Why Ovi is considered always wrong ? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Perfangel5655

I don't understand why fans here cry for logical stories when I rarely see fans here be logical themselves. The day Indian television producers see their audience can think for themselves maybe they will write decent stories.

I am not a fan of any of these couples. I could care less who ends up with who. None of them know the true meaning of love. If we went by their definition of love our lives would be ruined. I was watching the sbs video on both Ovi and Purvi being pregnant and the actress who plays Ovi was saying how Arjun is the reason all this is happening and he is the bad guy. When he goes to Purvi he says he can't forget her, when he comes to Ovi he says I am trying to forget my past but you have to help me and trust me. If you think about it then that is exactly what Ovi has been trying to do. She trusts Arjun when he says he has been trying to forget Purvi. Ovi is not a bad character, she doesn't go out of her way to make things miserable for these people. I mean think about it, if it wasn't for the misunderstanding that Purvi wants her husband, she doesn't even wish her ill. And which person doesn't have negative feeling toward our partner's ex? From where she stands, from all the things Punni says, from the circumstances that are created it does seem like Arjun and Purvi are carrying on an affair. She is not making these things up in her head. She has in the past tried to ignore these things but then something new appears.

Ovi by no means is right in her actions but neither are Arjun and Purvi. They are as much responsible for this as Ovi is. Arjun wasn't held at gunpoint when he got engaged to Ovi, and neither was was he held at gunpoint when he married her. He was not honorable at all in his actions. He was absolutely irresponsible when he broke Ovi's heart the first time. I don't understand how come none of us called him selfish then. He thought very little of what Ovi was going through. And he was actually her friend once. Now after he married her it's even worse. Any time he meets Purvi he tells her how he loves her. Even now, even after he is married, if Purvi had said yes to his advances he would leave Ovi in a heartbeat. So why is he not considered selfish?

The thing I realized about Indian tv is that the problems aren't these writers, or these characters. The problem is us!! We can't understand characters at all unless we are directly told by the show. Ovi is not a new type of spouse we have never seen on tv before. In many Ekta shows, take Kasam se for example Jai Walia was a very insecure spouse. He fell into Jigyasa's trap many times and kicked Bani out for thinking she had an affair with another man. But he was not bad, why? Because he is our leading man so how can he be bad. Sure he made mistakes but those can be overlooked since he is part of the leading couple. The way we judge these characters is absolutely ridiculous!! Arjun's character is much much worse than Ovi's.

Then people here also talk about values. Ovi sleeping with Arjun, her husband, the man she loves = disgusting! Purvi sleeping with her sister's ex, a man who is not her husband = beautiful! Ovi yelling at Purvi and accusing her for going after her husband= how dare she? Not once do people look at where Ovi is standing, from her perspective it does look like it. But Arjun slapping Ovi= Wah wah bravo!! I specially love how people here talk about their forced marriage. Ovi didn't force, she made a "deal" it was a proposition, where she would give something in exchange of Arjun. People here don't know what force means. Force implies there were no other option. Ovi only proposed a deal where even she knew her options of winning were low. Poor bechari, she couldn't even do the usual I will kill myself if you don't stop this. At least other girls in different shows have that leverage when blackmailing the heroine, because here neither her sister nor her former fiance/friend cared about her state. They were busy making marriage plans and having sex, while Ovi was planning to kill herself quietly. If anyone forced Arjun into this marriage it was Purvi. See this is how flawed people's judgement is here. Ovi is selfish for marrying the man she loves because he did not want to marry her, even though at this moment she is trying to be a good wife to him. But Purvi is not selfish for forcing him to marry a girl he did not love, where she didn't even know how his future wife might treat him. What kind of ridiculous scale do we judge these characters with? Only if Arjun would let her, Ovi would be an excellent partner to him. She didn't marry him for his money like other negative characters. She is supportive of him and his aspirations. She hasn't forced herself on him. She doesn't even blame him for abandoning her. This poor delusional girl holds him on a pedestal. All she wants is his love.

Originally posted by: Prtzy

First of all lemme clarify to you that neither I am Purvi-Arjun fan nor Ovi-Arjun fan. I am an audience providing an outside view on the current scenario.

From yesterday's epi. i guess a lot of Purvi- Arjun fans have been disappointed. But if seen logically, how is Ovi alone responsible for all? Maybe I am dumb enough to understand this but what I get to understand from my last 8-9 months of watching PV, is that Arjun is more responsible for the current scenario.

If I am not wrong, Arjun himself agreed for the engagement with Ovi.. Yes after that there were situations which made it very convincing that Arjun-Purvi would make a pair. But I am glad that this twist happened and Arjun-Ovi got married, because that's what happens in real life too. You don't get relieved from relationships that easy.

Everyone says that Purvi made a sacrifice for Ovi. But had Arjun-purvi got married, then no body would have said that Ovi sacrificed for them.

Again I am repeating this that i am not favoring anybody, but in my thinking Arjun-Ovi's marriage is much more acceptable for family than vice-versa. I still believe that intentionally or non-intentionally, Ovi got cheated by Arjun. Yes, he made it clear that he doesn't love Ovi but Purvi and he said it without showing any responsibility towards Ovi. But its not that simple in real life and the worse part was both Ovi and Purvi came out to be sisters.

The reason for my post is that I 've seen many posts bashing Ovi's character as selfish and blah blah... I guess everyone in life is a little selfish about his /her love and there's nothing wrong in it. And that's the main point. Ovi's feelings for Arjun are true, although from time to time she suspects him for having affair :P but i guess that understandable. I know its bad that Arjun-Purvi marriage didn't happen but I guess if seen logically, Arjun- Ovi's marriage seems more legitimate and fair to me.. Others may have different POV.

So maybe, in your reply, u can make me understand whose relationship seems more legitimate? Arjun-Ovi or Arjun-Purvi... 😊

Originally posted by: Prtzy

First of all lemme clarify to you that neither I am Purvi-Arjun fan nor Ovi-Arjun fan. I am an audience providing an outside view on the current scenario.

From yesterday's epi. i guess a lot of Purvi- Arjun fans have been disappointed. But if seen logically, how is Ovi alone responsible for all? Maybe I am dumb enough to understand this but what I get to understand from my last 8-9 months of watching PV, is that Arjun is more responsible for the current scenario.

If I am not wrong, Arjun himself agreed for the engagement with Ovi.. Yes after that there were situations which made it very convincing that Arjun-Purvi would make a pair. But I am glad that this twist happened and Arjun-Ovi got married, because that's what happens in real life too. You don't get relieved from relationships that easy.

Everyone says that Purvi made a sacrifice for Ovi. But had Arjun-purvi got married, then no body would have said that Ovi sacrificed for them.

Again I am repeating this that i am not favoring anybody, but in my thinking Arjun-Ovi's marriage is much more acceptable for family than vice-versa. I still believe that intentionally or non-intentionally, Ovi got cheated by Arjun. Yes, he made it clear that he doesn't love Ovi but Purvi and he said it without showing any responsibility towards Ovi. But its not that simple in real life and the worse part was both Ovi and Purvi came out to be sisters.

The reason for my post is that I 've seen many posts bashing Ovi's character as selfish and blah blah... I guess everyone in life is a little selfish about his /her love and there's nothing wrong in it. And that's the main point. Ovi's feelings for Arjun are true, although from time to time she suspects him for having affair :P but i guess that understandable. I know its bad that Arjun-Purvi marriage didn't happen but I guess if seen logically, Arjun- Ovi's marriage seems more legitimate and fair to me.. Others may have different POV.

So maybe, in your reply, u can make me understand whose relationship seems more legitimate? Arjun-Ovi or Arjun-Purvi... 😊

Originally posted by: Prtzy

First of all lemme clarify to you that neither I am Purvi-Arjun fan nor Ovi-Arjun fan. I am an audience providing an outside view on the current scenario.

From yesterday's epi. i guess a lot of Purvi- Arjun fans have been disappointed. But if seen logically, how is Ovi alone responsible for all? Maybe I am dumb enough to understand this but what I get to understand from my last 8-9 months of watching PV, is that Arjun is more responsible for the current scenario.

If I am not wrong, Arjun himself agreed for the engagement with Ovi.. Yes after that there were situations which made it very convincing that Arjun-Purvi would make a pair. But I am glad that this twist happened and Arjun-Ovi got married, because that's what happens in real life too. You don't get relieved from relationships that easy.

Everyone says that Purvi made a sacrifice for Ovi. But had Arjun-purvi got married, then no body would have said that Ovi sacrificed for them.

Again I am repeating this that i am not favoring anybody, but in my thinking Arjun-Ovi's marriage is much more acceptable for family than vice-versa. I still believe that intentionally or non-intentionally, Ovi got cheated by Arjun. Yes, he made it clear that he doesn't love Ovi but Purvi and he said it without showing any responsibility towards Ovi. But its not that simple in real life and the worse part was both Ovi and Purvi came out to be sisters.

The reason for my post is that I 've seen many posts bashing Ovi's character as selfish and blah blah... I guess everyone in life is a little selfish about his /her love and there's nothing wrong in it. And that's the main point. Ovi's feelings for Arjun are true, although from time to time she suspects him for having affair :P but i guess that understandable. I know its bad that Arjun-Purvi marriage didn't happen but I guess if seen logically, Arjun- Ovi's marriage seems more legitimate and fair to me.. Others may have different POV.

So maybe, in your reply, u can make me understand whose relationship seems more legitimate? Arjun-Ovi or Arjun-Purvi... 😊

Originally posted by: ambolove

Apparently people finding it sickening that Arjun just confessed his love for his saali and how it is incest fail to realise that even when Ovi knew of Arjun Purvis relationship, she still tried her upmost to get her soon to be jeeju to marry her. Yes she gave up at the 11th hour BUT she did try to hand over a wad of money to purvi in a bid to buy her hone wala jeeju off purvi rather than bow out gracefully. She did try to make the deal first with money. Wouldn't you call that incest too? Trying to buy your hone wala jeeju off your sister? Would you ever buy your hone wala jeeju off your sister? In actual fact Ovi married her hone wala jeeju and no one can change that fact either. P.S I am on neither side but all characters should be viewed with equal consideration. None of this why is ovi blamed, why is purvi blamed, why is arjun blamed? We all view characters differently. We fail to see the shortcomings of those characters that we love. And those people who so eloquently put it that ovi is completely right and both arjun and purvi are completely wrong need to wipe their rose tinted glasses.