Originally posted by: xoxoarvi
Purvi feels that she owes so much to the Deshmukhs.. Primarily Archana since she gave her a home and love even though she was an orphan. When she was with Archana these 18 years all Archu talked about was how much she wanted her family back.. Now that her family is back she somehow feels obligated to make sure they are always happy.. She always blames herself for Ovi's unhappiness...
But that is also wrong isn't it ?
Archana spoke to her about her wanting her family back because she had then believed that Manav also will come back one day when he will not be angry about Soham any more ...
Purvi was her daughter / friend and that is why she told her everything about her life ..but she neevr expected Purvi tyo sacrifise for her ...
If Purvi feels obligated because Archana adopted her then it means that she does not feel as if Archana is her own mother ...she feels like she has to pay debt to the woman who picked her up when she was a baby ..
I don't think that is a fair thing to do because Archana loves Purvi like her own daughter and it pains her a lot to see Purvi sacrifise ...
If we feel that we cannot do something that our parents want then we don't do it and we tell our parents and our parents love us and trust us enough to believe us ...
Why is Purvi also not doing it ...
It is true that Manav and Archana want Onir to treat Ovi but at the same time they have told Purvi to stop blaming herself ...Purvi should talk once to Onir ( for her parents sake ) bu tif he still does not agrees then she shoudl tell her parents and trust them that they wil lbelieve her ...Teju would have done that ...
Purvi should start believing in Archana as a proper real mother ...not someone who did a big ehsaan on her and the debt has to paid back by hook or by crook.,...
what should be between Purvi and Archana is a relationship of love , not a relationship of ehsaan and paying back debts ( even if that means hurting good people like Arjun or Onir )
Edited by Tanyaz - 13 years ago