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Posted: 13 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: Prtzy

First of all lemme clarify to you that neither I am Purvi-Arjun fan nor Ovi-Arjun fan. I am an audience providing an outside view on the current scenario.

From yesterday's epi. i guess a lot of Purvi- Arjun fans have been disappointed. But if seen logically, how is Ovi alone responsible for all? Maybe I am dumb enough to understand this but what I get to understand from my last 8-9 months of watching PV, is that Arjun is more responsible for the current scenario.

If I am not wrong, Arjun himself agreed for the engagement with Ovi.. Yes after that there were situations which made it very convincing that Arjun-Purvi would make a pair. But I am glad that this twist happened and Arjun-Ovi got married, because that's what happens in real life too. You don't get relieved from relationships that easy.

Everyone says that Purvi made a sacrifice for Ovi. But had Arjun-purvi got married, then no body would have said that Ovi sacrificed for them.

Again I am repeating this that i am not favoring anybody, but in my thinking Arjun-Ovi's marriage is much more acceptable for family than vice-versa. I still believe that intentionally or non-intentionally, Ovi got cheated by Arjun. Yes, he made it clear that he doesn't love Ovi but Purvi and he said it without showing any responsibility towards Ovi. But its not that simple in real life and the worse part was both Ovi and Purvi came out to be sisters.

The reason for my post is that I 've seen many posts bashing Ovi's character as selfish and blah blah... I guess everyone in life is a little selfish about his /her love and there's nothing wrong in it. And that's the main point. Ovi's feelings for Arjun are true, although from time to time she suspects him for having affair :P but i guess that understandable. I know its bad that Arjun-Purvi marriage didn't happen but I guess if seen logically, Arjun- Ovi's marriage seems more legitimate and fair to me.. Others may have different POV.

So maybe, in your reply, u can make me understand whose relationship seems more legitimate? Arjun-Ovi or Arjun-Purvi... 😊







I think It's really unfair with Ovi that Arjun didn't want to marry her instead he loved purvi but as far as I understood that whole thing..I think it was like Arjun only took her as his best friend but Ovi always loved him! ...I FIRSTLY DONT THINK OVI LOVES ARJUN! she never did! It was like a childhood toy for her who she was so used to be playing with and when somone else (purvi) was taking that toy away from her she wanted it back!
whatever it was! The fact is Arjun and Purvi loved each other! And if Purvi can consider that Ovi is her sister and let Arjun go why couldn't ovi do that!
Who's selfish here? Ovi! ...
Plus the family has never told her to stop doing the wrong thing instead they keep n forgiving her!

Edited by Shehreen_27 - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#52
i think that the family keeps appeasing ovi, which makes her thinks she can do anything. She doesn't care about love, she is infatuated, and is unrealistic abut life. Purvi leaves. This not only shows us that bloods thicker than water, but that neither girls care abt him
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Posted: 13 years ago
#53
Sumtimes I think tht Arjun doesn't try hard enuff to forget abt Purvi and sometimes he tries but there are places where Ovi is unreasonable cuz she rushes the guy to forget Purvi but its hard for him to forget Purvi
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Posted: 13 years ago
#54
when Arjun decided to marry Ovi it was not out of love, Arjun never believed that he would ever fall in love with anyone. but he did. he fell deeply in love with purvi. he tried on many occasions to tell Ovi the he has fallen in love with purvi, but something always kept getting in the way.
when he got engaged to Ovi, the engagment was anounced in public without Arjun being infrormed. he let the engagement happen to keep the familys honner in tack.
Ovi is selfish, she refused to believe that Arjun did not love her, she was the one being totally unreasonable, trying to commite suisicde, trowing tantrams and blaming purvi for everything.
she was even upset and against manav saving purvi from the kidnappers. add heartlessness to her list of faults.
she had more then a month to get used to the idea that Arjun does not love her, he love's purvi. he is marrying purvi. then to she blackmailed pruvi to give Arjun to her for Archana sake. Purvi indepted to Archana, could not put her happiness before that of Archana who had been pinying for her family for the past 18 years.
now after 8 months of marriage Ovi has realised that Arjun is her husband and gives her all the rights of a wife, including sleaping with her. but he doesnt love her still.
Ovi by nature is not endearing, she is spoilt, and selfish, she is has pride and is mean, she thinks she is better the others, and therefore deservs the best. she has no feeling of emphety. other peoples pain does not effect her. she is all about me, myself and I. these innate qualities does not make it easy to love her.
unlike purvi, who is kind and selfless, who treats everybody with respect and affection. she cares for others more the her self. and that makes her more loveable.
if you look at the way Archana sees ovi it not with pride but disopointment. but when she looks at Tuju and purvi the is pride on her face. they say a mother knows her children best. she loves them all, but she also knows their faults and their strengths.
while Soham and Ovi, desopoint,
Teju, Purvi and Sachin make her proud.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I think Ovi needs help though cuz you can hear the craziness in her voice wen she's arguing with Arjun or anyone else she is just scary
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Posted: 13 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: Binge

Actually it was only after the latest slap episode that I began to like Ovi and her character. Arjun had no right to slap his wife for his ex infront of the whole party. Made me think what kind of man he was-claiming his love for Purvi when he should hate her for bartering him for her mother's happiness.


Ovi is more right than the leads themselves. Nothing wrong in flawed characters but portraying them like saints and victims is funny here. And now that Ovi expects Arjun to be there while she's expecting, I think she's fully justified. The least he could have done is keep her happy and free from insecurities since they are both childhood friends and Purvi had truly moved away from him. Unless he had completely gotten over Purvi, he shouldn't have gone ahead with Ovi in the first place.

I dont think Ovi wants Arjun there because she is expecting, she chose to have the baby because she thought the arjun will love her. but Ovi is true to form. first she hated Purvi becauese Arjun loved purvi. now she hates the baby becauese Arjun love the many more. which expcting mother will knowing harm her own child by drinking alchole. now just because things are not going the way she wanted she is filled wtih bitterness. and still she blames Purvi. not once has she accepted that she made the mistake by marrying Arjun knowing he is in love with purvi. Purvi left her family her home, everybody she loves and cares for just so that ovi could be happy, what else must she do kill herself so that selfish Ovi can be happy. I hate women like Ovi. and i dont believe they deserve any happiness in life, becauese their lives are built on the ashes of anothers person broken dreames and pain.
being a husband and providing her with all her needs is one thing. a couple can do that without loving eachother. and that is what Arjun is doing keeping his promice to Pruvi to give Ovi the status of wife. but he neve promice that he would give her his love.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@merrydock: Ovi is a an unreasonable, insecure, childish, spoiled brat. And the only mistake I think Purvi and Arjun made was meeting frequently for this Soham thing. But I rarely look at the show so I'm not sure if they made any other mistakes
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I dont understand why u guys r giving credits to Ovi!!!!!!!! Seriously which good sister would tell the other one to give up their love just because SHE wants him???????? Ovi is only a spoiled brat wo thinks she can get everything she wants!!!!!! Arjun and Purvi r to be blamed also becoz they went along with her stupid illusion... BUT WHAT COULD'VE PURVI DONE???? SHE ALWAYS WANTED HER MOM TO BE ACCEPTED AND TREATED WELL BY HER IN LAWS AND OVI PROMISED TO MAKE THAT HAPPEN..only if she gets Arjun!!!!!!! Put yourselves in Arjun's position Do u think u can forget your TRUE love that easily??? AS I ALWAYS SAY ARJUN WENT ALONG WITH THIS SHAADI BECOZ OF PURVI...WHATEVER MAKES HER HAPPY...Do u think u would've easily fell in love with THAT WOMAN who separated u from your love????? Now put yourself in Purvi's position...The girl loves her mom dearly and always wants her to be happy...wouldn't u take that one opportunity to give your mother that one happiness back to be reunited with her family????? Also if PURVI-ARJUN would've married then the entire Deshmukh Parivaar would've blamed Archu. Purvi also thought about that too. NO??? OVI'S BEHAVIOUR IS JUST THAT OF JEALOUSY...Purvi is trying really hard to forget Arjun, avoiding him and all. Arjun is trying to accept Ovi as his wife and come to reality that Purvi is no longer his , BUT OVI IS JUST PLAIN OUT NOT SEEING IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! POOR GIRL IS INSECURE. she caused pain to ARJUN & PURVI. U THINK SHE CAN GET AWAY WITH IT? there is something by the name of Karma. and i truly believe in it
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@lovelysimi_15: yea I agree with u but I don't wanna put myself in Aarjun's shoes cuz I don't want to imagine living with a psycho and it is said wen u spend too much time with a mad person u become just lyk them so Arjun better watch out😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: swaggerchick16

@lovelysimi_15: yea I agree with u but I don't wanna put myself in Aarjun's shoes cuz I don't want to imagine living with a psycho and it is said wen u spend too much time with a mad person u become just lyk them so Arjun better watch out😆

SO true dear!!!!!!1😆🤣 I have to say Arjun truly has patience. If it was me...SIGH🤢
Edited by lovelysimi_15 - 13 years ago

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