

The very curious thing was in a long conversation with herself today, she did not once refer to the Ovi treatment issue, but only to her making up with Onir, about the solidity of their rishta surviving her harkat, and about the need for her to make a clean breast of her relationship with Arjun, the Ovi issue and all the rest to Onir. It thus seemed that she wanted to repair her relationship with Onir for its own sake, not to get him to treat Ovi.

My hope for arvi re-union is already gone and it baffles/annoys/irritates me to watch Purvi on screen now a days.
Now of course he will land at her doorstep just in time to save Ovi and of course he will treat her from then on. I have a feeling Ovi will turn over a new leaf as well, after her sessions with Manav yesterday and today. Let us see.

Take care, my dear. I tried to praise your last post on the pavitra/ apavitra rishta thread, but before I could do so, the moderators shut it down. So let me tell you here how much I liked that post of yours!
Thank you so much and I am happy you liked my post. Even after being an ArVi fan I can not deny the fact that ArVi rishta is no pavitra 😭
Shyamala Aunty

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

Dear Shyamala. those were the days, sigh! Whatever happened to those happy times?

I just put down an evil thought that popped into my head elsewhere on the forum. It would be a great twist if Arjun were not the father of either baby. Purvi's would be Onir's and Ovi's would be Romil's. Poor Arjun would then be free of both girls and their crosses. One can dream.

Hai Jhanvi !! If ONLY that would be it !!

Originally posted by: jdronamraju

Hai Jhanvi !! If ONLY that would be it !!

A free Arjun is what we all want :)..Never thought you would want that for our Arjun !! 😃..We can then get a perfect girl for Arjun who is not like either of the sisters :)..One can only dream !! ..

p.s. for some reaon, this is the first time I am on this thread ..have seen it but never opened it until now..😊..

Kesha, I don't think Purvi is uncomfortable at all with Onir touching her, when he is kneeling at her feet in the room and gets up putting his hand on her knee, she is as okay as any wife would be. She freely touches him too, even in his flashback when she pulls him back to eat breakfast. She never flinches or draws back, she might have looked a little uncomfortable when he wiped her eyes in front of Arjun but that very well might have been because of the unkind things Onir was saying about "Arjun's wife", Ovi.