Originally posted by: ambolove
Then same thing applies for both purvi and ovi. Both of them treatied him as an object. So he should be with neither. Purvi sold him and Ovi bought him.
-i agree,thats wat am saying arjun should have kicked bth the girls out for tking him as an object,but wat he did,he got married to ovi,tat time he dint evn care a damn for ovi feelings,he later came to know abt ovis deal
Again, Ovi loves arjun but arjun does not love Ovi, that does not mean that arjun should stick with her just because she loves him! I mean hundreds of men could seriously be in love with me so based on that concept, I'm not going to marry the whole lot of them just because they love me!
-i agree,he shldnt have sticked around,it was arjun fault who got engaged wid ovi,knowing her feelings for him
he knew ovi luvs him,he got married to ovi not for her but to prove purvi sumtin,he dint did a favour on ovi,he ddi it for purvi
No he needs to make his own decision based on whom he loves and will always love and he needs to be with that person only! I'd rather he be with someone he loves rather than be with someone he doesn't love for the rest of his life.
Ovi in actual fact is not in love with Arjun, there is such a thing as infatuation and lust, I can see the infatuation as clear as daylight, it's right there in her eyes. I mean Arjun Kirloskar is handsome, successful, who the hell wouldn't want him! I'd jump at the chance 😆
-i dont agree,ovi is neither obsessed nor infactuated wid arjun,
in fact she luvs him the most,i have never seen her dreaming about her suhaag raat or seducing arjun
i agree wid u here,evn i wld jump on sum 1 like rithwik but not arjun
Ovi wanted him at any cost, so much so that she would have paid someone to buy him if she could have.
-she was madly in luv wid arjun,and the deal thing came on mind cause of punni,
she was the one who hated archu the most,but she was ready to thrw her hatered away cause of arjun
i remember manav going to dharmesh once,when archu was admitted
i cld see teh same desperation in ovis eys that day whn she had gne to meet archu and purvi
And trust me that's not what you call love. Love is all about letting go and thinking about the other persons happiness to the point where you know that if they didn't love you then you would step aside and let them be whoever or whatever they wanted to be, where ever they wanted to be and with whoever they wanted to be.
-its just soo bookish,in real wrld can u really see the person u luv getting married to sum1 else,that too ur step sister and ur mom throwing it every occasion on ur face
You would step aside and let them lead a happy, complete life without causing even a little bit of pain to them. Every pain that they feel is visible to you but I don't see Ovi acknowledge Arjun's pain at all. She doesn't see it or feel it. There is no connection there. She's in a downward spiral drowning in her own miseries and thinking about her own relationship with Arjun too much.
-if ovi couldnt see arjuns pain,did arvi saw ovis pain when they were getting married.
arjun shld had gne to ovi and apologised and explained to her,no1 else but only arjun cld have handeld the situation properly
I still believe Arvi relationship is pavitra because they have in no way had a physical or emotional relationship with anyone else other than and apart from each other, that is why I still see their relationship as pure.
-i feel ovi luv is pure cause she was commited to arjun very faithfully,she had guys who wnted her,but for her it was and still is only arjun,
I mean if Arjun wanted he could have had his Suhaag Raat with Ovi, nothing was stopping him, Ovi's his wife at the end of the day. But he proved that he wasn't like other men, that the thought of a physical relationship with Ovi hadn't even crossed his mind.
-if ovi wants she can seduced arjun,no1 can stop her doing that,but she wnts her luv.