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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: sherma

i wanted ovi to move on luv befre arjun-ovi got married

but not any more,i feel arjun shld geta life and realise the girl whom he luved care a damn for him,ulta alwys tries to oppose him
he shld live his life wid ovi and mve bck to cananda
where did i tld archu-purvi dont cre for ovi,i said bth womens dont care for their luvs ie manav and arjun and they them for granted



but my take is archu n purvi dnt care for ovi... she should leave arjun , he is a jerk. he only cares for purvi,what if he accepts his marriage with ovi he will still see purvi..so she better find another n leave this jerk
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi still has good people around her.
Everyone in the family told Ovi, Arjun doesn't love her. but Ovi didn't beleive.
She went and made a deal with Purvi. Purvi gave away her love for ovi.
Ovi married Arjun, no one blamed her decision. all are so good accepted their marriage.
Ovi doubted Arjun, no one pointed it as her fault. Archu advised her.
Ovi built her marriage on a deal. she did with her own knowledge. Purvi didn't make intial step to make deal with her. Ovi took advantage of Purvi's soft nature. no difference between Sachin's deal to Archu and Ovi's deal to Purvi.
Her foundation on marriage itself is shaky. When the foundation is not strong then how can Ovi expect her marriage to be strong. Ovi took decision of marrying Arjun with her full conscious. i don't think Ovi will break this marriage.
If Romil falls in love with Purvi then Ovi will be jealous too. she will try to keep him away from Purvi
Ovi logic is very plain. she likes a person. she wants to keep it with her whether that person likes or not.
She liked Arjun from his childhood and she want him to be with her always.
Earlier when Manav supported Archu she got angry for raising hands on her for Archu.
when truth revealed Ovi didn't invite Purvi. but she took Archu away.
Now seeing Purvi with Archu, Ovi is not happy.
She is happy when Arjun gave her preference.
Girls liking preference is okay but it depends on situaiton.
For Ovi, her likes and dislikes are important. she never cares about others.
Really Ovi's character is very pathetic in real life. those girls usually won't be happy in any situation. and won't allow others to be happy to. satisfying them is very difficult.
Edited by newt2007 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#53
@newt 2007: - i agree with u dear... no one ever said anything to ovi... i wonder why manav is not angry with ovi for spoiling purvi's life ,but back then he was angry with purvi for loving arjun... so what great thing did ovi did now that he is not angry with her n used his n archana's divorce as a deal for the so called marriage..i still wonder... archana n manav should step in to clear this mess ,as it was created to save their marriage they agree or not.purvi did it for archana only..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Archu and Manav not taking step to clear the mess because Arjun and Ovi are married.

Manav got angry on Purvi for loving Arjun because they are not married.
Indian culture is like that. Once they are married the society will accept. Archu knowing that marriage is deal ka rishta, she gave confidence to Ovi saying its PR
Till now no one from D family pointed fingers on Ovi for taking that decision. all are happy and kept reception for that deal marriage.
Archu got angry on Purvi but stayed silent and went to enjoy her reunion with Manav. Teju advised Purvi to forget the past. Sulo understood Purvi's heart, still she can't do anything. Manav didn't care about Purvi. He doesn't even ask Ovi, why she did like that?
To Manav, Purvi loving Arjun is unforgivable mistake. but Ovi's deal marriage is acceptable and he is happy for her. because Ovi is his blood whereas Purvi is not.
Once Teju falls in love with a guy, Ovi will start seeing the difference between her relationship with Arju, past and and present.
Edited by newt2007 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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hope that happens newt2007// i want ovi to regret for this marriage her whole life..
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Posted: 12 years ago
#56

Ovi never had the habit of listening to other. she didn't learn anything from Archu and Manav relationship.

Teju falling for a guy or Sachin falling for a girl will surely open her eyes.
but more toture ahead. she will ask Arjun to do the same with her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: crazygirl4RD

@newt 2007: - i agree with u dear... no one ever said anything to ovi... i wonder why manav is not angry with ovi for spoiling purvi's life ,but back then he was angry with purvi for loving arjun... so what great thing did ovi did now that he is not angry with her n used his n archana's divorce as a deal for the so called marriage..i still wonder... archana n manav should step in to clear this mess ,as it was created to save their marriage they agree or not.purvi did it for archana only..



Ovi spoiling Purvi life?
What are you saying my dear..it was Purvi spoiling her own life..not only hers..she ruined arjun life too.
Ovi make a deal..and purvi agrees..did anyone force her or threat her to accept the deal.
No...it was her own decision.
She could simply say no to Ovi..and live happily with Arjun.
But she chose the other way.

Now who's spoiling Purvi life?
Her own self.


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Posted: 12 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: sipokobusak



Ovi spoiling Purvi life?
What are you saying my dear..it was Purvi spoiling her own life..not only hers..she ruined arjun life too.
Ovi make a deal..and purvi agrees..did anyone force her or threat her to accept the deal.
No...it was her own decision.
She could simply say no to Ovi..and live happily with Arjun.
But she chose the other way.

Now who's spoiling Purvi life?
Her own self.


If you have to choose between you and your parents happiness obviously one will choose parents happiness thats what Purvi did, I agree she did not think about Arjun and she lost him but if Purvi is not happy OVI also does nt deserve any happy marriage with Arjun, she will always be insecure and jealous with Purvi and thats her punishment even if she spent all her life with Arjun.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: Ashi22

If you have to choose between you and your parents happiness obviously one will choose parents happiness thats what Purvi did, I agree she did not think about Arjun and she lost him but if Purvi is not happy OVI also does nt deserve any happy marriage with Arjun, she will always be insecure and jealous with Purvi and thats her punishment even if she spent all her life with Arjun.



Well she chose her mother happiness..that's fine. I respect that. She can get over Arjun and find another man in her life.
But why tell Arjun to marry Ovi? She ruined Arjun life.
And Arjun just obey Purvi's request. That's his own decision too.
And so many blaming Ovi for ArVi separation..lol.

Arjun Ovi marriage is going not well after they got married..but as we can see in recent episodes..both of them decided making effort to make their marriage a success.
Now that's a good progress..don't you think?
Slowly slowly...they will understand each other more..having children..fall in love..and live happily ever after.




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Posted: 12 years ago
#60
Now we can put blame on our choice of person
Actually most suffering people are Arjun and Purvi. Some extent Ovi too not happy.
If Savita's truth didn't comeout and Purvi didn't agree to Ovi's deal then all will call Purvi as a selfish person.
Now truth is out and Archu and Manav are together. we can put the blame on Purvi for sacrificing because her sacrifice didn't have any significance now.
If Ovi didn't bring that deal Purvi won't have sacrificed her love. Purvi didn't ask Arjun to marry someone else. Arjun and Ovi are known to each other and they are engaged too. Purvi know Arjun will try to work out his marriage between him and Ovi and keep Ovi happy. This shows Purvi's trust on Arjun.
We can say Arjun is a doll in both girls hand. but Arjun had a choice of rejecting his marriage with Ovi. but he didn't do that. he know Purvi does everything for others happiness.
Arjun and Purvi sacrificed their love for others happiness. they didn't spoil their own life. they killed their happiness for others. this will look foolish to others but without that no one in this world can live happy. only selfish people will not be ready to sacrifice their love and happiness.
In reality these sacrifices will be blessed by God.
Here EK is God and she has the option of blessing Arjun and Purvi.

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